My goodness, I hope that woman finds the help she needs in her life.
Because of her weight or what she's saying? Or both?
There's likely some deep rooted trauma there which would be beneficial to have some professional guidance to uncover and address through rational eyes. Our brains will create defence mechanisms to protect itself from perceived harm, but the mechanism may not be a healthy one. A professional can help sus out areas of concern for you and give you new tools for dealing with those emotions.
Her unhealthy choices concerning social behavior and eating habits are likely symptoms of a deeper issue.
Thanks once again kind stranger. You helped me not get angry at those bitches while also showing me the way to deal with mental problems.
Although I should have known better to give importance to a shitpost.
Shitpost or not, there's often an opportunity to reflect and learn. Best of luck my friend
I hope so as well... that wasn't even funny...
Oh so you posted for its educational value?
Yeah, kinda...
Your regular reminder that just being fat does not make you an incel, plenty of very fat guys have partners.
What makes a person an incel is the irrational hatred of women and thinking it’s their fault they don’t get laid while at the same time not noticing or trying to improve upon their own issues.
This can go the other way too where women hate men for the same reason, but I don’t know what that’s called.
It is ironic though that her pair of one was simply describing fat guys, but I have no idea how much audio was clipped or what the contract here is.
Strictly speaking, incel refers to someone involuntarily celibate, regardless of gender. Femcel is the common 4chan term for female incels. It's been used to describe the often misandrist subculture of r/FemaleDatingStrategy as an example.
I believe it’s not involuntary though. I bet it feels involuntary because change is hard, but I bet very very few people actually fall into that bin.
At some point i think they just accept the label and stop trying to improve while pointing to the convenient answers.
This thread is gonna be fun because some of our fellow lemurs are gonna feel real called out.
Watch for the fat jokes and misogyny, those ones.
I don't think we got much of those when the big reddit wave hit... did we 🤔?
Y'all hating but as big and unattractive as she is there's definitely some dude (or chick) getting in those guts, unlike incels.
She's not wrong
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