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I like this philosophy, but in reverse. It's good to be mindful of peoples' wants and needs, and being kind in a way that appeals to their love languages, as opposed to my own, is a wonderful thing to do.
It is a bit stressful for me to think about how if I don't do these things, that I'm intrinisically worthless. I care about myself and bring myself intrinsic value. I like to do things for the people I care about, and I also don't owe people things, if that makes sense. But I do see what you mean, especially after you unpacked it in the third paragraph!
This is the implication of my wording, yes. Live for others and others will live for you and value you.