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I discovered that I identify as demisexual and I think my friend is in love with me. (lemmy.world)

submitted 6 days ago by Brandanfinchh@lemmy.world to c/gaybros@lemmy.world

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I've already accepted that I can have sex no matter who it is with. I think that to have sex I need to have a good bond with that girl or boy in this case before having sex.

It took me a while to realize, they sent me links to articles about different types of labels and I realized that I identify with demisexuality.

I am straight, gay for pay and demisexual.

I told my friend about this and he thought that when I said "I'm demisexual, I discovered I prefer having sex with people I'm in a relationship with" I meant in a romantic way. He said "Are you saying we're boyfriend and girlfriend?" very excitedly. I told him that I didn't mean that, I meant a relationship in general, getting to know the person. And I could tell he felt a little bad.

I feel like he has other feelings for me, he's 2 years younger than me, I was a little afraid of doing things with him for fear that he'd fall in love and I think he fell in love with me.

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[–] Brandanfinchh@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It confuses me too, haha. I asked in the GPT chat, and they say you can be straight and demisexual at the same time. To be demisexual, you only need to be in a relationship with someone, not casual sex with strangers. And for a demisexual, the relationship connection doesn't have to be romantic, just a deep and close bond. The GPT chat also says that. I checked it there, haha.

[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I think ChatGPT is more accurate than the other person you're replying to. I've never heard of demisexuality to mean that. I think they're confusing it with pansexuality. The only requirement is an emotional connection for demisexuality. So yes, you can be demisexual and straight because they work on different axes.