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I think I might have ADHD. Please advice me

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[–] Cyteseer@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago (2 children)

Not much to go on, get evaluated by a psychiatrist and then work on getting either or both medicines or therapy to help you manage it.

Unless you have something more specific that you can say about why you think that you have ADHD or if there's something you need help with, that's about as far anyone can tell you.

[–] Telorand@reddthat.com 6 points 1 year ago

To add, autism is comorbid with ADHD, and they can appear like or compound each other. Definitely something to have a professional diagnose.

[–] Vitaly@feddit.uk 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What if I'm just lazy as my mum says?

[–] TheRealKuni@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

What if I'm just lazy as my mum says?

You aren’t lazy. Laziness is just a term we use to shame people who aren’t doing what we want them to do. There are always reasons people don’t do stuff.

For people with ADHD, it’s often down to executive dysfunction. But there are other reasons.

[–] Charlxmagne@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Real. My mum always called me lazy and said I need to be ambitious. I've always been more ambitious than anything, I've js been unable to act on that ambition most of the time.

[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 year ago (3 children)

I think you should give us more words

[–] BreadOven@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Why more words when less work?

[–] gravitas_deficiency@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 year ago (1 children)
[–] BreadOven@lemmy.world 2 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Hahaha. I hope that's just blank and it's not some picture or gif that's not loading.

[–] Hildegarde@lemmy.world 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Some should be in parentheses for true ADHD (or so I have heard)

[–] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 0 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Username... doesn't check out.

Hey man I was standing very far back when the gravitas was being handed out

[–] RicoBerto@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 year ago

Advice is doctor

[–] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Talk to a professional and see if you can get a formal diagnosis... it's worth it.

[–] CaptainBlagbird@lemmy.world 3 points 1 year ago (1 children)

Could you please elaborate on how it is worth it? For being able to get the medicine, or did it help you understand yourself better, etc etc?

[–] xmunk@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 year ago

It provides access to medication, therapy, self comprehension, and, depending on your area, disability support.

[–] Prunebutt@slrpnk.net 5 points 1 year ago

if you don't want to/can't go to a psychiatrist, the book "Driven to distraction" was recommended to me. I think it was quite good for me and my partner.

[–] Deestan@lemmy.world 4 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

There are a few options, and I honestly say go for all of them at once:

  1. Take some (legit) self-assessments and see how they feel. E.g. https://embrace-autism.com/asrs-5/
  2. Find some ADHD resources. See if the techniques and tools help, or at least feel sensible. E.g. the book How To ADHD or various Youtube channels.
  3. Seek out a psychiatrist to assess you. It may or may not be ADHD, but something is bothering you that needs attention. They are usually good at figuring that out.
[–] Vitaly@feddit.uk 3 points 11 months ago

After one month I finally asked for help

[–] BlackJerseyGiant@beehaw.org 2 points 1 year ago

Look, it's a squirrel!

[–] Charlxmagne@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

From experience an NHS diagnosis take MONTHS and for some isn't worth the wait, that being said obviously a private diagnosis isn't always an option for everyone since they're hella pricey and not affordable for a lot of ppl (mine was £3k). I felt I had to choose the private route cuz I needed to pattern my life ASAP, being a student at the time also facing exclusions for distractive and "self sabotaging" behaviour, and my assessment was a good six months after exams.

See your GP first and foremost and discuss your symptoms and you should get a referral.