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[–] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 2 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago)

No. Never. My life so far has been desperately explainable by the natural sciences. Not even a challenge. This weird thing I experienced as a child ? cognitive bias. That other strange thing when I was a teen ? hallucination. That baffling encounter in the corn fields years ago ? aliens. Nothing of note, really.

[–] amelia@feddit.org 2 points 3 hours ago

As a matter of fact I'm having one right now, searching for my camera's memory card. I know for a fact that it was on my desk a couple of days ago. I have not used it in the meantime and I'm usually really careful with it as it was quite expensive. But now it's just gone and I've searched the whole damn room for it but it just fucking vanished into thin air apparently. I think I'm going nuts.

[–] Zero22xx@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

When I was a kid, for a while my mother, one of my sisters and I lived with my grandpa. Grandpa loved his caine and other white spirits and would drink until he went and passed out in his room. Then he would start shouting in his sleep and have big fights and arguments with someone. Usually when this started, someone would go to wake him up and tell him to shut up (as suggested by him).

Anyway, one day the three of us excluding grandpa were sitting around in the lounge doing whatever, when next thing we heard grandpa shouting in his sleep from his room. So both me and my sister go to tell him to sit up. And we both saw the shape of a person in his bed and heard him sort of mumble "ah, fine, ok, sorry." And that was the end of the shouting and we went back to the lounge to carry on watching TV or whatever we were doing.

Next thing, a car pulls up outside and out gets grandpa and his friend. They had both been out the whole day and grandpa wasn't actually home that whole time.

That's easily the biggest unexplained experience I've had in my life. The fact that all 3 of us heard him shouting and that both my sister and I saw him in his bed still freaks me out today.

[–] Hadriscus@lemm.ee 3 points 2 hours ago
[–] arschflugkoerper@feddit.org 4 points 9 hours ago

C development does that for you.

[–] 30p87@feddit.org 37 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Yes, but I can't explain it.

[–] bender223@lemmy.today 14 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)
[–] AceFuzzLord@lemm.ee 2 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago)

Closest I can think of was maybe a little less than 2 decades ago now. I vaguely remember it, but some time after my grandpa had died, our landline got a call. I was in the room with my grandma and mother and my mom went to get the phone. There was no number, but instead just his name. Pretty sure she answered, but nobody replied. The line was dead.

My mom swears it was something like my grandpa, in the afterlife, calling to tell us that everything's gonna be okay despite his recent passing, but I don't buy into that kinda religious spiritual stuff

Other than that, I have memories from when I was younger that I cannot confirm or deny because the only people I know who might have an answer probably wouldn't remember and I'd feel real weird asking them about these memories completely out of the blue. One is me supposedly going on a trip with the family of one of my older brother's friend's family to a city/town ( don't remember name ) in a nearby county ( name not included for obvious reasons ) in the same state and me being in the basement in a house we stopped at for some reason. That's a very vague memory. Same with an unconfirmed memory where I swear I went with the mother of this friend to some berry picking place and was stuck in their van once we got back to their place, with nobody coming to help me get out. Very vaguely remember that I couldn't open the van door for some reason. I'd probably chalk that one up to me being a kid and time moving by relatively slow from my perspective, making it seem like forever when it was probably just a couple minutes of me trying to get out.

Both vague and highly unconfirmed, but I am more concerned about the memory of a mystery road trip that I somehow ended up involved in that my parents don't remember. Wouldn't expect them to since they weren't there, but the fact they don't remember this supposed trip happening adds to the mystery.

[–] kalkulat@lemmy.world 7 points 16 hours ago

From your description 'too low to the ground' sounds like it was probably ball lightning ... which can do all kinds of goofy shit depending on the weather or how it was created. I've never seen any good videos of BL on Youtube, but there might be newer ones.

Don't know D.C. at all but if you were anywhere near a marsh, maybe 'swamp gas'?

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 17 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

When I was little, little, like 3-4 years old, I had a dream where a man I didn't know was in my room. He told me not to be scared, and I told him I wasn't. He had a weird, gravelly voice, but I could understand him fine.

He just wanted to know how the family was doing, did so and so get married, that kind of thing. Family gossip.

When I woke up I told my grandmother who turned white and got out a photo album.

I pointed to one of the pictures and went that's him! Who is he?

My great grandfather Claude, who had had throat cancer and a tracheotomy. He died 2 years before I was born.

[–] garbagebagel@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago

My grandma always told me this story of when I was around that same age and I was upset because a lady was yelling at me. There was no lady to be seen, but my grandma always told me it was her mother, who was known for being pretty mean. I'm not sure if I described her physically or anything, but I never met my great grandmother.

