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[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 84 points 2 weeks ago (9 children)

If you are "conservative" in any manner, you've been voting for the destruction of both people and society in both word and deed for the past 40 years.

[–] taiyang@lemmy.world 43 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

To be fair, they've also been lied to for longer than that, sometimes by their own parents who too we're lied to.

[–] TropicalDingdong@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

"conservatives" globally have been given more grace and caused more destruction outside of any groups other than literal nazi's and fascists, of which they are the gateway drug. We put up with them and they offer almost nothing constructive to society.

They aren't idiots, and if they were even a bit intellectually curious, they would know better.

Fuck them, fuck fascists, and fuck this sublemmy. It should be removed. The time for grace is over. The gracious that has been offered to conservative movements has been trampled upon repeatedly and perpetually bad this bad faith ideology.

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[–] ShinkanTrain@lemmy.ml 62 points 2 weeks ago (10 children)

Sure, you may want me to be beaten to death, but at least you admitted eggs aren't cheap now, this makes us allies.

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[–] chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 44 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (12 children)

~~Yeah. Definitely don't need to take an responsibility for your actions. You can be both wrong and lied to. It's not like there wasn't 4 years of this already and a very large group of people telling you what was going to happen if you repeated your past mistakes.~~

~~But no. Keep on blaming others for your fuck ups. No one is perfect. No one can blame you for this mess.~~

~~Fuck you.~~

Sorry, maybe that was too uncivil. Let me rephrase.

Conservatives are the neighborhood kid that keeps showing up to the park when the rest of us kids are playing soccer. We let the conservative play because we are trying to be inclusive, but this is the third time you've kicked the ball over the fence, and every time we go get it, you swear you'll play right, but then do it again. We don't want you on the playground any more. You aren't welcome to play. We don't care if you felt like you were lied to. You've been told how to behave, and you have chosen not to, time and time again. The rest of us aren't looking to take your hand in friendship and welcome you back. You've run out of second chances. Now, we just want you to sit at home and try not to mess anything else up. No one wants to be your friend.

[–] Godort@lemm.ee 16 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

You ever wonder how the right seems to move in lockstep while the left constantly debates between themselves about the details?

It's shit like this that fosters that attitude. If some people on the right can look at something like this and then really examine their positions then thats a win.

The goal with something like this isn't to get someone to 180 on their beliefs, they know that the government is untrustworthy. It's to have them really look at what they're supporting, and if they truly want those changes, after learning what it might cost them.

[–] chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (8 children)

I don't want 180s. I don't want wishy-washy. I don't want fair weather friends. Why? Because they are untrustworthy. Oh, you flipped 180 and support trans rights now? How long until the next grifter comes along and scares you into thinking the drag community is stealing children? Oh, you're good with minorities having rights? Are you gonna feel that way the next time some old white man comes along and tells you they are bringing drugs into the country?

I'm sure you'd love to say that you'll stand by your convictions, but history has shown that you won't. Repeatedly you have changed your positions. Repeatedly you have flip-flopped. I don't care about you, anymore. Truly. Believe whatever you want to believe, just please do it quietly.

[–] Godort@lemm.ee 9 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

People are complicated and can carry multiple, nuanced beliefs. There are people out there that support LGBTQ+ rights, think that drag is fun, and believe that people of color get treated unfairly systemically without also wanting to take up arms in a violent revolution against the established systems in America because social progress is still happening, albeit slowly.

Every social media platform(Yes, even the independent ones) tends to remove all nuance and push every issue as binary, and sometimes worse than that, it will bundle issues together. There are people here that will argue in all seriousness that if you voted for the candidate that would've pushed forward progressive policies, that you also support the genocide in Gaza.

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[–] Photuris@lemmy.ml 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

We didn’t defeat the Nazis the first time with amnesty, conversation, and kindness.

We defeated them by stabbing them, shooting them, and fire bombing their cities.

We will have to do it again.

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[–] irish_link@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I think the point is really to give amnesty and try to move on. This idea breaks down and apart the team mentality. It allows people to unite. But by all means keep antagonizing people and see how they dig in their heels.

[–] chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

How many times do I forgive the person who keeps kicking me in the face?

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[–] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 weeks ago

Charlie Brown and the football gag.

Day after day.

Year after year.

There are always people on the left that think this is the time things will be different. They've been yanking it away at the last moment since before the civil war.

It's time to stop being a Charlie Brown.

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[–] tritonium@midwest.social 31 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

They were not lied to though... it was known they were going to do this.

[–] Pilferjinx@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

They were all under the impression it wouldn't happen to them personally. While it is satisfying to say, "I told you so" it's never helpful. We kinda need to lift up our dumb compatriots if they see the error of electing a huge mistake.

