Is driving a car this awful all the time? (self.asklemmy)

submitted 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago) by Platypus to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

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I'm doing the driving lessons and I dread them every time. I don't feel like I'm improving much and it's just stressful. I feel like giving up. I'm only going because I passed the theory exam with that school, and i would had to spend more money (that I don't have) if I start again with other school, basically I'm too deep into it to stop.

Btw I now understand the hate towards manual cars. Automatic should be the only option, one less BIG distraction on the road, especially when you're new on these things, being too soft or too rough on the clutch is a matter of millimeters is ridiculous, watching the road, the signs, the traffic lights, the cars around you, the stupid people with their bikes, while fumbling in the car with the pedals is the worst... (unfortunately you must learn manual where I'm living).

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[-] Speculater@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago

Think of your favorite video game or hobby, do you have to remember each movement and action? Driving is like that, eventually it's just an extension of your ability to move about.

[-] Platypus 2 points 3 weeks ago

Dude, the difference is that with a game nothing happens when you fuck up. I can mess with it All I want. That's just not possible on the road in any way.

[-] Mushroomm@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 weeks ago

Go to a parking lot and frig around till you get it? I mean e brake turns and slipping and sliding in icy parking lots in winter is how most good drivers get good. In order to be safe accidentally out of control, you've got to experience what that feels like in a safe, intentional way.

This also removes a bit of the fear factor and anxiety which imo cause as much or more accidents than anything else. Most friends I have that aren't great drivers are scared of driving. Thanks to their fears and indecision, they've got more accidents and fender benders than anyone.

Confidence is key.

[-] Platypus 1 points 1 week ago

I can't go anywhere. Nobody here has license to take out the car

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