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I'm always a bit unsure about that. Sure AI has a unique perspective on the world, since it has only "seen" it through words. But at the same time these words conceptualize things, there is information and models stored in them and in the way they are arranged. I believe I've seen some evidence, that AI has access to the information behind language, when it applies knowledge, transfers concepts... But that's kind of hard to judge. I mean an obvious example is translation. It knows what a cat or banana is. It picks the correct french word. At the same time it also maintains tone, deals with proverbs, figures of speech... And that was next to impossible with the old machine translation services which only looked at the words. And my impression with doing computer coding or creative writing is, it seems to have some understanding of what it's doing. Why we do things a certain way and sometimes a different way, and what I want it to do.

I'm not sure whether I'm being too philosophical with the current state of technology. AI surely isn't very intelligent. It certainly struggles with the harder concepts. Sometimes it feels like its ability to tell apart fact and fiction is on the level of a 5 year old who just practices lying. With stories, it can't really hint at things without giving it away openly. The pacing is off all the time. But I think it has conceptualized a lot of things as well. It'll apply all common story tropes. It loves to do sudden plot twists. And next to tying things up, It'll also introduce random side stories, new characters and dynamics. Sometimes for a reason, sometimes it just gets off track. And I've definitely seen it do suspension and release... Not successful, but I'd say it "knows" more than the words. That makes me think the concepts behind storytelling might actually be somewhere in there. It might just lack the needed intelligence to apply them properly. And maintain the bigger picture of a story, background story, subplots, pacing... I'd say it "knows" (to a certain degree), it's just utterly unable to juggle the complexity of it. And it hasn't been trained with what makes a story a good one. I'd guess, that might not be a fundamental limitation of AI, though. But more due to how we feed it award-winning novels next to lame Reddit stories without a clear distinction(?) or preference. And I wouldn't be surprised if that's one of the reasons why it doesn't really have a "feeling" of how to do a good job.

Concerning OP's original question... I don't think that's part of it. The people doing the training have put in deliberate effort to make AI nice and helpful. As far as I know there's always at least two main steps in creating large language models. The first one is feeding large quantities or text. The result of that is called a "base model". Which will be biased in all the ways the learning datasets are. It'll do all the positivity, negativity, stereotypes, be helpful or unhelpful roughly like people on the internet are, the books and wikipedia, which went in, are. (And that's already more towards positive.) The second step is to tune it for some application. Like answering questions. That makes it usable. And makes it abide by whatever the creators chose. Which likely includes not being rude or negative to customers. That behaviour gets suppressed. If OP wants it a different way, they probably want a different model, or maybe a base model. Or maybe a community-made fine-tune that has a third step on top to re-align the model with different goals.