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[-] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 229 points 1 year ago

I am hesitant to put my hands on the chest of a woman who hasn't given consent.

[-] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 118 points 1 year ago

One of the few cases where consent of anything can be assumed is lifesaving of a person unable to respond. One of the first steps of cpr is to seek a response to ensure that the person is unconscious before then confirming no pulse.

But yeah I get why it’s awkward

[-] ArbiterXero@lemmy.world 54 points 1 year ago

Yeah but the mob around me watching me touch her breasts might not know that.

[-] Anamnesis@lemmy.world 71 points 1 year ago

I'm not CPR certified or anything, but I think if you're just grabbing titties you're probably doing it wrong.

[-] ArbiterXero@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

For sure! But I didn’t say you WERE grabbing titties, just that you’re perceived to be.

I mean just getting the electrodes on for a defibrillator you have to lift their shirt…

Can you see that being perceived poorly?

[-] jimbo@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

Unlikely that someone holding a defibrillator next to someone passed out on the ground is going to be perceived poorly.

[-] ArbiterXero@lemmy.world 10 points 1 year ago

Unfortunately in a panic scenario like that, sometimes people don’t see things as clearly as they might normally.

And people aren’t great on a normal day either.

[-] dragonflyteaparty@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Not everyone is going to have access to a defibrillator.

[-] Cringe2793@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

You would think so, right? But the reality is that men are always assumed to have the worst intentions. Especially in hindsight. i.e. "he didn't need to do that right? he must be trying to cop a feel".

Same reason men aren't usually kindergarten teachers, because they're immediately assumed to be pedos.

[-] kent_eh@lemmy.ca 7 points 1 year ago

I mean just getting the electrodes on for a defibrillator you have to lift their shirt

You also need to make sure their bra doesn't have an underwire and remove it if there is.

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[-] Kanzar@sh.itjust.works 31 points 1 year ago

The instructors advise you to speak aloud your actions as you do them. Also helps if you have already levelled out instructions to the rent a crowd to perform specific tasks like send for help and get the defib and you three who said yes to cpr training let's line up and take turns doing cpr.

...of course, the training to be comfortable giving these instructions is not really done.

[-] ArbiterXero@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Absolutely!

And what if you’re outside a bar and everyone is drunk?

Unfortunately life doesn’t provide ideal scenarios, not to mention that under the duress of what you’re doing you may forget steps.

I’m not saying that fondling an unconscious person is the same as cpr, but that perceptions are funny things.

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[-] cactusupyourbutt@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago

onsent of lifesaving attempts can be assumed, not of anything

COWS. "Can you here me?" "Open your eyes." "What's your name?" "Squeeze my hands."

[-] Zenabiz@lemmy.world 46 points 1 year ago

Understandable, but you only need to do it if there is no pulse. If you are doing chest compressions to save their life, I am sure the majority would be quite happy with not dying. You don't need to take off their top, and you are pressing on their sternum rather than their breasts. You can't really mistake CPR for anything else if you are doing it correctly.

[-] user224@lemmy.sdf.org 23 points 1 year ago

You don't need to take off their top

Well, you do if using AED. Tom Scott has video on those too: https://youtu.be/ecVHYg4_vZw

[-] Zenabiz@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

I know, but I was just assuming chest compressions, no other tools. If you're strapping electrodes to an unconscious person, and the machine is talking you through the CPR steps, it's even less likely to be assumed to be anything than what it is.

[-] Cringe2793@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

You would think that, but the reality is different.

[-] ArbiterXero@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

You can’t, that doesn’t mean that some white knight in the crowd doesn’t.

While I agree the risk is low, it’s not zero.

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[-] zaph@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 year ago

I'm pretty sure most places in the states have laws protecting people but there have been people who were sued for giving cpr to someone who wasn't very grateful.

[-] TurnItOff_OnAgain@lemmy.world 5 points 1 year ago

Good Samaritan laws.

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[-] Iheardyoubutsowhat@lemmy.world 6 points 1 year ago

If you have cpr or aed training....and a person is unconscious, consent is implied. Especially if you follow training. You felt for a pulse and/or they were not breathing, you will not get sued in this country. If someone manages to get it to court, they will lose.

I am a certified CPR and AED , a registered WFR and just had a training class on the matter. As long as you follow proper protocol you are ok. And I'd like to add, as a man, yeah, I'd be nervous also exposing a womans chest in a crowd, people are stupid, but you can probably save a life.

[-] Mouselemming@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 year ago

If you're doing CPR they're effectively dead before you start. If you're the only one there, no witnesses unless you manage to save her. If you're not alone, you should tell them you're going to start CPR and order them to call 911 or 999 or whatever. Or volunteer to call while they start compressions. Then you can take over/take turns and vouch for each 's intentions.

[-] Emerald@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago

I am hesitant to put my hands on the chest of a person who hasn’t given consent.

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