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What's the most absurd thing you've seen someone refuse to do because of toxic masculinity? (lemmy.world)

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[-] ComradePorkRoll@lemmy.world 92 points 9 months ago

For me it's between refusing to use an umbrella because "it's gay" or refusing to sit in the middle seat of a work truck because of the same reason as the first.

[-] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 32 points 9 months ago

TIL: being a top is NOT gay 🥳

[-] pedroparamo@lemm.ee 14 points 9 months ago

A good portion of Hispanics believe this. The gay one is the bottom one.

[-] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 20 points 9 months ago

I did very well when I visited Mexico for this reason. The amount of dudes just totally cool with topping was excessive. Guys who are, by their own cultural standards, completely straight hanging out of grindr. It was a glorious week.

[-] joshoff@lemmynsfw.com 7 points 9 months ago

This is stupid hot — and a cross-cultural win–win

[-] DharmaCurious@startrek.website 6 points 9 months ago

It was stupid hot. Lol. Also, apparently in the US I'm a disgusting fat fuck, whereas in Mexico, I'm whatever the Spanish word for thicc is, and have an ass worth pursuing. Lol.

[-] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 6 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

"Muh ~~anal penetration~~ gaysex is the only straightsex

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