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[-] dejected_warp_core@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Invest in people.

Barring that: move to somewhere that is better for investing in people.

Doing better with only a focus on money, within a capitalist framework, will absolutely challenge your morals and ethics from time to time. Investing time in people, and community in general, has no such downside. Also, you'll need both to ascend Maslow's Hierarchy and be a well-rounded and healthy person around here. Succeeding in this area will also shift your viewpoint away from purely financial matters, or worse yet, basing your self-worth on your financial value to the market.

[-] cheers_queers@lemm.ee 2 points 2 hours ago

i cry a lot and smoke a lot of weed lol

[-] Eww@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

I try to maximize my time doing things I actually like doing. I don't have control over the rest of the hell hole, but I can try to make my small part of it bearable. Even better if I can share the enjoyment with others so they can escape, if only for a while

[-] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 5 points 3 hours ago

It's kind of like trying to cope with the reality of death

[-] Acklavidian@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)
  • To be or not to be
  • But that's not the question
  • How to be me
  • If I'm more than a profession
  • Won't leave me be
  • If only to form a question
  • While I try to want to be
  • So I cope with the trope
  • Choke on their smoke
  • And pretend I learned their lesson
  • Wait for a rift in the grift
  • And not drift into depression
  • Hard to try an ignore the lie
  • So they can worship their myth
  • To give their false confession
[-] hightrix@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago

Pretty easily.

I live my life and care about the people around me. I ignore things I can’t affect.

The sky is not falling. The ground is right here and things are generally OK for most people.

[-] 1SimpleTailor@startrek.website 13 points 5 hours ago

I don't want to overstate this, but some liberation can come from within.

Yeah, we all have to play their game, but internalizing the values our sick society places on us is optional. Make peace with the things you alone cannot immediately change. Resist in the small ways you are able, find joy where you can, and do what you can for the people you care about. Free your mind and your ass will follow.

[-] FabledAepitaph@lemmy.world 7 points 6 hours ago

Just here trying to create an emotional and practical safe zone for myself, family, and my friends, and fuck the rest of 'em

[-] myusernameis@lemmy.ca 8 points 7 hours ago

So I went through a very dark place a few years back. Anxiety, depression and PTSD led me to the conclusion that "life is hard and always will be and that in the whole of human history we are all insignificant".

But with the help of a great therapist (and some meds) I was able to append "so I might as well have fun".

So I try to find joy wherever I can. So yes to doing things, fight my cynical side, make friends, dress weird, dance, party, be my (weird fun happy) self, allocate zero fucks to the haters and all to love to the people that matter.

I still fight the system where I can, but mostly by trying to make other's lives happier. Let the billionaires be rich miserable assholes, we're too busy dancing slutty to care.

[-] AdolfSchmitler@lemmy.world 10 points 9 hours ago

Smoke a lot of weed

[-] Lennnny@lemmy.world 7 points 8 hours ago

Reading history books for greater context. Shit always finds a new flavor of fucked, apparently.

And drinking a boatload.

[-] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 4 points 6 hours ago

This can also backfire. It's frustrating to see history repeating itself so clearly over and over again, while being utterly powerless to really change it.

[-] Dorkyd68@lemmy.world 4 points 7 hours ago

Drugs, lots and lots of tender loving illigeal drugs

[-] mjhelto@lemm.ee 9 points 9 hours ago

I silently quit life. It's not going well.

[-] cheers_queers@lemm.ee 1 points 2 hours ago

can you elaborate on what that means?

[-] Sixtyforce@sh.itjust.works 3 points 7 hours ago

I refuse to have children in response to what I see with my own eyes. No thanks to my parents for making me exist.

[-] 4lan@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

Glad I'm not the only person who resents their parents for making them

[-] IDKWhatUsernametoPutHereLolol@lemmy.dbzer0.com 14 points 11 hours ago* (last edited 11 hours ago)

Remember that the world used to be filled with feudalistic absolute-monarchist nations where the Emerperor/King always got away with doing immoral shit, and most people who worked for the monarch can fuck up your life with zero repercussions.

