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[-] Skunk@jlai.lu 47 points 1 day ago

He became a Qanon ass licking dumbfuck and a pro Trump cum sandwich.

Also, we are French so his savior isn’t able to place us on a map.

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[-] AFC1886VCC@reddthat.com 9 points 1 day ago

I let my agoraphobia get the better of me.

[-] Psychogasm@lemmy.world 90 points 2 days ago

Friends; plural. I quit drinking.

[-] LodeMike@lemmy.today 45 points 1 day ago

Sounds like a smart way.

[-] Hugin@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

A drinking buddy of mine quit. I got good at making mocktails. Bonus now when I want a cocktail but not booze I can have a nice drink.

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[-] toastal@lemmy.ml 1 points 21 hours ago* (last edited 21 hours ago)

I asked someone to stop saying “half 5” as a time since it was ambiguous & confusing, especially given that we weren’t in an English-speaking country & folks come from all over (many culture this means one thing or the other, while many—including where I grew up—don’t even use it as an expression). I asked a few times, then another time we were gonna meet up, I asked him “half five ha” “so what time do you really mean?” “half 5” …so I just didn’t show up, wasn’t in the mood. We haven’t really talked since.

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[-] s3rvant@lemmy.ml 17 points 1 day ago

Friend moved and changed his cell number at same time... I didn't yet have his email so lost contact.

Found him years later at a random shop, got his new contact info and still besties today :)

[-] Suck_on_my_Presence@lemmy.world 37 points 1 day ago

I bought tickets for a concert for us both provided she drive. She never showed up and didn't answer her phone or anything but was somehow mad at me a few days later.

[-] racketlauncher831@lemmy.ml 18 points 1 day ago

I don't think there's a reason, which I think is the saddest reason. Growing up and drifting apart. Tried many times to fire up conversations but don't know where to start.

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[-] EvilBit@lemmy.world 48 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

My best friend and I suggested online that maybe this friend of ours stop using “gay” as an insult (this was around 2009 or so) and he and his girlfriend became adamantly defensive and mean. When they implied that my best friend was molesting his beloved dog just to be assholes, I just cut the cord and walked away. They were idiots anyway.

Fun fact: the girlfriend was, and is, a huge “do good” volunteer advocacy leader. So, you know, help each other out, but don’t get in the way of my homophobic slurs.

[-] MrFunnyMoustache@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago

Some people respond poorly to criticism, especially when they don't have the brain to identify they do something wrong.

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[-] Annoyed_Crabby@monyet.cc 49 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

This is ages ago, invited me to an MLM event without telling me it's MLM. I've experienced cult that night.

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[-] AntiOutsideAktion@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 day ago
[-] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 8 points 1 day ago

My own dumb actions.

I deserved it. We are on speaking terms now years later at least.

I was weak and lonely and easily susceptible to her boyfriend's advances. We were quite young, early teens.

Joke was on all 3 of us... he hadn't figured out yet that he was gay. Neither had she for that matter. They're both infinitely more happy now. And I'm happy for them.

[-] ch00f@lemmy.world 29 points 1 day ago

I canceled on the biweekly DnD session because it was scheduled for Halloween and I had plans. Told him a little last minute (day before when I realized).

Dude torpedoed our 10 year friendship over that.

[-] Mothra@mander.xyz 6 points 1 day ago

Was that this year? Halloween wasn't too long ago, maybe he was in a bad mood/unstable situation. You may recover if he reconsiders, it feels a bit extreme to burn a decade old bridge just because of that

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[-] The_Che_Banana@beehaw.org 26 points 1 day ago

Dude became an outspoken anti vaxxer, tin foil hat wearing plandemic twat.

The final nail was when he shows up at our business out of the blue one day (literally had not spoken with him in almost a year) where he had left some oil paintings & other artwork to pick them up, then sent a shitty passive aggressive text the next day about how they were not kept in perfect condition.

My dude, you left them without a word otherwise over 4 years ago, we have shit to do besides take care of discarded art.

[-] tetris11@lemmy.ml 16 points 1 day ago

Good friend, helped me through my parents long divorce. I moved abroad and got a bit lonely out there. Him and his then longterm gf who I was also good friends with had planned to come out and see me.