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[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 30 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

They weren't lied to. They had a whole road map for this. They just didn't think they would also be affected.

[–] NotLemming@lemm.ee 13 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

They have plausible deniability. Some of them truly think trump doesn't mean most of what he says because he's trolling. They have poor critical thinking skills, so they aren't able to take a lot of information and pick out the truth. That's also why they copy each other. They want the easy solutions.

They need to be given an appealing way back to sanity. We need them and they need us.

[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 10 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I guess I feel like being a decent human being should be an appealing enough way. Even if they thought he was joking, what he was joking about wasn't funny. They were fine risking him, at the very least, being their mouth piece. Saying they were lied to removes the responsibility. It doesn't make them inherently bad people, but they need to admit they made a mistake (if that's what they truly believe) and want to come back into sanity because it's right, not because they feel bad that it's now their eggs and Medicaid that's being fucked with.

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[–] deaf_fish@lemm.ee 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The average person will only spend 5 to 10 minutes a day watching news. The networks they watch are owned by billionaires. I bet most people haven't heard of project 2025 let alone know what it contains.

Just because you are tuned into politics, doesn't mean everyone else should be.

This is our curse. We know things, but if we want things to improve, we must also convince the average retarded voter of the things. If we fail, we don't get to write off half the population.

[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I guess I'm just tired of always having to force this horse to the river to drink. We're told to make it more inviting, change the flavor, talk softly, and they still go galloping into manure, flinging it on the rest of us in the process. Then they look back, covered in shit, and go, "I didn't know the shit would have this much shit. Why didn't you warn us? Aren't you at least going to help us clean up?" It's like weaponized incompetence, but with politics.

~~but I'm also still incredibly bitter about the current situation. My anger is going to have to die down before I can be reasonable. Which is a me problem at the end of the day.~~

[–] deaf_fish@lemm.ee 6 points 2 weeks ago

Your feelings are valid. It might be worth taking a break from the politics for a bit. Burnout is real and it is happening to quite a lot people after this last election.

[–] notsoshaihulud@lemmy.world 25 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

If this "let's reach across the isle" approach was viable, the present thread would not exist. I'll go beyond, trumpists watched Jan6 unravel like anyone else and they still voted for him in 2024. So while I'm not advocating for hatred, I would not consider any plan viable that heavily relies on trumpists changing their minds.

[–] Rivalarrival@lemmy.today 9 points 2 weeks ago

St. Luigi tells me that what we have in common is greater than what differentiates us.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

The fundamental problem with reaching across the aisle is that the people you're reaching to aren't influential in any meaningful capacity.

I've got family who voted for Trump. I can visit them, grab dinner, talk politics, reach sensible rational positions that would lead us both to be able to live freely and fairly. And none of it matters. Because neither of us write legislation, enforce the law, or adjudicate disputes.

Meanwhile, I've got friends who are working their way up the respective party organs at the local level. And I'll periodically ask what they think about this or that. They tend to be as annoyed and disgusted as I do (although I'll often get the "But your team is worse" rejoinder). Then I'll ask what they are hoping to change. And the simple response I get back is "We just have to be patient until we're in a better position". But they're never in that position. They're always subservient to some other vulgar asshole. They're always pandering to some gross freak of a mega-donor. They're constantly getting hoodwinked by the Elon Musk / Jeff Bezos political turn.

I would not consider any plan viable that heavily relies on trumpists changing their minds.

There are plenty of voters who went from Obama to Trump in 2016 and then from Trump to Biden in 2020 and then from Biden to fucking Jill Stein in 2024 and it didn't fucking matter. Even when you do get people to change their minds, they don't get to do anything with the new information.

Vote for Trump or don't, your district is as gerrymandered as ever. Vote for Beto O'Rourke for Senate or don't, the SCOTUS isn't changing hands in our lifetimes because the deck has already been stacked. If Dems retake Congress in 2026, it won't matter because they'll still be the same pack of sycophants courting elites in the Tech and Finance Sector that they were back in 2018 and 2006 and 1992. Many of them literally the same people just moldering in office for 40 years or more.

Winning doesn't mean anything in a system where the outcomes are predetermined. Shaping opinions among the powerless doesn't mean anything unless you can convince them to actually take back power for themselves.

Right now, its just voting for your favorite politician on American Idol.

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[–] GraniteM@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

There's a quote from Robert A. Heinlein that I like to bring up:

Of what use, then, are the American Communists?

They serve one function extremely useful to you and to the country, so useful that, if there were no Communists, we would almost be forced to create some. They are a reliable litmus paper for detecting real sources of danger to the Republic.

