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(For people who don't know, BestBuy is an electronics store that is common in the USA)

This would be in c/ActuallyInfuriating if the consumer protections weren't as good, but for now, its just a chargeback away from fixing the problem. (I hope the bank doesn't fucks me over. If they fuck with me, then this is gonna end up in Actually Infuriating). Anyways:

Two days ago, I bought a laptop on BestBuy, but they didn't use UPS like they had in the past, instead they used Doordash 🤦‍♂️. When I saw that, I wanted to cancel because I didn't trust fucking Doordash, but it didn't let me cancel, so I just hoped nothing bad happens.

Oh wow, my gut feeling about Doordash actually predicted the future.

So, today it was supppsed to be delivered, I saw the guy park in front of my house for a few minutes (I know that's him because I saw him on the map on the Doordash tracking link), dude walked out, looked my house, went back into his car, drove to the back alleyway (its a neighborhood of single family row-houses), I saw him on my CCTV cameras, he place down the package at a neighbor's back door, take a pickture, then grabbed it place it back in his car, then quickly drove away.

Bruh.

Now I have to make some phonecalls. Thanks, corporate, great fucking job. I hope the CEO of bestbuy can choke on his pay increase.

And if you are wonder why I didn't just go to BestBuy, I live in a car-centric city and I don't have easy access to a car, and carrying big electronics in public transit is just asking for someone to mug you.

At this point, corporations are just in a race to see who gets to be crowned the worst corporation. I mean I hate Amazon and Bezos too, but at least they have a PIN verification system now, so drivers can't just steal stuff, wtf is BestBuy doing? Fuck these shitty corporation.

I wish I could show you the camera footage, but don't wanna get doxed.

Probably not using ~~best~WorstBuy again, not with this bullshit "Doordash" delivery. What an actual disaster.


Btw I tried calling bestbuy, they had a fucking voice-bot thing that refused to let me talk to a human until 48 hours has passed. So I just go straight for the dispute, right? I don't wanna wait 48 hours.


Update: So I got through the bot thing by spamming 0 (or perhaps some other key, I can't be sure), I got to a rep and explained the situation, they said they send a request to BestBuy and BestBuy will do an "investigation" with Doordash, whatever that means, and then refund. They said it's supposed to take 3 bussiness days. Well, today is Thursday, Tomorrow is Friday, so I'm guessing by Tuesday end of the day it's supposed to be resolved?

I mean, I'm giving them 1 week. I'm definitely filing that dispute the Friday next week. Technically I have 60 days to dispute, but I'm gonna stay on the safe side and 1 week is all I'm giving. I'm really wanting to just file right now, but I'm don't want to get banned from BestBuy for life just yet, but if they don't refund within a week, I'm just gonna have to be banned from bestbuy, I guess... 🤷‍♂️

Gonna update later if y'all are still curious in a few days.

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[–] markovs_gun@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Thanks for the heads up. I have ordered things online from best buy in the past but not again if they're going to do this shit. I know they're not reading Lemmy for customer experiences but this is ridiculous and nobody should have to go through that. I think a week of "investigation" is more than generous especially if you have video of the guy stealing your shit. I would also file a police report to really add to the evidence but that's even more time out of your day and then you have to talk to the cops and explain why the felony theft (at least in my state) that you were the victim of is worth the time it takes for them to get off their asses and stop eating doughnuts for 5 minutes to collect the report. A lot of companies won't do shit without a police report. The driver is also probably going to be pissed if he gets fired over this and also knows exactly where you live, so having a police report is a good idea if he tries some shit. Not that the police will actually do anything about it, again it just adds to the paper trail.

[–] waspentalive@lemmy.world 10 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I live in Sacramento, but I drive to San Jose for Central Computers or now MicroCenter to buy gear.. I buy nothing mail order, porch pirates are bad enough, but when the driver himself is the thief, that is just it.

Ironically, I never had a "porch pirate", my neighborhood is pretty chill with that, its not even a rich neighborhood, everyone here is working class. The driver, however, picked up the order from a warehouse like 2 hours away, so I'm assuming he's not from my city. I had more drivers themselves stealing shit than just random people walking. My neighbor leaves like 5 packages on their doorsteps and didn't come home til like 2 days later (idk where they went tbh, I don't really talk to them), the packages were still there. They have packages on their doorsteps like few hours at a time every week, never seen anyone steal it. Maybe because its within sight of my cameras? But like, that didn't deter that guy that stole my stuff earlier, and judging from the news, thiefs don't seem to care if there's a camera, they steal it anyways I guess my neighbood is just that good with not touching other people's stuff?

