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[-] andros_rex@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

I spent almost a decade of my life in TPE. Please do not lecture me about BDSM.

The acts themselves are not inherently submissive, and most kinksters I knew were uncomfortable with that suggestion.

I am deciding to express my discomfort with the terminology - that’s a decision I can make. I am a bottom, and submissive even! But I could also present the activity as dominant - in that I am lying back and expecting someone to provide me with pleasure. I have even “topped” individuals in a submissive way.

The meme is clearly presenting receptive anal sex as inherently degrading, which is a common narrative.

[-] enbyecho@lemmy.world -2 points 7 hours ago

Who's lecturing you? How are you being lectured?

At least we seem to agree. I'd have taken that as the opposite of a lecture. But hey, whatevs.

[-] VerticaGG@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 5 hours ago
[-] enbyecho@lemmy.world 0 points 4 hours ago

Were you unaware of the "Block User" function?

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