The driving license thing is something you could struggle through. I mean it's not nice if you got some asshole as instructor. That happens. And you need to sit in a car next to them for quite some hours... I know this might suck hard... But I mean if you have 0 motivation to succeed, that could also explain the lack or progress. Or you'd need to change the instructor if they're the problem.

Edit: And regarding the broader topic: It's really really harmful to just sit around and do nothing and get nowhere. You need something in your life. Either goals. Or at least something to do. Pretty much anything, even going out and just drinking (unless you're have issues with alcohol) is better than that (in my uninformed opinion). Maybe volunteer or do sports. But you need to do something. I'd say pick something that's easy to begin with.

Work can be sucky, only way (that I know) is to study something else in your own time to move to a different sector/industry.

The driving instructor you can just dump honestly. Find another driving school

And if you can, what worked for me was moving out from your parents. You'll probably find that having your space (even if it's just a room) with your rythms and everything, it can really make you feel better.

Best of luck!

Driving, I hate driving. I learned to do it only because I need to do it for work, and I have to say every instructor and tester I've had were complete asses. You're not alone.

Sorry to hear of your troubles. Driving sucks but it’s a necessary requirement in my neck of the woods…