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[-] Lyre@lemmy.ca 58 points 18 hours ago

Honestly not sure if the concept of Facebook was so great to begin with actually....

[-] jagged_circle@feddit.nl 1 points 2 hours ago

idk, it helped me get laid in Uni. That's what it was created-for

[-] Fondots@lemmy.world 8 points 10 hours ago

The general concept of Facebook I think is fine

I don't have any problem with the idea of a website where you can go to share things with your friends, family, coworkers, etc.

For me, the biggest problem is that there's way too many opportunities for you to interact with people you don't have any real connection to.

Unless you have mutual friends, you shouldn't see anything someone else is posting, sharing, liking, or commenting on. The only thing you should see from them is a name, profile picture, and a short bio when you search for them.

There shouldn't be public pages for businesses, celebrities, etc. Everything you see on Facebook should be there because someone you actually know thought that it should be shared with their friends.

And if, for some reason there must be public pages, then you should only see what your friends are commenting on those pages, not complete strangers.

There shouldn't be public groups that just anyone can join. Groups should be limited to people you're actually connected to in some way. Not that you necessarily need to be friends directly, but you should be able to trace a clear line of mutual friends connecting any two people in the group together. There shouldn't be a public "we love bowling" (for example) group that anyone can join, but if you started a bowling league and wanted to start a group for it, you might start with Jeff, Walter, and Donny who all know each other, then Jeff adds his friend Smoky who also wants to join, and then Smoky adds his friend Liam who adds his friend Jesús, etc. Jeff may not be directly friends with Jesús, but they're connected by actual people so they can be in the same group. And Jesús and Jeff wouldn't get to see anything each other do outside of that group because they're not friends and don't even have any immediate mutual friends. Their entire relationship is through the bowling league.

Want to talk to, follow, and share things with strangers? Go join a forum, get on Lemmy/reddit, use Twitter, start a blog, publish a book, send an op ed into the local newspaper, etc. That's what those platforms are for. Facebook is for talking to people you know.

Friendica and other Facebook like platforms don't really solve those problems, but since they're smaller and less businesses and such are on them it kind of feels like they do.

That's my 2¢ on the matter anyway.

[-] Carighan@lemmy.world 5 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Really? Especially after lockdown, the idea to specifically communicate in non-realtime with friends/family seems quite useful to me.

[-] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 8 points 13 hours ago

A platform to communicate specifically with IRL friends?

[-] AllNewTypeFace@leminal.space 24 points 18 hours ago

Have they figured out how to make access-controlled posts (i.e. friends-only, or for specific subgroups) work with ActivityPub federation, or are all your posts public and visible to anyone, as on Mastodon? If people are going to start using this platform, there will need to be an option for making posts visible only to friends (and “followers only” is not a viable alternative).

[-] Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com 11 points 13 hours ago

I'm not sure how functional it is but this is what I get when creating a post.

[-] haverholm@kbin.earth 2 points 6 hours ago

It's been years since I actively used Friendica, but AFAIK the project has always had some form of "circles" that you can choose to share individual posts with? I don't know if it's been streamlined to translate into federation, though.

[-] Martineski@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 4 hours ago

Ah, didn't knew that it's been there for so long and that they meant the activitypub specifically. In that case it should be safe to assume that nothing of progress was made in that regard unless there was a pressure on the feature.

[-] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 26 points 19 hours ago

if you're capable and have a server, i recommend spinning up pixelfed and friendica instances for your parents and families. they're probably the simplest fediverse apps to install too.

it's one thing for you to move, it's another thing to be able to get your parents and family to move over.

[-] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 13 points 17 hours ago

This is something that I hope fediverse developers and OSS developers start focusing on: making installation and self-hosting much simpler. Currently trying to set up self-hosted anything is a gigantic pain in the ass if you’re not already an experienced sysadmin.

[-] blackfire@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

Yunohost is a couple of clicks and done. The only problem is you need subdomains to put the apps on so you need to know a little about DNS.

[-] leraje@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 9 hours ago

Not much though :) you can add a subdomain via the web control panel, run the server diagnostics, go back to the new domain and apply a Lets Encrypt certificate - done.

[-] blackfire@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

I mean on the DNS provider like cloud flare. In yunohost it is very easy they have done amazing work on it.

[-] Blaze@feddit.org 1 points 9 hours ago
[-] kilgore_trout@feddit.it 1 points 12 hours ago

Docker containers are the solution and we already have it.

[-] dylanmorgan@slrpnk.net 3 points 5 hours ago

Docker is not simple or intuitive for someone who is not already a sysadmin.

[-] Allero@lemmy.today 2 points 4 hours ago

Second that. I consider myself an experienced user by general standards, but I still have certain issues wrapping my head around Docker/Podman.

We cannot expect everyday users to use containers with ease.

[-] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 17 hours ago

i wonder if a geocities or ezboard style could work

[-] andyburke@fedia.io 1 points 15 hours ago

so uh ... I've been sorta contemplating preinastalled hardware. Think a mini pc you plug into your router. Or even a minipc that replaces your router and has a clean UI for picking a handful of curated self-hosted stuff you want.

You could buy the hardware as a simple jumping off point to learn more or (and here is where I am not sure if there's a market) you could pay me (or other sysadmins like me) to support it.

