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[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 13 minutes ago

Why would you want that? I think of lemmy as an old message board. I think it's better that way.

Anything that gets that big turns into a shithole. Enshitification will find a way. So just don't.

[–] Electricd@lemmybefree.net 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I fear that Lemmy will not scale properly, popularity will exponentially increase the load. It’s basically actions multiplied by instances

[–] Delphia@lemmy.world 1 points 37 seconds ago

The nature of the fediverse means bad actors could run rampant, jumping instances and usernames to turn the place into a shitshow.

The only reason it isnt happening already is that we arent worth the trouble.

[–] justsquigglez@leminal.space 6 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

There's admittedly some things I miss from Reddit like bigger niche communities, but I would never want this to get as popular as reddit, because then you'll end up just getting the same problems as reddit down the road and we'll all have to migrate again. And who wants that?

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 2 points 5 hours ago

If we could somehow keep the bigger Communities the same size they are now, while growing niche Communities, that would be ideal. It's logically impossible though.

[–] PiecePractical@midwest.social 8 points 6 hours ago (3 children)

Porn.

Like any type of media, you win by getting porn on your side. Bring the NSFW content creators over and everyone else will follow.

[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 1 points 12 minutes ago

Yeah the porn here is kinda lacking.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 2 points 5 hours ago

There's a whole instance dedicated to porn, isn't there? At least there used to be, is it still live? My instance is defederared from it so idk.

[–] burrito@sh.itjust.works 2 points 6 hours ago

It worked for VHS

[–] Tenderizer78@lemmy.ml 7 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

Why would we want to do that? Please don't.

[–] Zagorath@aussie.zone 1 points 5 hours ago

Why would we want to do that?

So that we can discuss more niche hobbies with other people who love that hobby.

[–] Pacattack57@lemmy.world 11 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

There only thing Reddit has over Lemmy is their awesome niche subreddits. Outside of that they have nothing and being more like Reddit is not something we want. With attention comes heavier moderation.

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

+1

Reddit can keep all the gigasubs. Let the niche fandoms trickle over here…

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 7 hours ago

I don't think the majority of people here would be happy if that happened.

[–] locuester@lemmy.zip 4 points 7 hours ago

Why?!?! Don’t you like it here? You realize the quality degrades as more ppl arrive?

Dont be a traitor, keep your mouth shut.

[–] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 69 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

Bigger isn't necessarily better

[–] hyacin@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 hours ago

That's not what she said :'(

[–] MyRobotShitsBolts@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Kalothar@lemmy.ca 4 points 7 hours ago

Yeah, sure , but I believe there is a Goldilocks zone we are not yet in

[–] TheGuyTM3@lemmy.ml 8 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago)

I understand the motive, I too am on some niche communities that sometimes didn't have posts for months. For that i use reddit (but the old interface). Now let's see your question.

No, we can't make lemmy as popular as reddit, but we can turn lemmy into a reddit twin, and make it popular, by pushing only one instance like .world.

The social media that popularised fediverse the most was mastodon, and yet it's because they pushed mastodon.social as the default, making a large part of the userbase think that mastodon is only mastodon.social.

People do not even notice things more complicated than buttons "join", "login", or "post". They are lost on join-lemmy.org because they don't know why they should choose a server, read description, understand whatever is federation, and they'll prefer going back to their comfort zone.

But hey, social media experience enshittifies as the userbase gets bigger, and i came here by fleeing reddit so please don't

Keep the light alive as Reddit further enshittifies

[–] sbv@sh.itjust.works 43 points 13 hours ago
  1. Be friendly to other Lemmites. Encourage them to post and comment.
  2. Post and comment whenever you can.
  3. If you have niche hobbies or interests, try posting about them into an appropriate community.

Social networks and message boards get more popular as they get more users. Bring friendly and posting regularly should help us maintain the user base.

[–] dap@lemmy.onlylans.io 35 points 13 hours ago

I personally enjoy that Lemmy isn't as popular as Reddit. It feels more home-grown and friendly because it's not as large. That being said, contributing to and engaging with the content you enjoy is a good start. Finding a niche here can be great and there are tons of interesting communities to contribute to!

[–] dormedas@lemmy.dormedas.com 25 points 13 hours ago

Network effects are quite difficult to overcome. Lemmy’s largest influxes of users have been when Reddit does something unpopular enough to warrant people looking for other places. Same was true when Reddit became popular because Digg made bad decisions, or Facebook when MySpace did.

The answer is that Lemmy almost assuredly will never be as popular, but at least its future is not dictated by the profits of a company, or censorship imposed by or on that company.

The best we can do is make Lemmy a viable alternative (it is) and ensure it is of a high quality.

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 21 points 13 hours ago
[–] wuphysics87@lemmy.ml 2 points 8 hours ago

Our goal is to make Lemmy the best place it can be. Whether that recreates another platform or not

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 14 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Why?

I'd say concentrate on quality over quantity.

[–] july@leminal.space 9 points 13 hours ago

Exactly. I sort through the top 6 hours or top daily. There’s not a lot of posts, but they are all high quality ones.

Reddit is the opposite. I have to go through trash to reach a few good posts. Bigger =/ better

[–] hansolo@lemmy.today 15 points 13 hours ago

Ooooh, no thank you.

Have you seen that place? Gives me the icks.

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Why do people always go for Reddit as this comparison? It's not even the most popular social media. Is it because the question "How can we make Lemmy as popular as Facebook" makes it clear why that isn't something the users would want?

[–] howrar@lemmy.ca 9 points 10 hours ago

I imagine it's because Reddit is closer to the format of Lemmy and it's something we're more familiar with. I also wouldn't have known that Facebook was more popular because it's not something that anyone in my circle uses, but a lot of them use Reddit.

[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

Its like did no one use forums before Reddit? NeoGaf, Linux Questions, planet quake.

[–] mo_lave@reddthat.com 12 points 13 hours ago

I would rather not. Lemmy is not Reddit.

[–] eldavi@lemmy.ml 9 points 12 hours ago

lemmy is better than reddit, popularity will ruin it.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago

Keep bringing it up on Reddit.

When I'm on Reddit, which is only if I fully exhaust myself on Lemmy that day, and I see someone complaining about Reddit, I make a point to let them know about Lemmy.

I don’t want lemmy to become as popular as Reddit

[–] Marty_TF@lemmy.zip 6 points 13 hours ago

You can’t

[–] zewm@lemmy.world -3 points 12 hours ago (1 children)
[–] Abraxas@feddit.uk -1 points 12 hours ago

which are all you make, always.