I'm really not sure and weirded out what happened to my last reply. I typed words and a link, pressed "reply" and somehow it came out something else. Anyway!
Doctors have to please third-party payers, so self-advocacy is crucial. Here is this very brief overview of D-deficiency, and you may be correct about your illness, COVID iirc. Best of luck, wishing you the most speedy resolution!
It's even worse than that. They want women to work full time, keep all the housework done, assume all the work with the child after work, while cooking dinner, washing up, stay looking fantastic, never complain and oh, mow the lawn while I'm playing golf/bball/football on Saturday, and don't forget Suzie has ballet on Wednesday, Bobby has detention on Friday, and football practice on Saturday.