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[–] mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca 22 points 4 days ago

"Charlie Kirk was a wonderful person"

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 21 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

Totally buying the touristy theme park version of whatever other culture. No, the people at the resort don't actually think you're great. No, tripping with a self-proclaimed shaman who charges a month's local wage to resolve your mommy issues is not how the locals do mysticism.

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[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 112 points 5 days ago (1 children)

"immigration is why our lives are getting worse"

Very clear indicator that someone has barely attempted to understand how the world works

[–] Bbbbbbbbbbb@lemmy.world 22 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I mean yeah thats a good indication, but thinking about it, many asian countries also have this same feeling. So is it a westernized thought process or just "people are stupid as fuck" problem. I lean on the latter.

[–] Zak@lemmy.world 27 points 5 days ago (1 children)

It's a racism problem, which one might argue is people being stupid as fuck.

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[–] ratten 24 points 5 days ago (2 children)

"$1 million isn't a lot of money."

[–] Lushed_Lungfish@lemmy.ca 8 points 4 days ago

Have you seen "Crazy Rich Asians"?

[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 7 points 4 days ago

That could be rich people from anywhere.

[–] CookieOfFortune@lemmy.world 44 points 5 days ago (12 children)

Thinking China is the same as it was 10-30 years ago and that Chinese products can’t have superior quality.

We’ve reached a point where the US doesn’t even know how to manufacture some of the stuff China can.

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[–] prettygorgeous@aussie.zone 78 points 5 days ago (6 children)

MM/dd/yyyy date format by default on software

[–] PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyz 40 points 5 days ago (3 children)

Worst format ever. It should either be dd/mm/yyyy or yyyy/mm/dd

[–] ms_lane@lemmy.world 16 points 4 days ago (2 children)

yyyy/mm/dd

YYYY-MM-DD

Standard is for dashes in ISO8601.

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[–] thatonecoder@lemmy.ca 32 points 5 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (6 children)

The worst?? Try mm/yy/dd, and you'll regret everything in your life. Another β€œgreat” one is yyyy-dd-mm; it'll infuriate anyone using the ISO standard.

[–] PrivateNoob@sopuli.xyz 25 points 5 days ago

Okay now that IS the worst, good point

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ISO-8601. Accept no compromise.

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[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 67 points 5 days ago (7 children)

Failing to have a coherent understanding of how imperialism works. A lot of westerners seem to think they live in developed countries developed purely by their own industry, while not realizing how financial capital continues to plunder the global south.

[–] umbrella@lemmy.ml 26 points 5 days ago (1 children)

sometimes not acknowledging it even exists.

[–] Cowbee@lemmy.ml 19 points 5 days ago

Definitely true as well.

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[–] Pechente@feddit.org 72 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

Maybe more of a US bubble but American software never considers that people might be multi lingual and public transport is always disregarded.

Examples include: Google knows that I speak German and English since I put it in my settings and yet it tries to auto-dub German YouTube content and auto-translates German comments in Maps.

Public transport stops only appear in Google Maps when you zoom in quite a lot despite being some of the most important points of interest when using public transport. Public transport navigation is also very lackluster.

Those are just examples, there are many more examples in software where you can notice some 20 year old US tech bro came up with it who has never been to a different country.

[–] bluesheep@sh.itjust.works 12 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Examples include: Google knows that I speak German and English since I put it in my settings and yet it tries to auto-dub German YouTube content and auto-translates German comments in Maps.

I actually have the opposite problem. Sometimes when googling something I get auto translated results (mostly reddit posts tho), and a week ago the YouTube app on my phone decided to auto translate English video titles.

No, I DON'T want your shitty Dutch auto translation. Give me the original English. I am not English illiterate and you 100% know it, Google.

[–] mrductape@eviltoast.org 7 points 4 days ago (2 children)

Even worse. Recently I was watching a video in Dutch, and it decided to automatically translate the sound to English. AI generated. That was just...it sounded so fucked up.

And why does YouTube think it needs to do that? If I want that, I'll so it myself.

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[–] claymore@pawb.social 8 points 5 days ago

Public transport navigation is also very lackluster.

This reminded me of a few months ago when I went to Milan with a friend. I used Organic Maps for getting around and they used Gmaps. Their phone was always trying to get us to walk as little as possible, using EVERY possible combination of metro, tram and busses for even the shortest trips, it was insane. Change bus here, ride one stop, get on the metro, change to the other line, get back on a bus, take the tram, it never ended. Same trip on organic maps was 3 changes on the metro and a 5 minute walk at the end.

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[–] Sybilvane@lemmy.ca 45 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Their attitudes towards elderly parents. I've been told I shouldn't worry about helping them in their old age because they had their chance to work and save for retirement and so it's their responsibility of it's not enough. Except... They didn't. They migrated here with nothing, provided for THEIR parents their whole lives, and did the best they could for me, which left them with next to nothing. Westerners assume everyone boomer aged or so had the same opportunities that their parents had. The nuclear family is also very hands-off about caring for the elderly. That's not how most of the world operates. Plus, it's so sad!

[–] Yeahigotskills2@lemmy.ml 12 points 5 days ago

Yep, same in the UK. We've abandoned our elderly and seemingly can't wait for our kids to leave so that we enjoy maybe 10 years of watching TV and not working before we die.

In other, less 'developed' countries the family is a unit. The elderly help with the infants (which has been proven to be mutually beneficial), while the rest of the family works or helps maintain the household. There's way less likelyhood of abandonment or lonliness in old age, which in my country is endemic.

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[–] pineapple@lemmy.ml 56 points 5 days ago (1 children)

"If your poor its because you didn't try hard enough"

[–] Ziggurat@jlai.lu 18 points 5 days ago (2 children)

Even in the west that one doesn't stand. We have systemic unemployment and tons of hard working family owned business lost everything when Amazon took their market share

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[–] narr1@lemmy.ml 21 points 5 days ago (4 children)

A close friend (bless his heart) asked me if I "really think China is more free than, say, France?" when talking about things like freedom of the press and journalistic integrity. I've seen a lot of that recently, that because we live in a country which had been once considered to be "socialistic" that the stories we are told and things we have been taught wouldn't align as much with what global and local capitalists want us to believe is true. At one point I remember him critizising me for using the term "wage slave" (which I used jokingly but w/e) because "none of us here are actual wage slaves". Because you apparently have to be an Asian child in a Nike sweatshop to actually be opressed by capitalism. My brother, no-one is free until all are free.

[–] Blisterexe@lemmy.zip 20 points 4 days ago (12 children)

I mean, france is more free when it comes to the freedom of the press

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[–] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 11 points 4 days ago (1 children)

"freedom" is such a vague concept though, mostly used for bullshit rhetoric

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[–] ICastFist@programming.dev 9 points 4 days ago

"We need to help African kids!"

These often don't know a single African country besides "South Africa"

[–] frightful_hobgoblin@lemmy.ml 27 points 5 days ago (8 children)

Someone once tole me only Western hippies believe in alternative medicine

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