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I discovered that I identify as demisexual and I think my friend is in love with me. (lemmy.world)
submitted 6 days ago by Brandanfinchh@lemmy.world to c/gaybros@lemmy.world
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I've already accepted that I can have sex no matter who it is with. I think that to have sex I need to have a good bond with that girl or boy in this case before having sex.

It took me a while to realize, they sent me links to articles about different types of labels and I realized that I identify with demisexuality.

I am straight, gay for pay and demisexual.

I told my friend about this and he thought that when I said "I'm demisexual, I discovered I prefer having sex with people I'm in a relationship with" I meant in a romantic way. He said "Are you saying we're boyfriend and girlfriend?" very excitedly. I told him that I didn't mean that, I meant a relationship in general, getting to know the person. And I could tell he felt a little bad.

I feel like he has other feelings for me, he's 2 years younger than me, I was a little afraid of doing things with him for fear that he'd fall in love and I think he fell in love with me.

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[โ€“] Brandanfinchh@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Personally, I consider myself heterosexual because I like, am attracted to, and fall in love with women, but not men. However, to have sex with these women, I need a bond, whether romantic or friendship. I need to get to know them, and since I have sex with my roommate, who's also my best friend, for money, I consider myself gay4pay because without money I wouldn't do it, not counting the time he gave me head because I was drunk and let him. And if I didn't have a lasting friendship with him, I wouldn't do it either.

[โ€“] Lemminary@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

Cool. Respect for being so secure in yourself that you're open to that arrangement with your same-sex friend. Also, lucky him to get a call boy on demand.