Trump provides no real answers, just grievances

Yes. In mandatory Palestine before Israel was a thing, Arab nationalists were murdering Jews, this is what started the cycle of violence in earnest and is one of the reasons they banded together in self-defense and formed Israel.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_killings_and_massacres_in_Mandatory_Palestine

Yeah it's pretty weird, but if it's not hurting anyone and you both are okay with it, so what? I wouldn't expect others to be supportive of it though so maybe keep it to yourself unless you want to deal with blowback.