Fetlife is the only one I can think of.
this post was submitted on 31 Aug 2025
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Ive had some luck on there but not much
FetLife is not intended to be a dating site.
dirtyr4r = robot for robot? On Internet 2.0, it's bots all the way down.
Redditor for redditor
That's what they want you to think ;)
I am here for all requests. Just send me pics and $200 I got you.
Username checks out.
Eating ass gets a bad rap. Thank you for doing your part.
Im not sending you money. Politely fuck off.
You are no fun
People wonβt want to text you with that kind of attitude
Hence why he needs help.
Wouldn't it be "kindly fuck off"? Never heard your version but it's got a nice ring to it. I could see it taking off.
Feeld is a half decent dating app for this, but I really hate suggesting a platform that still tries to rope you into a subscription by praying on insecurities around not getting many matches. But it seems like people are pretty open with what they are looking for, and itβs a pretty diverse platform.
If you're queer, Lex is great, but don't use it if you're not queer (it is explicitly for queer folk) Feeld works, made some good connections there Pure is pretty good for what it is
You could probably start a lemmy community like that and people might start using it. I've seen some people advertise their onlyfans on mastodon but otherwise not really seen much by way of porn on the fediverse so idk if people would use that community.
I imagine the limitation is userbase because if only eg 30 odd people use it, you probably can't find a partner for your niche weird fetish on there.
I mean technically you could do your own fediverse instance and put some ads on Reddit. I bet thereβs one or another lemming in that community whoβs willing to help you set it all up
Youβre looking for Feeld