voytek709

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[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

She “just has ADHD and depression”, according to her. 🙄

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 weeks ago

How are you 😊😊

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 weeks ago (4 children)

I might tell him :) if he starts dropping hints and he seems ready

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 6 points 3 weeks ago

You said you probably don’t like guys. Your bio says you’re a lesbian. Could you perhaps try to find girls who act the way you’re looking for and forget the other people? That man is not healthy for you, and you could just be looking for anyone out of loneliness.

Good luck to you 🫂

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 weeks ago (7 children)

Bi, he seems to have internalized homophobia but has dated women and a man. He acts a little different around me but makes a lot of gay jokes/flirts with both his male and female friends. I wanna tell him I'm single now (a while ago, I had a GF) but don't wanna make it obvious I like him.

He's single and athletic, he thankfully sees me not as a dorky loser. (He had an ex BF and GF obsessed with status [when we were 14-15] and the BF HATED that I have autism. He insulted my outfits, and I was honestly jealous of Karl at the time and attracted to his ex. Looking back after around 4 years, I have no clue what I saw in Karl's ex. He was "cool", social, "better" than anyone who wasn't Karl, had no time for "losers", etc. He still thinks Karl's flirtatiousness means he wants his ex back despite flirting with most everyone.

He has convinced people that they were still dating despite no longer liking guys. (Karl's ex is straight now). Karl's ideal friend is athletic and popular, but I'm smart(when i wanna be) and help him with stuff.

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 5 points 3 weeks ago (9 children)
[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 weeks ago

Thanks so much!!

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 3 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

I'm so sorry, both exes sound bad

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Is your Karl 18 and bi😅😂?

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 4 points 3 weeks ago

He doesn’t seem to respect women at all, I would say it’s not worth it. If your girlfriend isn’t giving you the attention you deserve/meeting your needs, you should probably end the relationship. There’s plenty of other people who will treat you better than any of them. Also, Ethan already hasn’t treated you better than they did because he seems to see you as an object/goal.

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 1 points 3 weeks ago

I agree, especially the guy who’s looking for girlfriends online.

 

mi pakala, mi toki pona ala.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by voytek709@lemmy.ca to c/main@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

These are not mine, obviously, plus, I’m a lemmy.ca user (so I apologize for posting here) but I did come across

! meliliolinemeli@lemmy.blahaj.zone and !tonsi@lemmy.blahaj.zone which are both Blahaj Lemmy groups for people who speak Toki Pona.

 

vi har bare Diet

 

It could also just be English if you only speak English.

 

Random post, also he is quite controversial.

So, this guy I used to be friends with (maybe he gets some slack, I’m 18 and he’s 17) is a very far-right individual.

He doesn’t date trans people (which is fine) but he also thinks that they don’t count as “actual” men/women and that they’re some other category, and says he can’t date them “because he’s bisexual”.

He also heavily criticizes Democrats/non-Trump supporters and praises anyone who supports Trump, even if they’re bad people because he doesn’t believe bad people support Trump?

My friend also says it would make sense for him to be bisexual and support Trump since he heavily prefers women and would therefore “fit in with straight people” and not understand LGBT stuff. He seems to support it as a bi dude but the way he talks about other stuff heavily outweighs his support.

He also believes every non-white person should “go back to where they came from”, that they’re all illegal immigrants (bonus points if they’re Latino), and that people who aren’t white are secretly out to get white people.

He even tried to tell me that my friend of Caribbean descent was bad and that he would end up killing us all and tried to persuade me to stop being his friend.

But seriously, prefers the opposite gender or not, he is still bi, and I don’t really understand LGBT Trump supporters much.

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by voytek709@lemmy.ca to c/lesbians@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

Hello, I'm Voytek.

I'm non-binary and technically sapphic (pan), IDK if I count but here I am!!

Also, would it be ok to post updates on my (male) crush?? :)

 

Not everyone thinks this, but I know an extreme right-winger who thinks this. He is also a conspiracy theorist who thinks non-white people are out to get white people so, yeah, odd.

Not every immigrant is illegal or bad. I know a girl who didn't speak English for 3 years when her family legally immigrated, so of course she's been told this.

 

My friend who I kinda like is always making gay jokes, especially towards his other friends (he seems nervous to around me though??)

He claimed he was straight and had a GF but he would also “hint” to being into guys and flirt with his friends.

I had no idea whether or not he was one of the straight guys who jokes around or if he was actually into dudes.

I was too nervous to ask him such a personal question in person (I’m quite embarrassed to ask him anything 😅) so I asked him over text earlier and found out he’s pansexual.

I may have a shot with him, guys!!! (I’m nb)

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submitted 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) by voytek709@lemmy.ca to c/bisexual@lemmy.world
 

So, this guy I’ve been friends with for a little bit and who I kind of like called me cute 👀 I was kind of flustered, to be honest, since I’m not used to being called cute.

I don’t want to overthink things but I’m so happy.

For anyone curious, I'm 18nb, he's 18m

 

Obviously, not everyone is like this, if you’re not like this, I don’t mean you.

You can hate the Russian government or the culture or whatever, but you shouldn’t hate people. You shouldn’t hate people of Russian descent just because of where they came from, because of the language they speak, because of what the russian government is doing.

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