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I have noticed that I interact a lot more in Lemmy than I ever did in any social media. Let it be Reddit, Facebook, Instagram, Twitter... I am used to be the lurker, but here for some reason things are different. Wonder if more people feel like I do.

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[–] BenLeMan@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Same here. Never could be bothered to make an account on Reddit in all my years of lurking there, but here I am.

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[–] Kolanaki@yiffit.net 4 points 2 years ago

Not any more than I have since first getting online in 1991. My entire reason for being on the Internet is to talk to other people. The memes and shitposts are just topics of discussion (or vehicles to make jokes about) to me.

[–] johnyrocket@feddit.ch 4 points 2 years ago

A lot more. On other platforms with more users I always feel like I am just commenting into the void on a post with, idk 400 comments / replies. If it only has 0 to ~150 comments it feels less so.

[–] governorkeagan@lemdro.id 4 points 2 years ago

Definitely comment more than I did on Reddit. I feel like if I comment on Reddit post that has been up for a couple hours, my comment will never get seen -- haven't seen that here

[–] JasSmith@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 years ago (7 children)

I use it less. I find the user-base a) very hostile to diverse opinions and experiences, b) very American-centric, and c) very leftwing and authoritarian.

I also have difficulty with discoverability. If I can’t find good communities, I can’t interact with them.

[–] ShitOnABrick@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago) (3 children)

Yeah I tend to agree on this centiment and I'm generally quite left wing leaning myself the userbase reminds me alot of tankie subs such as r/greenandunpleasent I come here to shitpost not to see posts about the evils of capitalism on the main meme sub I can deal with the American centric posts I think that's fine just not the hostile userbase Jesus christ there all miserable bastards

I mean for christ sakes my first shitpost got raided by angry conumismist vegan mob you can check it for yourself if ya want

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[–] Sunroc@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I try, but I naturally just want to lurk.

[–] Pirasp@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

Honestly not much. I interacted a lot more with people on squabbles before that went to shit, but now I am a bit like the friendly pink blob that gets punched back into its box and swears to never come out again...

[–] Bathtubwalrus@lemmy.world 4 points 2 years ago

I interact a bit more just to support the community. I don't have much to say though, so that's all I can contribute 🤣

[–] yumcake@lemmy.one 3 points 2 years ago

No, I interact more on Reddit. That's where the community conversation is. Ideally, it would be on Lemmy, but the difference between our ideal state and reality isn't bridged by wishing it to be the same. There'd need to be practical drivers that push the two into meeting and those drivers don't exist for Lemmy to reach kind of critical mass that would allow it to be a replacement for incumbent social media platforms.

Lemmy is for people who don't want those social platforms, or an "also-ran" platform that exists in parallel with them. The federated model which gives it survivability and freedom is also the reason that it won't have the broad appeal that would allow it to scale to incorporate input from all of society.

Many will rationalize that it's good to keep the rest of society out of Lemmy too, and I'm not getting into whether or not that's good, but either way it means that Lemmy will not have the broad adoption that makes the big social media platforms interesting to most people.

[–] Jeff@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Yes. And you don’t get the snarky clownshoes responses that are probably just bots anyway.

[–] okmko@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

I think yes but I would still call myself a lurker. I don't feel any pressure here to write a good comment.

[–] Churbleyimyam@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

Yeah, I feel more up for interacting on lemmy. Right now the vibe feels more sane and friendly than reddit and less uptight than mastodon, so maybe it's where I feel most comfortable.

[–] ShitOnABrick@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I'm perma banned off reddit so the answer is yes I use lemmy more than reddit

[–] Karyoplasma@discuss.tchncs.de 3 points 2 years ago

About the same as my reddit activity before I left.

I don't have Instagram or Twitter and Facebook is just a glorified birthday reminder that I check every other week. You could probably count the number of my replies on public posts on Facebook on one hand.

[–] noodle@feddit.uk 3 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

I was quite active. But less and less as time goes on, sadly.

The content is drying up, the only really active communities are either tech or political, and my main interests either never left reddit or have a home elsewhere. The nail in the coffin for me will be when my instance dies, which is looking increasingly likely given that the admin is AWOL.

It's ok here, but it's too fragmented to be a full replacement for anything else.

[–] baruchin@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Same thing happens to me.

[–] sag@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago
[–] AVengefulAxolotl@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Simply put, yes, I feel the same way.

[–] TheBigMike@lemm.ee 3 points 2 years ago

I was definitely more active on Reddit, since it had the niche subs I wanted to discuss on. Lemmy has more "generic" content, since it doesn't have the user base to grow those niche communities.

[–] SacrificedBeans@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Definitely more. A lurker too. Idk, I feel like I'm less afraid of being judged here.

[–] MrFlamey@lemmy.world 3 points 2 years ago

Not really. Reddit was mostly fine, but I do at least feel that as there are fewer users on Lemmy it's easier to interact with others than just posting to the void.

[–] Adori@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago
[–] BigGovernment@lemmy.world 2 points 2 years ago

Significantly more here. I never really liked Reddit, but a couple of my hobbies had communities there so I felt like I had to use it. I stayed away from anything that wasn't a niche personal interest and avoided the bigger subreddits and front page. Here I check out the front page frequently and am pretty generous with upvotes. It feels more like an investment in a community I want to be successful, and not like there's anything intrinsic to Lemmy that encourages it.

[–] moosetwin@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 2 years ago

nah I comment about the same as I did on reddit

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