[–] magnetosphere@fedia.io 6 points 6 hours ago

I didn’t even know this was a thing. I’ll definitely watch out for it.

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 34 points 9 hours ago (1 children)

I used to do Postmates, and I used to get these kinds of deliveries. I’m not trying to defend BestBuy or DoorDash. This is entirely on the driver. I never even thought about stealing people’s expensive electronics, and I would text or call the customer to ask where they wanted me to leave the package.

I would send the evidence to the police & file criminal charges against the driver.

Still, you should hassle the corpos, but don’t forget that the driver is the real criminal here.

[–] ThisIsFineDotJpeg@sh.itjust.works 31 points 8 hours ago (2 children)

Still, you should hassle the corpos, but don’t forget that the driver is the real criminal here.

Honestly, I put 50% blame on the thief, 50% blame on Bestbuy. Theft from your fellow working class people is fucked up, but BestBuy using shady delivery services is also unacceptable.

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 5 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

I can definitely agree that BestBuy & DoorDash are on the chopping block for negligence, but they aren’t the ones who stole your laptop.

In a better, and perhaps idealistic, world DoorDash would be a perfectly acceptable & respectable option for BestBuy to contract for deliveries. And even in that better world, the driver is still the real criminal; fellow working class or not.

Justice should fuck everyone that needs to get fucked; whether they are a big fish or a small fish.

[–] Saleh@feddit.org 4 points 4 hours ago

In a better world the driver wouldn't be exploited in a gig economy and have little incentive to risk criminal charges for a fucking laptop.

You are completely running past socioeconomic factors to be the main driver of small scale crime.

[–] Baguette@lemmy.blahaj.zone 11 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

I'd put blame on doordash as well. What's the point of a 3p delivery system if the system literally accepts anyone that applies, especially in this case

[–] kemsat@lemmy.world 1 points 4 hours ago

Yeah, I definitely agree that they should be required to do the due diligence when it comes to hiring their delivery personnel.

[–] 01189998819991197253@infosec.pub 33 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

Call the ~~bobbies~~ police and file a report, using your footage as evidence. If it's like here, they won't actually do anything, but you'll need that report to file a dispute with your bank. Best buy will likely try to write you off, but they can't really do that with a proper report backed by evidence.

Edit: sorry. Police.

[–] turtlesareneat@discuss.online 61 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I ordered a laptop from BB for an executive at work, they tried delivering it on a Saturday and texted me about it, offered to deliver elsewhere instead, so I'm like, sure bring it to my house. Then when they get there, it's a third party delivery service (not Doordash but like it) - woman and her boyfriend - hat out looking for a tip. Umm I didn't ASK for some weird tip-based delivery service, I thought they were UPSing that shit. I can't put tips on my corporate card, for laptop delivery fees?! So I looked like the asshole after they booked it across town. Haven't ordered from Best Buy again, what a terrible customer experience.

[–] ThisIsFineDotJpeg@sh.itjust.works 15 points 12 hours ago (2 children)

Its not a food delivery, you shouldn't need to tip, they had too high of an expectation. I searched up some youtube videos, they get an average of $20-$25 an hour if completed within the estimated time. Its similar to Amazon Flex, they get paid real money (the only dowside is, they are considered "independent contractors" therefore no healthcare and other benefits, but otherwise, it pays pretty much like a normal job). In contrast, for food delivery, base pay is $2.5 and you should tip like $5 minimum + $1 per mile distance because otherwise they wouldn't have even minimum wage (or just don't use the service). When they accept an offer, they can already see the estimated total payout, if they don't like the amount (eg: if someone didn't tip for food deliver), they should have just declined it, there is no penalty for rejecting an offer (there is a penalty for accepting, then not completing the order). They saw the whole payout for X number of packages, they shouldn't have accepted if they didn't like it. (Not blaming the drivers btw, just saying they should stand up for themselves and not let Doordash bully them)

[–] verdantbanana@lemmy.world 2 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

there is no penalty for rejecting an offer

acceptance rate will get lowered and lower acceptance rate leads to less offers meaning less pay

What I mean is, declining a lot of offers will not (if they obey their own rules, that is) lead to a deactivation. Getting less offers is the equialent of your boss (at a traditional employment) randomly say "hey btw, your pay for tomorrow will be halved", would you still go to work tomorrow? If you are desparate, maybe, but my point is, at some point, you have to stand up for your self. If you get paid $10/hour, for example, and your just barely have enough to survive, are you gonna work your usual 9-5 shit when you get paid $5/hour for a day?

