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[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's a reasonable request? Why are you telling them to essentially leave?

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[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 1 month ago

Okay, to bluntly answer your original question then:

People are upset because you lied.

[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 1 month ago (5 children)

I’m comfortable being a woman with my lady parts. I also like to pretend. I told people I was male (transmasc, specifically) so that I could freely experience attraction to just men without having the β€œstraight” label.

This is the part people will likely get upset about. I'm not pretending when I say I'm a woman. I am trans. Trans folks have been begging for people to respect their identity. It has nothing to do with sexuality, I did not transition in order to be seen as a lesbian woman or as a straight man. I did it to be seen as a woman. The other labels are added on after.

The way you've worded this, it seems like you've taken the trans masc identity and the trust that's been garnered around trans identities and abused it. Your feelings about this are valid, but I really feel you should approach this differently.

If you are feeling uncertain about your gender, then explore that and determine if you truly feel that way. Maybe you are trans masc? Maybe not? If you find yourself struggling with your gender but not rejecting your assigned gender at birth, maybe explore what it means to be genderfluid or nonbinary?

If you feel this is strictly a discomfort with your sexuality labels and perception of them, please find some other ways to convey it that does not involve abusing gender labels.

[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 30 points 1 month ago (1 children)

If that "widespread backlash" isn't a call for his head and subsequent dragging out into the street, I don't think it matters anymore.

Because you're mostly JAQing off and dismissing the answers you get.

Also, you did it! Kudos.

That it doesn't matter. These are just comments after all.

[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Prove it, delete your comment.

[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 120 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Try to avoid writing any songs or singing, I fear you may be tone deaf.

[–] RedSeries@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I hope not. The article and video were a little vague on that. Some people apparently cut him off and got out of the car to flip him off, which is a bit much IMHO.

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