What if self-hosted stuff worked a bit like your HVAC,. electrical or plumbing?

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 5 points 17 hours ago

how would you recommend pitching it? I know all the sweet unix/linux things, and freedom and such, but how would you pitch it in a way that your parents would care about?

[-] cupcakezealot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 17 hours ago

well most of the time - at least for me - they're just there for the rest of the family so if you can get the rest of the family on there and then maybe let them invite their friends, that's all they really need

[-] scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.tech 4 points 16 hours ago

that's what I'm worried about for mine, they've become addicted to the slop

[-] can@sh.itjust.works 4 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

It doesn't need to be all or nothing for them at first. If you share on it maybe they'll share some thing there too slowly.

[-] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

you'll also need to remember to interact with the platform like you were with them in public, for a few reasons. Plus the Internet could stand to be less harsh

[-] naught101@lemmy.world 28 points 20 hours ago

The software might be, but what makes a social network is the network effect, and the biggest public english friendica server has a few hundred users.

I had an account in like 2016, but it got deleted after a few months due to inactivity..

[-] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 19 points 19 hours ago

That small of a userbase and they still nuke accounts for being inactive?

[-] naught101@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

I don't remember what server it was, maybe they had a good reason. I guess around 2016 there was a short boom that resulted in a lot of inactive accounts after a few months..

[-] whostosay@lemmy.world 9 points 14 hours ago

They don't have a monetary incentive to bloat their figures.

[-] Iheartcheese@lemmy.world 3 points 13 hours ago* (last edited 13 hours ago)

Letting people who aren't on all the time keep their accounts isn't really bloating the figures. Deleting you after a few months of inactivity is a dick move yo

[-] whostosay@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

Yeah I'd agree that that's a short amount of time. I was moreso just giving my opinion on why a for profit platform may not delete anyone unless they explicitly have to or are asked to

[-] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 18 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Friendica is part of the fediverse and can talk to mastodon, lemmy etc. Plenty of users out there

[-] naught101@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

Does it much in practice though? I'm on mastodon and Lemmy a lot, and don't see any friendica accounts out and about...

[-] ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 22 minutes ago

You wouldn't know them if you did see them. They look like any other account

[-] poVoq@slrpnk.net 8 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Friendica is federating with Mastodon etc. and also Lemmy etc.

[-] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 2 points 13 hours ago

Friendica is starting to seem like a fantastic option to serve as a hub account to the fediverse! There's a reason people liked Facebook at one point, and I think they're on the right track to advancing the idea with less corrupting influences

[-] FlorisJan@kbin.melroy.org 7 points 19 hours ago

Seems to with work with Mbin as well

[-] Salvo@aussie.zone 1 points 15 hours ago

The thing about Federation is that one server of a few hundred users can federate with all the other servers of a few hundred units and also other Federated services.

The next thing you know, you have a social network graph of millions of people, on thousands of servers (and not one ad).

[-] naught101@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago

I know. But that is one of the bigger servers, and there aren't that many at the moment. I think a facebook-style friend-based social network is going to struggle to boot-strap itself into a reasonable network density, at least in the foreseeable future. I don't know what it would take to get non-techy pleb users to leave Facebook en masse.

Generals interest networks like Lemmy and mastodon have a much easier time getting started.

[-] MudMan@fedia.io 20 points 20 hours ago

...users can also use Friendica as a publishing platform to post content to Google+, Google Buzz, WordPress, Tumblr, GNU-social, and Libertree.

Well, that's a hell of a pitch. I hope the codebase gets updated more frequently than the blurb.

[-] supermurs@kbin.earth 7 points 19 hours ago

I made an account there today but haven't really figured out how it works yet.

[-] Sunshine@lemmy.ca 6 points 19 hours ago

You will get the hang of it!

[-] supermurs@kbin.earth 5 points 19 hours ago

Thanks! I'm sure I will, it'll probably just take some time. :)

[-] can@sh.itjust.works 7 points 20 hours ago

Which allow users to connect with others via their own Friendica server,

Wouldn't it be helpful to state that you can also sign up at an existing instance? Or is that less encouraged for friendica? I suppose being so personal that would make sense.

[-] Kichae@lemmy.ca 2 points 17 hours ago

Most software developers aren't interested in being website admins for every Tom, Dick, and Harry. They're building the software for other people to host websites, not to run a social networking site for you.

It's not like the phpBB devs are hosting random car enthusiast websites.

[-] Supervisor194@lemmy.world 6 points 16 hours ago

Nobody said they are. However, "a great fediverse alternative to Facebook" does not mean, in the minds of most people who might read it: "you could host a website that would serve as a great fediverse alternative to Facebook."

[-] rockSlayer@lemmy.world 1 points 13 hours ago

I think that it's a pretty reasonable assumption that intersection of people familiar with alternativeto and the people interested in seeking Facebook alternatives on the fediverse are also more than capable of spinning up a friendica instance on an rpi

[-] can@sh.itjust.works 1 points 16 hours ago

Right, but here for example, I'm not hosting anything myself. I'm participating courtesy of a generous guy with spare server resources.

this post was submitted on 09 Jan 2025
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