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[-] itmightbethew@beehaw.org 5 points 10 months ago

It's a song that speaks to your flavour of depression. Makes you feel like someone feels the exact same way you do. That in turn makes you feel sane. Like you're heard. Even understood.

Over time, songs (or movies or other things) can become a ritual - you feel awful, listen to the song, eventually you come out the other side as the depressive episode fades. Then the next time it happens you associate the song with your recovery. So over time it becomes What You Do when you Feel That Way.

[-] shinigamiookamiryuu@lemm.ee 2 points 10 months ago

What song would you recommend to someone who has done things she regrets when she had the opportunity to have something good and lives with the still-ongoing snowball effect that she is so used to seeing as karmic that she doesn't typically bring up any of the issues?

[-] ystael@beehaw.org 2 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

Swans - Song for Dead Time

So bury your trust beneath the ground with me, dear

And lay your loneliness down for the sun to burn

To sand...

[-] recidivi5t@beehaw.org 1 points 10 months ago

Yes. Swans have several beautiful crushingly dark songs. God Damn the Sun is one I go to.

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