I'm not blaming drivers, not blaming customers either. Doordash should just outright charge a delivery fee that goes to the driver, instead of this "tipping" BS that confuses both the customer and the drivers, because the vast majority of customers just assumes the drivers get paid like in traditional employment, therefore, believes they don't need to (customarily) tip. The result is, drivers lashing out at customers, when its really Doordash's fault for misleading everyone.

[–] pupbiru@aussie.zone 9 points 6 hours ago* (last edited 6 hours ago)

meanwhile if my US friends come to australia and try to tip i will angrily tell them where to shove it

tipping is a fucking scourge

[–] Kaboom@reddthat.com 138 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

Yeah, dispute the charge and do it quickly. They like to pretend the window to dispute is short

[–] invertedspear@lemmy.zip 58 points 13 hours ago

When I worked for a bank call center the first question before initiating the dispute/chargeback process is “did you attempt to resolve this with the merchant first?” It is a requirement for doing the dispute. OP needs to clearly say yes, and they prevent it by not letting me speak to a human.

OP should also file a police report immediately. They won’t care, but at least the store can’t accuse OP of not following properof procedures.

[–] dan@upvote.au 90 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

The standard window for a chargeback with both Visa and MasterCard is 120 days. Don't let the retailers bully you into thinking otherwise.

Usually just threatening to do a chargeback, without actually doing it, is sufficient to get them to comply. Every chargeback costs the company money (usually around $10 to $50 depending on the bank) and time (dealing with the bank, collecting evidence, etc) even if they win the dispute, so they try to resolve issues without the customer involving the bank.

They can also entirely lose the ability to process cards if they have too many chargebacks. It’s largely an issue for smaller businesses, (there’s no way Visa is going to cut off a giant retailer like BestBuy), but it’s something to keep in mind.

[–] forrcaho@lemmy.world 38 points 12 hours ago (13 children)

Thanks for the warning. I've crossed Best Buy of my list of places to shop.

[–] iknowitwheniseeit@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 4 hours ago

I stopped shopping at Best Buy in the 1990s when one store asked me to leave. I was writing down some prices so I could do some comparison shopping.

[–] stebo02@sopuli.xyz 1 points 4 hours ago

ok but isn't the problem clearly with doordash? why would this be bestbuys fault?

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[–] SkyezOpen@lemmy.world 99 points 15 hours ago (2 children)

If you used a credit card you can just chargeback. I'm sure the video is more than enough evidence. Best buy will be out a laptop and the money for it so it's their problem from there.

[–] UnderpantsWeevil@lemmy.world 73 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Still an ugly pain in the ass for the person who wanted to exchange currency for goods and/or services.

I do find it amusing that Doordash itself seems so blaise about this misuse of their services. Like, what an amazing racket. Get paid by one of the biggest retailers in the country to not-pay drivers so they can not-deliver expensive hardware.

[–] TexasDrunk@lemmy.world 21 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

All of the formerly food delivery apps are like that. I hate it. And if you don't get your stuff often enough or if the restaurant gets your order wrong too often they'll tell you that you're not allowed to get your money back anymore. And if you do a chargeback they won't let you order until you pay them.

And that's fine with me because I stopped using them a few years ago except once in a very great while. But I feel sorry for the people who rely on food delivery because they're disabled or have time constraints due to working half a dozen jobs to make ends meet. I've got a buddy who can't use Uber eats anymore because of this. He's taking care of two kids and holding down a job that has him working far more than he should and he has no executive function and very little time left over.

[–] boonhet@sopuli.xyz 1 points 1 hour ago

This seems like a very American thing. I've never not received my food. No, the drivers aren't well paid here either.

The one time food did not arrive, it was driver error (similar buildings on one lot) and we contacted the service, got a new order for free (the old one would've been cold already)

[–] AlphaOmega@lemmy.world 21 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

Also file a police report and let the police identify the thief from video. Then they will get to deal with doordash.

Also file a police report and let the police identify the thief from video.

Not clear enough to identify. Also, cops are highly unlikely to do anything especially if the refund happens and theb I techically wouldn't be out of pocket for anything (besides the time wasted and mental energy drained on this issue).

[–] UltraMagnus0001@lemmy.world 25 points 12 hours ago

Napa auto parts wanted a parts deal with our company but mentioned they will deliver with doordash, so our supervisor just ignored them.

[–] hddsx@lemmy.ca 79 points 15 hours ago (18 children)

You should ask Best Buy why a signature was not required

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