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[–] BotsRuinedEverything@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I've been trying to figure out if there are fewer bots here. I think there are. If there's any substantive difference between the two that's it.

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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Smaller communities make a different quality of conversation. What it reminds me of is early Reddit, yes.

[–] TheGiantKorean@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

We have beans, beef stroganoff, and moths. And people are nicer. I believe that all of this is related.

[–] TimewornTraveler@lemm.ee 5 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

I dont think we're a bunch of angry 16 year old white boys who worship musk and jbp so no we're not the fucking same

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[–] BingoBongoBang@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I joined, hoping that it is way less censored than reddit. Is that the case? Nowadays you can’t say shit in the “social platforms” if it hurts someone. I want to be able to say what In think and read what others have to say even if it hurts my feelings / views.

[–] ouRKaoS@lemmy.today 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I want to murder-death-kill someone every time I see/hear "unalive".

[–] BingoBongoBang@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

You would have been banned on Reddit for inciting violence… wish i was kidding. Kudos

[–] ameancow@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

I want to be able to say what In think and read what others have to say even if it hurts my feelings / views.

I promise you, after two days moderating an actual large discussion forum, you will implement sweeping rules about who can say what about who. The only places people enjoy chatting anymore are places that are moderated.

We can complain about youtube and facebook taking down messages critical of power or corporations, but places like Lemmy are managed by people. It's not censorship, it's going into someone's house and abiding by their rules. It's a whole other topic if what you want to read/say is popular enough that you can find someone's "house" that centers around that topic and is also large enough to have meaningful interactions.

And if you're looking for debate, that shit is dead.

The fact that every community is now insular and bubbled echo-chambers is a result of human tendencies, we gave people total freedom on the internet and instead of using it to learn more and include more people in more conversations, our instincts turned the place into a curdled honeycomb of walled-off communities which were ripe for the plucking by corporate interests.

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[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

It's growing one. The dislike of bots and one-liner posts seems like it could actually stick around as a form of etiquette, although it's too early to really say. A lot of readers will remember the poop post a couple years on, too, which counts.

The political bent and heavy tech-orientation are just a reflection of who the early adopters (and devs) are. Ditto for any extra civility or insight on the part of the people posting.

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[–] hightrix@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

It is the same.

Big communities suck.

Small communities are great if you are part of the in crowd, if not it sucks.

Mods suck.

Admins really suck.

The content is the same, just a day behind.

It is the same.

Yet we scroll and enjoy it.

[–] qevlarr@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Much less "trying to be the funniest person in the room" energy

[–] frostysauce@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Everyone on Lemmy is a fed.

[–] xor@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 month ago

Alright, wrap it up boys, we've been made

[–] billwashere@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Not the same. More like a second cousin, once removed.

[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

I feel like people are nicer to each other on here, but maybe it's just the communities I subscribe to.

[–] AnarchistArtificer@slrpnk.net 3 points 1 month ago

I was going to say "bit of both", but I realise this is complicated by how long I was on Reddit; the culture and experience over there changed over time. I wonder whether the parts of Lemmy that remind me of Reddit are invoking my earlier experiences

[–] katze@lemmy.cafe 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

Reddit is bigger, so it's more diverse and less hateful. But behavioral patterns are the same imo.

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[–] ConstantPain@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (1 children)

People are all the same everywhere.

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[–] DropThePot@lemy.lol 2 points 1 month ago

Reddit's conservatives were marginally smarter

[–] sem@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

I've never seen anybody ponder any orbs on reddit

[–] CtrlAltDefeat@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 month ago

The difference is the type of people who are drawn to Lemmy are more technical, computer savvy

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