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submitted 1 month ago by pixelmeow@lemmy.world to c/arctic@lemmy.world

Didn’t realize I was on a profile and voted on a post. The post above it showed the vote and vote count in response. Happens on up and down votes. Does not happen in my feed.

https://imgur.com/a/SEqLZBH

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 86 points 1 month ago

I went through menopause just a few years ago. It threw everything into an upheaval. Thank goodness I didn’t have a partner to be like this to, but therapy definitely helped. She is absolutely going through a lot, physically and mentally, and will be for years. I still have hot flash episodes for weeks at a time and it’s always different.

Your feelings are valid. You have every right to them. Just because someone is going through chemical changes in their body doesn’t mean they can abuse you like this. Telling you that you have no right to your feelings is emotional abuse and she has no right to do that to you. You both need help to get through this, whether separate or together, but this is all new and for you to be told to sit down and shut up is just heartbreaking. Everything happening to her is also happening to you because it seems to me that she’s taking it all out on you and yeah, that affects you.

You are not dumb or stupid. You are caring and sympathetic to what she’s going through, and she reacts to this with hostility and arrogance. I can’t imagine anyone is obligated to put up with that from anyone, for any reason. It might change in time, but not if she never acknowledges the validity of your feelings and your right to have them.

I’m so sorry this is happening to you.

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submitted 2 months ago by pixelmeow@lemmy.world to c/cat@lemmy.world

melts

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 9 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

This is a portulaca, you can tell by the little seed pods that develop after the flower petals wilt and drop off. They can change color depending on sunlight and how much water they’re getting. I would say the as long as they’re not shriveling they’re probably fine. This one may prefer the partial shade, and make sure the water can drain.

Developing seed pods

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submitted 6 months ago by pixelmeow@lemmy.world to c/arctic@lemmy.world

When you tap on a post that has a video link, it initially seems to show a Piped link, but it quickly changes to YouTube. I’m not sure if this is how it’s supposed to be but thought you might want to know.

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 23 points 6 months ago

I heard it called that back around 1985.

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submitted 6 months ago by pixelmeow@lemmy.world to c/arctic@lemmy.world

This has been happening since the beginning, I just kept putting off posting. When I vote on a comment inside a post, the vote disappears if I fold the parent comment or if I scroll far enough that the voted comment goes offscreen. Sometimes the second attempt at voting sticks, today that isn’t working. The video shows the second attempt at voting on these comments.

I figured it must be just me since nobody else posted about it but maybe it’s not just me?

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submitted 6 months ago by pixelmeow@lemmy.world to c/arctic@lemmy.world

On a user’s cake day, the slice of cake icon appears next to their username like in the other place. I know Apollo reflected this, is it possible in Arctic?

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 16 points 6 months ago

Birds can’t taste it like we do. You can get bird feed covered in red pepper to keep other animals from eating it. I’m not sure a bird would eat a pepper, anyway, but 🤷🏼‍♀️

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[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 7 points 7 months ago

I see Ian McKellen in several of those faces!

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 8 points 8 months ago
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cross-posted from: https://lemmy.world/post/12029106

I love that 'moon' is written under 'place.'

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We are pleased to announce that the Winter 2023-'24 issue of The Heinlein Journal has been released. Your membership in the Heinlein Society entitles you to download this issue and any of Volume 2 (issues 25-31). You will receive your authorization code via the email address you have registered with the Society.

Issue Contents:

  1. “You modern kids don’t get any education, do you?” Literary Allusion in Heinlein’s Juveniles

    An analysis of authors and works referenced in Robert A. Heinlein’s books for young adults, by Peter M. McCluskey

  2. Heinlein’s Influence on Dating and Marriage Patterns in America: A Perspective

    Did Robert A. Heinlein singlehandedly change the course of human relationships in America? Do we have more multiple relationships, open marriages, transgender acceptance, and polyamory because of the books he has written? by Glen W. Olson

  3. Fifty Years of Polyamory in America: A Review

    Book review: Fifty Years of Polyamory in America: A Guided Tour of a Growing Movement, by Glen W. Olson and Terry Lee Brussel-Rogers, by BE Allatt

  4. Heinlein in the Comics

    A full, illustrated list of Heinlein’s works as interpreted in or adapted by comics and graphic novels, from 1950 to 2023, by John Tilden

  5. Robert A. Heinlein to Ray Bradbury, August 9, 1940

    A letter between friends and colleagues, by Jonathan R. Eller

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 8 points 9 months ago

My boss, along with thousands of other people, was in his car commuting between VA and DC on the 14th street bridge. The plane went right over that bridge to crash into the pentagon. Thousands of cars on the surface streets around the pentagon. Thousands of people in the mid-rise buildings in Crystal City and surrounding areas saw the plane. Everyone driving that morning saw the plane. You cannot discount a plane when so many actually saw it, just because you didn’t.

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 15 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

They’re turning down the free steak because the [insert ethnicity/whatever difference here] person might get one too.

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I’m reading Time Enough For Love. Lazarus is getting back into his country doctor persona because Llita is pregnant.

I love to read this book every few years, I get something different from it each time.

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[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

There’s a fantastic book series based on exactly this: The Change Series. This is a double storyline with the Emberverse series in which the present time beginning in March 1998 loses electricity and “most forms of high-energy-density technology” due to "The Change", which occurs at 6:15 p.m. Pacific Standard Time, March 17, 1998.

The companion series, which was written first, is the Nantucket Series, in which the island of Nantucket is transported back in time to 1250 BC due to something called "The Event", the same Event that caused The Change. But— they got to keep all their physics intact.

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 16 points 1 year ago

Working to rid yourself of those biases is absolutely good and worth it. I commend you.

[-] pixelmeow@lemmy.world 13 points 1 year ago

👋🏻👋🏻👋🏻

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