[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 2 weeks ago

It's not just the Maga hats. There is a substantial amount of the population that thinks claims like this are just muckracking by "the other side", and that he is really the better candidate in terms of economy, border security, and traditional values.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 months ago

You need a color correction cream to put on prior to your foundation. Orange is the best if you are pale skinned with dark facial hair. Don't be afraid to go with a true orange color - that's how you get it to cancel out the (typically) blue shadow you are seeing.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 months ago

Wait until you learn about the Honored Matres.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 4 months ago

As a trans woman, being fetishized is pretty much the only option I have if I want to date men. Sad to hear trans men deal with this too.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 9 months ago* (last edited 8 months ago)

Doubly so, because my nursing certification is an associate level. Everywhere I looked requires a Bachelors.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 11 months ago

That's what I did last night. Complimented outfits, hair, shoes. I had my pride pin on (necklace, technically), but no one wanted to engage more than just saying hi.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 11 months ago

As long as they aren't getting medical advice from you, I'm good with it.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 11 months ago

No, like my initial comment said, number and types of partners are important, as are your partners' partners.

If you actually read my comment, you can see I'm trying to get people to look past the stigma and actually determine what kinds of risks they have and make safer sex decisions accordingly.

PrEP can have some uncomfortable side effects, and not everyone is able to tolerate it. There are very, very few things in healthcare that we can say "everyone" in a certain cohort should do, and PrEP is no exception.

Your response, which characterizes my post as misinformation, is inaccurate, as I have shown, but I do appreciate the chance to talk about sex and try to normalize it as part of the healthcare discussion 😊

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 11 months ago

I did at the restaurant I worked at when I transitioned, although I switch to initials instead of a female name. Everyone was super cool about it, just went, "ok cool."

Don't be surprised if people mess up, especially people that know you better - it can be harder for people that know you better to make that initial switch. But if your workplace seems cool with it, it probably will be.

Good luck! This is one of the most nerve wracking parts of transitioning, but also the most rewarding. Reach out if you need any help processing when it's over!

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago

For the first time, I am content. It's honestly a wild feeling - less then a decade ago I was about a half step from homeless and an opioid user. Now I've successfully transitioned, gotten my dream job, and have a super cute fat kitty. And I just got a message from what seems like a genuinely decent guy who I'm meeting for coffee.

It's fucking wild. Every day I just appreciate all the small things so much. It's really made me refocus my goal to try to help people as much as I can now.

Rootin for yall. I hope everyone gets to feel this way.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 year ago

I'm really hoping me being a trans woman and the first point of contact will make patients feel safe and be more willing to be honest.

[-] mjsaber@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 year ago

I am 100% with you! CeraVe is definitely not a bad option, but once I was able to find Cetaphil in my area I started using it and haven't looked back.

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