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[–] njm1314@lemmy.world 17 points 4 days ago

I could do without all the fascism.

[–] ThatGuy46475@lemmy.world 21 points 4 days ago

“My dad spent 10 years molesting me, my mom said to invite him to my wedding, AITA for saying no?”

[–] qnvx@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago (2 children)

US defaultism, eurocentrism, assuming everyone is male. But I think they are already here.

[–] piratekaiser@lemm.ee 5 points 3 days ago

What you on about, brother? Isn't this a place on the internet, here thanks to god's favourite country ? Clearly everyone can relate to the quintessential USA-ian experience!

And what's that about Eurocentrism, look at a map, Europe is dead center! Asia is to the east and Americas to the west... Relative to Europe!

Oh and here's a massive /S, just in case...

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[–] NeedyPlatter@lemmy.ca 35 points 4 days ago

Those god awful ads that disguise themselves as posts.

[–] scaramobo@lemmynsfw.com 9 points 3 days ago

I was today years old when i was reminded again of this godawful expression.

[–] VinesNFluff@pawb.social 18 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Just one. JUST. ONE.

Communities almost wholly moderated by an automod bot, that is extremely strict about nonsense, and where 99% of posts are strictly forbidden.

"ALL QUESTIONS SHOULD BE IN THE MEGATHREAD!!!!!!!!1111111111one" and then you peep the megathread, it's months-full of unanswered questions because no actual community member READS the fucking megathread, and then the excuse is "BECAUZ WE WANT QUALITY CONTENT!!!!!!" and you check the sub itself and the "quality content" is one post every 3 months by the powermod that has the power to override the bot.

This was the most annoying thing about Reddit and made getting conversations going nearly impossible. PLEASE do not bring that over.

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[–] PeteWheeler@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago

Constant reposts and lack of any critical thinking or engagement. It is insane to think that every post I have put on here so far, I am new, has had more interaction that the gigantic 'active' user base of Reddit.

[–] chronotron@lemmy.world 11 points 4 days ago

complaining about a hivemind

[–] blarth@thelemmy.club 10 points 4 days ago

Suppression of discussion through mega/weekly/monthly threads.

Post requirements that result in posting anything nearly impossible.

Fucking stupid rules for mods to abuse with their dork ass internet powarz.

Clear corporate astroturfing.

[–] MedicPigBabySaver@lemmy.world 22 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Anti-emoji.

I'm not gonna bomb the place with them, but, occasionally if it fits, I'm throwing it in.

Cheers! 🍻

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 9 points 4 days ago (7 children)

You've got 3 emojis in your name.... I think you might use them more than most by a decent margin haha.

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[–] Jakeroxs@sh.itjust.works 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

There's a lot of emoji haters here

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 4 points 4 days ago

I installed a blocker in firefox.

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[–] ThisIsAManWhoKnowsHowToGling@lemmy.dbzer0.com 62 points 5 days ago (3 children)
[–] 50_centavos@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago

"This" used get downvoted into oblivion back in the day on Reddit.

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[–] Dettweiler42@lemmy.dbzer0.com 48 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Edit: Thanks for the upvotes!

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 38 points 5 days ago (1 children)

edit: Thanks for the gold, kind stranger!

[–] 50_centavos@lemmy.world 17 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Edit: omg my first gold and it's about buttholes smh

[–] TriflingToad@sh.itjust.works 8 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

Edit: you'll never know why I got these upvotes (more on YT, but I think it applies here also)

[–] Lasherz12@lemmy.world 34 points 5 days ago

Charging developers for API access after they go out of their way to make products that greatly improve the experience.

[–] spittingimage@lemmy.world 46 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Karma-farming. Please lets just be our genuine, authentic, awful selves.

[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 18 points 5 days ago (3 children)

It helps that we have no karma. Also, some instances bouncing downvotes helps a bit.

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[–] parmesan@lemmy.world 25 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Every single comment thread on anything that reaches r/all quickly devolving into the most unfunny and unoriginal jokes and/or references. Regardless of how grim/serious the original post was.

