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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] jonne@infosec.pub 145 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

If you set up parental controls on your parent's devices I can guarantee they won't find a way around it.

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 36 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

They will, usually by accident. Source: my father in law.

[–] jballs@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

You block Fox News using a Pi-hole?

[–] starlinguk@lemmy.world 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

He only watched Tagesschau, but no matter what we did with his phone to make it secure, he'd manage to fuck it up and get to places he shouldn't get to and change settings he shouldn't have been able to get at. His PC was also a barrel of fun.

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[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 18 points 1 week ago (2 children)

my grandpa with dementia installed OVER 40 solitaire apps because he would go to the app store and install one every time instead of opening the ones he "couldn't find"

now he has parental controls blocking app downloading

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[–] cokeslutgarbage@lemmy.world 112 points 2 weeks ago (10 children)

My mom mentioned that my dad has been watching some concerning (in her words, "annoying") YouTube content lately. Last time she said that it was America's Got Talent, but this time it's white men arguing with cops. I visited and asked if he would show me. He jokingly said "are you gonna violate my rights?" And I very seriously said "yes. I need to make sure it's not Jordan Peterson or Joe Rogan or someone even worse". He got a little bit offended and said "you know me better than that, I'm smarter than that". But the thing is, you start by watching something innocuous like some idiot sovcit arguing with cops and the algorithm pipeline feeds you nazi shit from there and you don't even know it.

For context, my parents are the kind of leftists that don't know what leftists are. My mom calls herself a bleeding heart liberal, and my dad sees the media say things like "radical liberals" and jumps up off the couch screaming "you bet your ass im a radical liberal!" But they're left of liberal, they just don't have the language for it.

I'm not worried that my dad is gonna seek out nazi propaganda, im worried it's gonna find him anyway and I want to throw his phone in a lake.

Maybe shower thoughts wasn't the right community for me to have my existential crisis. But I wish i could block "sovcit" on my dad's phone and "trad-anything" on my mom's phone, not because I think they're dumb (okay maybe a little) but because this shit is so toxic and intrinsic and scary and my parents are so dumb.

Take care of yourself and your loved ones xx

[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 49 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

I was interested in Diablo IV when it was released which, after a few videos, led YouTube to recommend Asmondgold. I watched one or two of his videos and the next thing I know my feed is full of maga and manosphere trash. Most of it had innocuous titles and thumbnails but a few minutes in I was being bombarded with lies, bad faith arguments, logical fallacies. Don't even get me started with where funny Garand Thumb videos will lead. All I could think of was how Al Queda and ISIS recruited people with videos posted online.

EDIT: For the most part, I liked Asmondgold, but the algorithm leads from him to very dark places.

[–] teft@lemmy.world 18 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Same thing happened with me and Shadiversity. I like medieval stuff and fantasy so i thought he’d be interesting.

Noooope. Just another fash scumbag.

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[–] Sylvartas@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (3 children)

Imo Asmongold is good to mid, until he starts getting political, then it plummets into awful. Also yeah I think the garand thumb to far right pipeline is very real, the guy is actually quite extreme iirc.

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[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

Must be nice to have parents that haven't turned out to be fascist sociopaths.

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[–] Absaroka@lemmy.world 78 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Any time you hear Republicans argue 18 year olds shouldn't be able to vote, and they want to increase the age to 21/25, tell them "OK - then anybody over 65 isn't allowed to vote either."

[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 23 points 2 weeks ago (4 children)

I would settle for no one can be elected if their age is younger or older than 30 and 60.

[–] madame_gaymes@programming.dev 14 points 1 week ago (3 children)

There already is a lower limit (must be 35), just need to add the upper

[–] MehBlah@lemmy.world 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

I'm not talking about just the president. I don't think we need anyone older than 60 deciding the future. I'm less than a decade from 60 but have been ruled by people much older than me my whole life. It isn't any better and in some ways worse than it was when I was in my twenties.

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[–] CompostMaterial@lemmy.world 52 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

I constantly refer to my parents and in-laws as children. Why? Because they behave exactly like my 11 year old. They have no critical reasoning skills, no emotional intelligence, are easily offended, and can not be reliability left on their own without screwing something up.

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children and those of us in middle adulthood are left to parent our actual children and our childish parents.

[–] BoulevardBlvd@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 2 weeks ago

Unfortunately I think that's just our parents and not all old people. My parents are the same way, but it seems to me more that maturing is a choice and active process that requires effort, and many people are unwilling to put in the work and vigilance required and it leads to the above

I don't think they're children, I think they're selfish lazy assholes, but the result that they need to be treated like children is the same

[–] thingAmaBob@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago

At some point around retirement age, humans seem to cognitively revert back to children

I haven’t seen that happen to everyone I know around that age. Many still have their wits about them and see the current state of affairs as a clown show. Some are even out here on the streets protesting.

