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[–] Droggelbecher@lemmy.world 118 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Afaik they intentionally look at and around it briefly, simply because no other doctor (I'm some cases, nobody at all) ever looks there and you could have a malignant mole or something. At least the two I've been to said it's common practice.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 28 points 2 days ago (3 children)

Yes and after they swab/scrub/scrape your cervix they usually put a finger in the rectum to feel for lumps, and wipe it on a slide for a stool sample.

[–] IAmNorRealTakeYourMeds@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago

They're saving it for later.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 54 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (3 children)

Excuse me, what?

I’ve never been anally penetrated during a gyno visit, not a single time in many many years in many different places. If you have, that’s fucking weird.

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 56 points 2 days ago (4 children)

My Obstetricians didn't but the (female) internist who did my pap smears as part of my annual physical did them. Not weird at all because she was examining the whole body, not just the female bits. And she warned me, as she did about everything down there, and didn't mess around. She also took care as she opened the speculum so I could unclench (vaginismus). Frankly much more considerate than my second OB, I broke their speculum and they blamed me rather than their technique.

please, you gotta tatto a speculum icon with an x on top next to your vagina,

add another one when you break another.

looks ace pilots

[–] LH0ezVT@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago

While it must suck for you, I am kind of jealous of that strength. I don't even have a vagina, yet the thought of being able to break medical equipment with my private parts... dude...

[–] acockworkorange@mander.xyz 4 points 1 day ago

Oh, you weren't joking.

[–] ApathyTree@lemmy.dbzer0.com 24 points 2 days ago (2 children)

Ok well that’s definitely not a “usually” situation then.

My gyno does this during my annual. Never thought it was unusual because it’s a part of my body that needs health checking too. Never thought about it not being common, that’s interesting that’s not more universal

[–] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

It's apparently less common than it used to be (I'm quite old, and I also had pelvic pain which is another reason for doing a rectovaginal exam) but considering the fact that colorectal cancer is skyrocketing in young adults maybe it should make a comeback. Anyway I yeeted the uterus about 10 years back, yay!

[–] WhiteOakBayou@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Bimanual palpation was the standard for a long time. Still common for older docs when I was starting like 15 years ago

[–] krooklochurm@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Bimanual palpitation doesn't quite have the same ring to it as two in the pink one in the stink.

[–] smh@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 day ago

I'm with you on this one.

The good ol' one-two.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 10 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

Same for the male equivalent (sorry, English is not my first language). Hard to see the anus without exposing genitals, might as well make examining it the genital doctor's job.

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 5 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The only procedure for males I’m aware of that would include that directly involve entering that hole already.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

That's called "sounding," right?

[–] zaphod@sopuli.xyz 3 points 1 day ago

It's called digital exam.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 4 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Checking for hemorrhoid issues should work the exact same for men and women, and men get their prostate checked on top of that (which works differently than a hemorrhoids check).

[–] etchinghillside@reddthat.com 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Gotcha - wasn’t aware that was something that was normally checked for. The most invasive thing I’m aware of is the turn and cough hernia check.

[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 2 points 1 day ago

IME it's not something that's checked for every time you come in for someting genital-related, but if someone is going to check for that it's most likely your gynecologist or urologist.