[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 14 points 1 year ago

I was wondering what that smell in the room was, unchecked privilege or weeks without a shower.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago

*Preserved crawfish and lobster, which tastes like shit because it's been transported in a barrel for many days.

Most of what we eat today is either fresh or frozen, not mushy decomposing meat.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 19 points 1 year ago

I don't know OP situation so I'll reserve some judgment. However, I'm really tired of rhetoric about how alimony is always some evil scheme made to specifically destroy men in divorces.

When people get married, often times one of them gives up their job and start performing unpaid labor. Sometimes neither of them give up their jobs, and one of them still has the majority of household burdens forced onto them, affecting their career and performance.

Alimony is a form of compensation for the unpaid labor and it's impact on that person's career. More often than not, when people say 'my ex wife is taking all my money', what they are really saying is 'I deserved free labor at the expense of my ex wife'.

Granted, it's possible that OP could be a domestic abuse victim in which case alimony is a whole other form of fucked up. But if that's not the case, then please stop.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago

This isn't reddit. People actually get tired of the 'what's the sexiest thing you have sexed?' questions.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago

Young people these days give me hope for the future.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 17 points 1 year ago

The implication here is that this person has been beaten as a child before and understands what 'la chancla' means.

No, I'm not dense. I'm just capable of understanding context.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 15 points 1 year ago

Christ can you not understand that most feminists fundamentally disagree with TERFs? I don't know why you are so insistant to lump them with actual feminist. Maybe consider listening to feminists, like me, instead of perpetually mansplaining about what feminists are.

It's not a 'general perception' that all feminists are TERFs. It's what your perception and the perceptions of other anti-feminists. Hell most normal men, who are feminists with or without labels, don't share your perception. You seem to have this warped perception that all feminists are out to get you and hate on men, when the reality is so far from the radicalized scheme that you think it is. People like you perceive the existance of feminism as an attack on you. It's not. It's not even about you, because you don't seem to care about men's issues either. It's about everyone else who wants to lift men and women above the patriarchy.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 11 points 1 year ago

As someone who got fibromyalgia in their 20s, that's what life is like.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Cantonese: 陳大文 (can4 daai6 man4) Japanese: 山田太郎 (yamada taro)

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Not saying this is the case for you, but some people use 'dark humor' as a front for thinly veiled racism or sexism and the deliberate offense is what's not tolerated.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Girl boring guy quirky.

(definitely not casual sexism)

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