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submitted 10 months ago by MicroWave@lemmy.world to c/health@lemmy.world

Eleven years ago, two days before Christmas, my 24-year-old brother, who was a university graduate and former law student, died from a self-inflicted gunshot wound. After a decade of hard and continuous drinking interspersed with addiction and mental health treatment, he could not sustain his recovery. His suicide came on the heels of my mother’s death a year before, and just weeks later, my grandfather died in a car accident. My family’s holidays would never be the same.

Like so many others who survived the loss of someone dear from the chaos of severe substance use disorder (SUD), I am too familiar with unspeakable grief. But I have found meaning through it and purpose in passing that on.

I was a medical resident when I dropped my brother off at an addiction treatment facility for the first time. Later, I became an addiction specialist physician, focusing on treating people with SUD and helping them manage their disease and find remission and recovery. My work has taught me something important: To help stop the addiction crisis that has brought so much sorrow to families like mine, policymakers must prioritize prevention at all levels and support evidence-based prevention initiatives — including raising federal excise taxes on alcohol.

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[-] RainfallSonata@lemmy.world 64 points 10 months ago* (last edited 10 months ago)

"My brother killed himself after self-medicating with alcohol for a decade in order to cope with horrific systemic social ills. So instead of fixing those, we need to make it harder to self-medicate. He probably would have just killed himself sooner. But at least he wouldn't have been a drunk for 10 years!"

[-] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 10 points 10 months ago

Alcohol isn't self medication though...it's a coping mechanism and furthers depression. But yes, this section. Also caught my eye while skimming

[-] hungrycat@lemmy.world 19 points 10 months ago

I get what you’re saying and don’t disagree with your distinction. But it bears pointing out that it feels like splitting hairs to say self-medication and coping mechanisms aren’t the same when you’re the individual in pain.

[-] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 3 points 10 months ago

Yeah cope might be the incorrect term here.

[-] Chetzemoka@startrek.website 11 points 10 months ago

"Self-medication" is a synonym for maladjusted coping mechanisms. It's a euphemism. They used the term correctly.

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