Communism is so repugnant to almost all Americans, when they are getting along even tolerably well, that one may predict with certainty that any social field or group in which the Communists make real strides in gaining members or acceptance of their doctrines, any such spot is in such bad shape from real and not imaginary social ills that the rest of us should take emergency, drastic action to investigate and correct the trouble.

Replace "Communist" with "Conservative" and the quote works the exact same way. People don't take on awful political views in a total vacuum. Their lives and futures got messed up somehow, and in all probability by vast forces beyond their comprehension, let alone their control. And then they went looking for what felt like real answers, and someone was willing to say to them "I've got the solution to your problems."

On some level, their grievances are real. They just got sold on a lie about what could be done to fix them.

[–] NotLemming@lemm.ee 5 points 2 weeks ago

This is gold.

When I was a young teenager I was a communist because I believe in fairness and equality and on paper communism sounds great. Because of this I believed that Russia must just be misunderstood and maligned by the evil capitalist west - 2+2=4. I didn't have access to a lot of info and my idealism carried me a long way. Then I read about what had happened under communism and in Russia, and it didn't take long until my views changed entirely.

I think the (not sociopathic or psychotic) majority of MAGA supporters are that way because of what you said - MAGA uses real issues too - a clever mix of lies and truths, and because they believe the 'fake news' lies and immerse themselves in echo chambers of MAGA lies.

This has also happened in the UK with the BNP, EDL etc and now reform, which does well mostly in deprived areas (I wonder why?)

There has to be a point when they no longer believe the lies because reality directly contradicts them. But by then will it be too late?

[–] the_q@lemm.ee 21 points 2 weeks ago

The time for solidarity has passed and this bullshit "sowwy" crap some cons are trying to put out there is disingenuous at best. No, will fix everything again and y'all will get the benefit again then go right back to being shitty Republicans again. Fuck all conservatives.

[–] afronaut@lemmy.cafe 19 points 2 weeks ago

Keep in mind, the amount of conservatives that have shown any regret in the slightest is an extremely small percentage.

The majority of them do not use social media outside of Facebook. They still get their news from Fox and Newsmaxx.

We do not owe them anything. Conservatives who have a conscience need to abandon POLITICAL conservatism. If you want to be socially conservative, go right ahead and do that in the privacy of your own home. But, if you think you’re going to cross the aisle and try to organize with leftists while still holding politically conservative beliefs you wish to eventually see enforced for everyone, then yea, fuck off.

[–] ddash@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Geez. The being lied to wasn't really very secretive, it was out in the open for a very long time.

This is a very weird apology for just being stupid.

[–] Clent@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

They weren't lied to by the right. They were lied to by themselves.

Themselves are the problem and one cannot not remove one from the other.

Those themselves will never be our allies. They will slink right back to their comforting lies at the first convenient moment, betray us, and laugh about it.

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[–] emeralddawn45@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 2 weeks ago (7 children)

Wow this thread is kinda fucked. Im way more left than most to the point that i think supporting biden/harris leading up to the last election was a mistake, although i would've begrudgingly voted harris when it came down to it. But this is just vindictive and unproductive. How about "lets both admit the corporations and their stooges have fucked us for way too long and come together to stop them" rather than some stupid childish finger pointing shit. Like i get the rage, but keep it pointing at the ones who are actively fucking you over.

[–] chemical_cutthroat@lemmy.world 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

The ones who are actively fucking me over are the ones that keep supporting the ones that are also actively fucking me over. Accountability doesn't end at the ballot.

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[–] gofsckyourself@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago

Yeah yeah. We already get that "both sides bad" argument. You're clearly ignoring that the Republicans are actively destroying our government, our rights, and our access to necessary infrastructure and services while giving even more power to corporations. One is orders of magnitude worse. So trying to equate the two parties is insultingly misleading.

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[–] afronaut@lemmy.cafe 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Nah, they should both admit that they were wrong and okay with extreme bigotry in the White House.

Meanwhile, the rest of us who will continue organizing with our fellow minorities, trans, and working class folks.

[–] Alteon@lemmy.world 8 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

That's not how you get people to start moving over to our side here mate. Sure, what they supported is pretty fucked, but if you're not going to offer people a way to crawl out of the hole they dug themselves in, no one will want to leave the hole.

You're not wrong for wanting that, but in your righteous superiority, you're not helping to make anything better.

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[–] Lemminary@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago

But I low key do want them to admit that they were wrong. Because many people told them a million times and they went 🙉

[–] BigBenis@lemmy.world 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Yeah, no thanks. These people were fine with all the hateful and cruel shit the Republicans pedal until it affected them. Whether it's because they themselves are cruel or just morons, that's up for debate. But either way, I will not consider them an ally in this. They've got to change their shitty ways first.

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