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 6 points 16 hours ago

Years ago, our eldest when 2ish got up in his crib from a nap, stood there facing a blank wall and just started...."talking" (Real words/babble mixture) to someone. And it wasn't the "talking to myself" type baby talk either, it was the "I'm talking to someone" type of baby talk. Sent shivers down me and my SOs spines.

Don't let her find this post (I never told her I went digging or what I found lol) but there was a suicide in that house in its past soooo.....

Unfortunately/fortunately we moved out of that house not to long afterwards

But I'm ready in case one day he decides to drop some bombshell like yours lol

[–] ShittyBeatlesFCPres@lemmy.world 6 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Once, but I don’t think it was aliens or supernatural or anything. I was walking home down embassy row in Washington, DC and we crossed 16th St near the White House, and we saw something that looked like a ball of lightening but that way too low to the ground. I asked, “Did y’all see that too?” and complete strangers agreed they did. There was no sound.

Obviously, in that neighborhood, you don’t assume “aliens!” or anything. It was weird to us civilians and I’m quite sure there’s a scientific or classified explanation. But it was definitely a “What the fuck was that?” moment for a half dozen strangers just walking down a busy street.

It didn’t move around or look like images of ball lightening, though it looked like lightening in a sphere in many ways. If it was some electrical explosion, we’d have presumably heard it. So, who knows? Governments and atmospheric conditions do weird shit sometimes.

[–] cebolla@piefed.social 3 points 12 hours ago* (last edited 12 hours ago) (1 children)

I'm from DC, and I flipped once because a ball of lightning about 14" around "flew" through our place. Went through a bookshelf, hit a corner, followed the other wall and disappeared through it. Various people saw it, I watched as they all watched it. I think the brain is funny though, cause I seem to be the only one who remembers it. I just figured DC is weird as fuck, and it's one of the DC has some spoopy shit going on type of things. When I was younger, I used to crawl through The Capital at night going through it's underbelly and such. Was always so "electric" feeling. Rooms never felt truly empty, even if you went into one lined with ten pounds of fabric and doors that could smash you dead. Sometimes, DC feels like the Bermuda Triangle in my head. It's different nowadays, but it still holds that image.

[–] ShittyBeatlesFCPres@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

You know what, though? My power and plumbing never went out. I was apparently on the White House grid. Aliens could have been the answer and I’d have been like, “My toilet flushes and I have a heater even in blizzards. Aliens aren’t my business.”

[–] ShittyBeatlesFCPres@lemmy.world 2 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Having a shitty apartment that never lost power, water, or heat in a major city when I was 23 is probably the most unbelievable part of this story, to be honest. I didn’t care if it was haunted.

Ghosts can’t even touch you. I’m not paying $400 a month extra for no ghosts. Float on through. Give me the haunted place, a sleeping bag, and a 13 inch TV. I’ll negotiate with the ghosts.

[–] cebolla@piefed.social 3 points 3 hours ago

Yo, this is the funniest shit ever! The thing I will never forget is how steep stairs felt going upwards because of the row houses. The owl head shape of the place too. Illuminati =P!

[–] FeatherConstrictor@sh.itjust.works 7 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 19 hours ago)

Definitely explainable by mere coincidence, and only really a little strange but in the interest of contributing more content to Lemmy:

In 2015 I had a dream that I met with Markiplier in person. I don't remember the details of anything, but I remember him extremely distraught, crying, like someone had died and me trying my hardest to console him. The very next day he posted the video talking about his friend Daniel Kyre's passing. Im certain there was no post or anything that I saw regarding this before seeing that video.

I had very frequent nightmares and also watched a lot of Markiplier at the time, so it's really just a timing coincidence.

[–] bender223@lemmy.today 9 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago) (1 children)

I was driving home from LA with a friend. While on the freeway, in the middle of nowhere, and no cars near us, we hear a noise like a hand knocking on the driver side backseat window. There was only the two of us sitting in the front, and there was nothing in the back seats. We confirmed with each other that we both heard the noise, and that it was strange. I was very curious, and it was daytime, so I pulled over to the side to check things out. Nothing. Even a highway patrol officer stop by to check up on us. (Don't worry, we didn't get shot, even though we were non-white, it was a less divided time back then).

To this day, I cannot even imagine what could have made that knocking sound on the window. 😬

[–] Stamets@lemmy.world 7 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Yes. Having memes made about me.

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 4 points 16 hours ago

Lol same, stupid sexy Lemmy-verse making me post lmao