Conveniently, this post was in my feed just a page or two later. You got a bug up your derriere, Nougat?
SanctimoniousApe
joined 8 months ago
Speaking from personal experience, having such a "fully formed frontal cortex" doesn't guarantee enough maturity to prevent problems more commonly associated with childhood. There's roughly 25 years of life determining your thought processes before you reach that point of brain development, and it can easily take just as long (or even longer) to realize the problems with (and correct, if they're strong & brave enough to do so) poorly developed thought processes from those early years. That's why there are so many divorces even well into people's later years.
Unfortunately, many never manage to undo the damage wrought by their childhood. The asshole moving (back, unbelievably) into the White House & his supporters are living proof.
I get that & can appreciate that to a point. However, I can't help but think it would be better not to have the two intertwined in your head - each of them are distinct individuals, and IMHO it's not a good idea to deliberately set one up in the mold of the other. To me, at least, it's simply a matter of respect for her as a her own person.
I'm guessing your comment is directed at mine, and I can only come up with two possible reasons for not responding directly to me - either you:
- didn't want to engage a potential troll, which would be understandable if my phrasing hadn't been reasonably respectful (at least that's what I tried to be - feel free to let me know how I missed the mark if not), or...
- looking for even the most vague hint of a reason to assume the worst about people, and then passive-aggressively trolling them for it. Frankly, this is what your (avoidance of) approach came off as to me, and it's an especially cheap shot for the unwarranted lack of respect by not talking about me to my (virtual) face.
I'll freely admit I've never been part of this community. I'm just a somewhat older introverted cis guy whose life wound up being a pointless waste of an existence in no small part due to bullying (only outdone by extremely poor & dishonest parenting, along with a strong predisposition to depression/anxiety). It's that bullying I experienced that led me to make the comment I did. I'm quite sure I needn't explain to anybody who's part of this community how damaging bullying can be to your psyche.
Yeah, as adults such bullying isn't usually as simple and blatant as it is for kids, but that's not always the case - just look at the asshole who's about to move back into the White House for a prime example. You'll pardon me if the utterly - unbelievably - absurd amount of support that supreme leader of all bullies gets has made me fear the worst.
Wait. TEXAS?!? W. T. ACTUAL F?!?!?
Though engagement increased slightly midyear, it declined through the rest of 2024, finishing the year at its decade low.
I can't help wondering if this blip coincided with Harris announcing her run - kinda doubt it, but I'm curious.
I hope for both of your sakes that nothing is ever read into the fact that name contains the word "man." It's just the kind of thing so many childish assholes would make a big deal of.
Sounds like a crappy idea...
Congrats, & TYVM!
"I'm sorry, I can't accept that. Well, except maybe this once."
Does it count if my pet peeve is that I inadvertantly wound up having to do myself?
While I see the usefulness of this, I kinda hate the idea of having to rely upon social contacts to discover communities that would be of interest to me - I'm not terribly social, and I don't keep a collection of online friends. I come out of my hole, look around, get my fix of whatever I need at that moment, then hide away again. Yeah, it's pathetic, but that's my life. Please don't make my world any smaller.