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Being loved or at least desired by someone must be nice (self.casualconversation)
submitted 6 months ago by Platypus to c/casualconversation@lemm.ee
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If you read my previous post on other place I asked about dating and most responses sounded like it was nice. Yes, I'm aware that relationships are not only good times (I've seen my mother being tired of her partner and scared of my father) but when you have literally NOTHING in your life you can't help to idolising the things you never had...

I don't think that's weird, but it's definitely sad

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[–] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 1 points 6 months ago

Yes, you do have to fix yourself before you can create stable interpersonal relationships, because what happens is that you can end up bringing some of that negative energy into whatever relationship you find yourself in, creating a burden for those around you.

This could then lead to a negative feedback loop where you lose your friends/partner, and end up hating yourself more.

If no one's going to love you, you might as well love yourself.