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What should I do if I don't have anything to enjoy and I don't have a bright future to work for/ wait it?

As an extra note, I started to hate dealing with humans and I don't have any friends.

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[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I was expecting that they won't have a magic phrase to say and solve my issues

That is a logical expectation because that's not what they do.

After going and finding out myself, I can confirm that I was right.

Ahh, so, you were expecting them to TRY to fix you with a magic phrase and when the magic phrase never came, you assumed that they had failed.

You got it all backwards. Those people don't fix you. They teach you, they point you in the right direction, they tell you the things your friends won't, they ask the questions you've been avoiding.

YOU fix YOU.

If the athlete doesn't show up for the competition, they can't blame the loss on bad coaching.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Also go to someone who prescribes meds, and take them.

That said, I feel you are right to hate the other humans. They are really, really stupid.

[–] Gem@lemmynsfw.com 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

They kept making me try meds, they never work.

[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 1 points 18 hours ago

They take quite some time to get the full effect. Like it could be a couple of months before you start seeing improvement.