as someone who loves video games, i'm not addicted. i don't play every day either. i mainly like my fiancee's interests but there's some stuff i may not like and i still engage if she wants me to.
even when i play games, i still make time for my fiancee and she makes time for me. you can let someone know about your interests and invite them, but don't force them like he did if they say no.
he sounded a bit unhealthy for you anyway, you'll find someone tho.
agreed, my fiancee got made fun of once because she said something wrong in a language i kind of speak, portuguese. she tried her best, though. :(