Today, at least sometimes the leaders can get punished.

South Korea just Impeached their president. And the president will likely get convicted and removed from office and go to prison, just as with one of the presidents before.

Brazil is now investigating their former President for an attempted coup.

The US isn't there yet, but at least we tried. Eventually, the president will be held accountable, maybe not in 10 years, but eventually we'll evolve out of this shit. The US had slavery, and got rid of it (for the most part). We had Jim Crow and got rid of that. It used to be only white male landowners could vote, and eventually Black Men, then Women, also got the right to vote. Progress happens even if it looks very slow.

Back then there was also no modern medicine, a small flu can kill you. If a family had 2 children in any country that's even slightly developed, both children likely survive. But before modern medicine, you need like 8 children and maybe 2 of them will survive.

Back then there were no entertainment on demand, if you are bored, you are just bored. Now we can just go on Youtube, Netflix or whatever and have a billion things to watch.

Back then, you didn't have a 40 hour work week, you were on a farm and had to constantly work. Any bad weather and crops died you're starving. Or if it post industrial revolution, you could be at a factory with way longer hours and much worse conditions than today.

People think "this is so bad" but it was way worse before.

[-] Shardikprime@lemmy.world -2 points 6 hours ago

Me and my family have been doing really well since we escaped the leftist venezuelan dictatorship.

[-] HawlSera@lemm.ee 3 points 11 hours ago

Try really hard to ignore all evidence against the afterlife.

[-] 4lan@lemmy.world 2 points 6 hours ago

I wish so hard that I could believe. Just lie to myself forever, When you die it's not like you find out...

[-] HawlSera@lemm.ee 1 points 27 minutes ago

In a universe where efverythingf is forever, energy and matter just take new forms never truly destroyed...

Why the fuck is conciousness the exception

[-] 1SimpleTailor@startrek.website 1 points 2 hours ago

Your lizard brain is wired to avoid death, but non-existence shouldn't be scary. You've already done it for possibly an infinite amount of time.

[-] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 14 points 16 hours ago

Preparing myself for the world Titor predicted. Small communities.

Learning to homestead as best I can as a renter. Lots of raised beds and planter bags.

I only buy things to support my hobbies. Saving up for land and a prefab home so I can go completely independent.

I don't want to worry if critical food gets expensive again.

[-] CheeseNoodle@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

Climate change is really fucking that idea up here in Scotland.

Our ecosystem relies on now non-existant snowy winters to reset the pest and fungus population every year, instead we get mild winters and summer that have no actual rain to water plants yet are so humid that everything is permamently damp, pests and fungi ramp up year on year and plants that used to grow fine here (Talking potatoes and even some native trees) are struggling. I'd say a full half of the non-confierous trees near my house have started dying in the last 2 years.

SERN will take over the world.

The Organization is on to me now.

El Psy Congroo

[-] bitwolf@sh.itjust.works 2 points 8 hours ago
[-] Valmond@lemmy.world 4 points 12 hours ago

I would have tried this so hard a long time ago but there is basically 2 things keeping me in the shackles: dentists & hospitals.

How do you deal with that?

[-] y0kai@lemmy.dbzer0.com 3 points 9 hours ago
[-] Valmond@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago

With bad teeth? That won't work!

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[-] electric_nan@lemmy.ml 15 points 17 hours ago

I organize and build relationships in my community. Everyone has something to offer and something they need. It isn't always immediately obvious what those things are, so it's nice to have an existing network when you figure it out. Get together. Have potlucks. Share your skills, knowledge, tips, tricks and resources.

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[-] bokherif@lemmy.world 14 points 18 hours ago

Underwork when I can, especially if I feel underpaid and under appreciated. Humanity is doomed to destroy itself, so I don’t worry all that much about things. Hell, at this point I would enjoy watching it end. But until then, I’m gonna chill, smoke weed, make music and spend time with the good folks around me.

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[-] Texas_Hangover@sh.itjust.works 14 points 18 hours ago

I go to work, enjoy my hobbies, support my family, and drink a lot.

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