[–] the_crotch@sh.itjust.works 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Especially egregious: someone quotes a Simpsons/South Park/whatever episode and the next 20 comments are people quoting the rest of the episode

We get it. You watched a hugely popular TV show. So did everybody. That's why it was hugely popular.

[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

And my axe!

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[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 35 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] Irelephant@lemm.ee 22 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (4 children)

Thats already here.

edit: don't know why I was downvoted, its literally a lemmy feature.

[–] DarkFuture@lemmy.world 19 points 5 days ago (2 children)

don’t know why I was downvoted

I'm convinced there are people out there that just downvote everything. They get some kind of chemical release in their brains when they hit the downvote button. You could say "being happy feels good" and someone out there will downvote it.

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[–] RememberTheApollo_@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

The constant chasing of low hanging fruit. Doesn’t matter if it’s seeking the upvotes for a cheap quip on a serious subject or reposting the same old shit trying to get upvotes.

Reposts. We don’t need a constant churn of popularity seekers.

The hive mind. Really bad in big subs on reddit. Probably inevitable in any large online group, but reddit can be unreasonably bad.

Bots.

[–] Clbull@lemmy.world 25 points 5 days ago (4 children)

Novelty/troll accounts. I've seen a lot of them pop up on Reddit over the years. The most infamous one I remember was one called Gradual_****** (yes, the n-word) that would type out ordinary replies that would gradually switch to ebonics.

[–] ApollosArrow@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

I really enjoyed the art accounts and shittymorph.

[–] renlok@lemmy.world 6 points 4 days ago

A lot of the original ones for year ago were pretty good like shitty watercolour

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[–] CarnivorousCouch@lemmy.world 33 points 5 days ago (7 children)

All the tired puns or jokes about Nazis/Hitler. "Anne Frankly, I did Nazi that coming!" "You gotta hand it to Hitler, at least he killed Hitler." Etc.

It's the kind of thing you might chuckle at once, but so many comment threads end up piled with the same brain rot nonsense as people trip over themselves to parrot their quirky internet catchphrases.

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[–] weeeeum@lemmy.world 7 points 4 days ago

Karma and comment requirements to participate in communities. Plus how hard it is for your submission to actually be approved.

This one is inevitable but people going through your whole comment history when arguing with you.

[–] roserose56@lemmy.ca 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Random persons(bots) writing their story of their life in comments. Karma farming, which leads to nothing but trying to show off or push propaganda.

[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago

I've noticed a lack of "thathappened" type of stories. Either people here value their privacy or don't feel the need to lie to farm nonexistent karma.

[–] meyotch@slrpnk.net 9 points 4 days ago (1 children)

“Leopard-face” replies masquerading as a substantive comment that adds something to the discussion.

It’s really no better than: “This”

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[–] slazer2au@lemmy.world 23 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (5 children)

Just commenting 'this' to show an agreement.

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[–] Oberyn@lemmy.world 21 points 5 days ago (6 children)
  • Peops being unnecessarily confrontational towards each other till entire screen just lines
  • Stupid stock phrases (man of culture|cake day|kind stranger|calling up votes "updꝏts"|.*)
  • Crappy bots with no real utility replying to random comments
  • Rudeness to light mode users , r/chargeyourphone
  • Ableist subs like ⦅system|fakedisorder)cringe|illnessfakers|raisedbyn●●●●●●●●●s|BPDlovedones|.*)
  • Rage bait posts like that one cake AITA post (no way it's real)
  • Karma requirements for subs like r/assistance . Dear god fckin HOPE karma dœsn't get added to lemmy …

Already answered similar thread to this one 2 yrs ago , but threadiverse changed somewhat since then . Had different answers some of them already made their way here since , so gave different answers this time

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[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] Duamerthrax@lemmy.world 2 points 3 days ago

Too late, but at least alternatives pop up more quickly here. I'm not going near any of the 196 coms, but it's a good example of how little power bad mods here have.

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