They then split shortly before. I wanted to be friends with both of them, but if I'm honest with myself, I thought the gf had feelings for me, as her texts to me were getting very high in emoji content. I encouraged them both to come separately and my friend said that our friendship was over if his ex comes to visit me. I guess he knew me better than I knew myself.

He didn't visit, she did. Nothing happened but there were clearly mixed messages on my side. Lost two good friends in one go.

Have made a few good friends since then, but I do miss him and that social circle a lot. I surprisingly haven't learned to not take liberties in friendship circles, but I'm trying to learn.

[-] Today@lemmy.world 43 points 2 days ago

Lost (sent away) two who tried to 'date' my husband.

[-] rautapekoni@sopuli.xyz 20 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

One where I was dumb was when I sold my then one of best friends a laptop and took his word for him going to pay a week later even though I knew he was a small time grifter. We were tight so I thought he wouldn't screw me over but alas, believing in people is dumb.

The second was an online friend of many years and good emotional support one way and the other, but then out of the blue the dude starts spewing hate and straight up tells me he's a nazi. Fuck that guy. Well fuck the first guy too, but at least I knew the devil back then.

[-] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

She stole from me.

[-] dukatos@lemm.ee 8 points 1 day ago

I ordered some supplements for him, $24 in value. We should have meet when he returns from the trip. He just ghosted me instead. We were friends since 1997. I didn't even planned to ask him for money... Yes, he is still alive.

Lost all my friends every couple years growing up thanks to the US military moving us around. Do not recommend.

Got a great dad out of the situation though so I’m not bitter. Much.

[-] PerogiBoi@lemmy.ca 5 points 1 day ago

Same except my dad was a PhD who never could get tenure anywhere because he has malignant narcissism and makes every workplace he goes to toxic.

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[-] pr06lefs@lemmy.ml 31 points 2 days ago

Mad she didn't get invited to a concert my GF bought tickets to. Welp

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[-] wewbull@feddit.uk 10 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)
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The Iraq War

[-] SexualPolytope@lemmy.sdf.org 18 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

He had an argument with my then girlfriend, and stopped talking to me for some reason. We never had any issues or arguments, but he simply won't reply to me or return my calls. After a while, I gave up. We had been friends for about 7 years at that point.

[-] Vaggumon@lemm.ee 22 points 1 day ago

Brother: Lets just say we had a major disagreement in early November.

[-] thetreesaysbark@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 day ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

Couldn't agree what stash you'd each grow for Movember? :D /s

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[-] 01011@monero.town 10 points 1 day ago

His girlfriend at that the time said I was handsome causing dude to become incredibly insecure and petty.

[-] zerozaku@lemmy.world 13 points 1 day ago

I used to have an online friend who never really texts me first unless I do. Since they're a leftie, I wished them on Happy Left-handers Day and they replied that I don't need to wish them, which I only did to spark some conversation. This put me off and I went "Alr I won't bother texting you ever" and they went "Ok".

Haven't texted them in 3 months, neither did they (as they don't ever). Idk who is the idiot here, me, she or both.

I don't really like ending friendships from my side, so I might text them on her birthday and see how it goes.

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[-] Clbull@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

A mutual friend of ours got into an argument with him because he made some new friends at his local pub and was buying pints for them left, right and centre. He took serious offence to the suggestion that they were using him for his money (he got about £120k in inheritance after his mum died) and cut both of us off, even though I never said anything to him.

I don't want to elaborate on his backstory but he had a lot of mental health problems and past trauma. After a lot of bad things happened a few years ago, he decided that he was done with life and vowed not to outlive his cats. Have tried to talk him out of it but he's set on ending his own life after his cats pass away.

I presume he's still alive, but I can't get in touch with him as he nuked his phone number and blocked me on all socials.

[-] theywilleatthestars@lemmy.world 18 points 2 days ago

Whenever I wanted to hang out she was at volleyball practice

[-] BlueSquid0741@lemmy.sdf.org 10 points 1 day ago

Back in primary school (end of 1997), my best friend went to a different high school the next year and we never spoke again.

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