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[–] Xed@lemm.ee 2 points 6 days ago

I don’t understand people not liking lentils. I think they do not know how to cook it 🤔

[–] IndiBrony@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago (8 children)
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[–] FistingEnthusiast@lemmynsfw.com 18 points 1 week ago (6 children)

Haggis

They're wrong, but I get it

[–] ramble81@lemm.ee 7 points 1 week ago

I always heard “haggis is an acquired taste” and “it’s disgusting because of what’s in it”. But the first time I tried it… holy shit it’s awesome.

[–] IndiBrony@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago

Haggis is only hated by those who haven't tried it.

Goes great with some neeps and tatties ❤️

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[–] AZX3RIC@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (4 children)
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[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 15 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (8 children)

皮蛋 a.k.a. "century egg" or, more boringly, "preserved egg".

I get it. I really do. Everything about these from the colour to the texture to the aroma to the flavour is highly alien to most people's tastebuds. (It took me ten years to warm up to them myself!) But now that I pushed through it, they're one of my favourite things.

...edited to add this picture for those who are unfamiliar:

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[–] sgbrain7@lemm.ee 13 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I really like olives, but I totally get how they're not for everyone. I also love capers and seaweed.

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[–] lemmyng@lemmy.ca 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Liver and Onion, anchovies, chunchullo, whitebait, blood and tongue sausage... generally these fall in two categories:

  • Food that has a particularly strong flavor that clashes with what people are used to, and
  • Food that is made from the parts of an animal that is not "meat" and therefore has an unfamiliar texture.

They're wrong on all accounts - taste is acquired, and people should at least try food out of their comfort zone - but considering that it took 20 years for me to even consider trying shrimp (which still isn't my first choice, but I like it now) I can understand.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Bleu cheese. It's got the funk, and is literally moldy; I can see how that could be off-putting for someone.

Cilantro. Because I know there's people who have a gene that makes it taste like soap to them.

[–] RebekahWSD@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm so sad I have the bad genetics for cilantro. Everyone who loves it seems to love it so much! But alas, soap.

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[–] higgsboson@dubvee.org 11 points 1 week ago (8 children)
[–] sgbrain7@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago

mmm, I could go for some crispy tofu with hot sauce right about now

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[–] Puzzlehead@reddthat.com 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] nailbar@sopuli.xyz 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

I only understand other people hating it because so many people have said so. So it's more of an acknowledgement than actually understanding.

Of course, I understand people are different, so there's that.

[–] xep@fedia.io 9 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Durian. Apparently it's absolutely disgusting for some people.

[–] Zentron@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago

I love durian stuff... gf refuses to kiss me for 2 days afterwards but its worth it every time

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[–] v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 week ago

Cauliflower soup. It tastes amazing to me, but it really does smell like farts

[–] fubarx@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago (5 children)
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[–] Nikkiagoyev@lemm.ee 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Grilled liver and onions and jarred Gefilte Fish. Both I grew up eating as an Ashkenazi jew with a working mom who didn't have time to make her own Gefilte Fish haha. I do understand that both are an acquired taste though.

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[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Oatmeal. Yes, it's the texture and temperature of boogers, but I never ate my boogers growing up. What I ate growing up was a lot of oatmeal.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

You must have been eating rolled or, worse, coarsely ground oats if you got the texture of boogers. If you want a completely different experience that tastes great and has a nicer texture, try cut oats instead. They take longer to cook, but they're MAGNIFICENT.

[–] Nemo@slrpnk.net 2 points 6 days ago

I've had all three througout my life and I prefer the rolled oats.

[–] MoreFPSmorebetter@lemmy.zip 7 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Sushi. Steak tartar.

I like my meat raw if I can eat it without dying.

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I'm the polar opposite. Steak tartar makes me gag and the highest quality sushi I ever ate barely reached "meh". (Normal sushi falls into the "let's just slide this in the garbage bin when nobody is looking" camp.)

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[–] 2ugly2live@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (3 children)
[–] IndiBrony@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] ramble81@lemm.ee 4 points 1 week ago (3 children)
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[–] scytale@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (5 children)

I like Sushi Bake, but when I posted it in one of the food communities on lemmy, I was surprised that a significant % of people in the comments hated it.

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)
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[–] Ilixtze@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Sea Oysters! Back when I lived by the coast, I would tag along for a ride with my fishermen uncle; we would cut some oysters with a knife from the side of the port and snack on them through the day; Just opening them up with a knife, add chopped purple onions, avocado, tomatoes, lemon and hot sauce and slurp em' off the shell!

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[–] Bagel5941@aussie.zone 5 points 1 week ago (7 children)
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[–] PrincessTardigrade@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Goat cheese, lamb/mutton, truffle and any kind of mushroom, spicy foods

Once I had this dark chocolate with chile pepper and pop rocks in it, no one else wanted to try it but I really liked it

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[–] Emmie@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It’s not about the food but about the time of enjoying the taste of it

I like big dishes in the morning. Like really salty, savoury and messy

I routinely wake up, smell an imaginary scent of a whole dinner (hallucinations) and proceed to eat it as first thing in the morning

[–] DibbleDabble@lemmy.ml 5 points 1 week ago (6 children)
[–] Evkob@lemmy.ca 1 points 6 days ago

You've got me curious! I've always enjoyed eating spicy foods along with coffee, so this sounds like something I'd like.

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[–] minyaen@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago

Waiting on the balut comment... 🤢🤮

[–] Jarix@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

Meat, cheese and dairy

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Most of my lazy dishes are pretty terrible on paper but are really tasty imo.

For example I sometimes make a fried noodles and tofu that as a sauce has a fuckton of sriracha and nutritional yeast. It's basically a super spicy ans super umami dish, but you kind of need to let it grow on you.

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