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[–] StarlightDust@lemmy.blahaj.zone 36 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I just keep their Facebook accounts logged in on my phone. Every few months, I will go onto their profiles and unlike pages like "Wear your poppy with pride" and deradicalize their algorithm. Poppies for British boomers on Facebook are like Elsa and Spiderman on YouTube for babies.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 11 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

How are poppies radical on Facebook?

[–] Fluke@lemm.ee 16 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (4 children)

Because the wearing of poppies has become synonymous with the now defunct BNP and the rest of the British right wing for a lot of us.

You can thank Stephen Yaxley-Lennon for that.

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[–] boreengreen@lemm.ee 8 points 2 weeks ago

Facebook slowly pushing more shit and you shoveling the shit away. Nicely done!

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[–] Treczoks@lemmy.world 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

That's what router settings do. Sorry, X is not reachable from here.

[–] davetapley@lemmy.world 24 points 2 weeks ago (5 children)

I love this in general, unfortunately for me my dad is a retired network engineer 😫

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[–] MangoCats@feddit.it 22 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Simpler still: disenfranchise senile boomers. Of course you don't target boomers specifically, any old person with very little time left to live and severe disconnect from reality shouldn't be allowed to vote on what affects the rest of the world long after they are dead.

https://old.reddit.com/r/DownWithIncumbency/

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

severe disconnect from reality

Something about that doesn't sit right with me. Seeing how far the definition of an "illegal alien" is being stretched for deportation, I have a feeling people with autism, ADHD, depression, etc, would all be added to the list of people who are "disconnected from reality"

Not to mention some people are dumb enough to argue being trans is a mental illness aswell. (~~dysphoria is~~ NVM it's a diagnosis, being trans is not)

The better solution imo is to inform people about what's going on around them and how to watch out for pipelines.

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[–] rumba@lemmy.zip 21 points 1 week ago (6 children)

My wife stayed at an Airbnb last week, I tried to convince her to turn the parental controls on and block OAN and Fox.

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[–] Guns0rWeD13@lemmy.world 21 points 2 weeks ago (40 children)

no, WE THE PEOPLE should have global networks that simply remove that kind of brain rot and delete the people that perpetuate it.

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[–] toy_boat_toy_boat@lemmy.world 19 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)
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[–] boreengreen@lemm.ee 18 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I think it would be better to make social media unprofitable with heavy regularion on data collection, trading and sharing.

[–] lemmy_outta_here@lemmy.world 18 points 2 weeks ago

Totally agree. Especially since in my country, young people are swallowing far-right propaganda at a higher rate than boomers. Canada's Tater Tots are trying to elect a MAGA candidate right now. Age is not the problem - the well of information has been poisoned.

[–] Cocopanda@futurology.today 17 points 1 week ago

My parents are full blown terrorists. But their so fat they can't actually do anything about their beliefs. I've warned them that if a Civil War starts. They will be the first to die because medications wont be available to keep them alive and I won't care when it happens. They voted for this and support this trash.

[–] mogranja@lemmy.world 17 points 2 weeks ago

True. I also wanted a senior mode on Apple family groups.

[–] reluctant_squidd@lemmy.ca 14 points 1 week ago (6 children)

It’s the right idea, but too narrow of a demographic. It’s not the old people that seem to be the problem. At least not only them. It’s the uneducated or intellect impaired that should be reined in. The ones that are just smart enough to use Facebook, but would struggle to understand the concept of the Dunning–Kruger effect

The amount of younger people that are sucked in hook, line, sinker, rod, boat, trailer and truck is staggering.

It’s like they decided that reality didn’t work for them, so let’s just ignore it in favour of “insert discriminatory slogan or catchphrase here”.

It’s bonkers.

[–] Doctor_Satan@lemm.ee 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The amount of younger people that are sucked in hook, line, sinker, rod, boat, trailer and truck is staggering.

That demographic is a whole other problem that requires a whole other solution. Conservatives have spent a decade building the online right-wing pipeline with podcast bro's and streamers aiming their content at young teenage boys. Now all those kids are of voting age, and a big chunk of them have spent half their lives being raised on manosphere bullshit that taught them that they are owed the world on a silver platter.

I will hand it to conservatives; they are frighteningly good at organizing and staying on message in ways that the Left can only dream of. If we could get half as organized as them, they'd never win another election.

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[–] WereCat@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

My parents are already fully indoctrinated. I don't think there's a way back

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[–] TheColonel@reddthat.com 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I can’t speak for everyone but I raised my mom right and kept her away from that trash.

[–] explodicle@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I recently thanked my dad for not going all crazy. He fixes up old cars and takes pictures of birds.

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[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 12 points 1 week ago

That’s a feature, not a bug. They show that stuff intentionally.

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