Is it more respectful to use more current photos of people who have died? Or is it better to use photos from their "prime"? (lemm.ee)

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Just had this thought and I'm caught between the two. Assuming anything being considered were all "good" photos, what would you prefer if it were you?

*Lots of great responses! I do want to clarify that I am not currently dealing with this scenario myself, but I appreciate the thoughtful comments. Hopefully they can help people that are struggling. I know I'll keep them in mind for the future.

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[-] Num10ck@lemmy.world 4 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

just noting that people have started putting QR codes on tombstones that direct to a collection/directory of multimedia photos videos audio, notes etc. i think its a great use.

[-] deegeese@sopuli.xyz 6 points 7 months ago

A tombstone should last for centuries, but a QR code depends on a URL that might not last 5 years.

Either the QR code should be on a swappable card, or needs to point at a domain controlled by the family like RememberingJoeSmith.com

[-] Nollij@sopuli.xyz 2 points 7 months ago

How long do you think Joe Smith's family is going to maintain that site, given that it costs real money?

Related: How long after death until people stop visiting the grave?

(Yes, there's a joke about the dead visiting graves, but I chose to ignore it)

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