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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] Typewar@infosec.pub 1 points 5 minutes ago

I use Reddit to investigate niche topics. Sometimes I want people's say instead of these blogs showing top 10 house renting service.

The pure scale of Reddit users makes it more attractive in this regards right now

[–] RagingRobot@lemmy.world 1 points 7 minutes ago

I do Lemmy and blue sky. I have mastodon but don't go there much anymore.

I watch videos on YouTube if that counts as social media.

[–] kaklerbitmap@lemmy.world 7 points 1 hour ago

That's where I'm at. Reddit was the only social media I was using, now it's just Lemmy. I don't consider it "hardcore" or some kind of bragging right, I'm just happier without it.

[–] JargonWagon@lemmy.world 33 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Lemmy is the only one I check daily. I don't bother with reddit unless I'm using a search engine and can't find the answer I'm looking for. Even then, reddit's not all that great anymore since a huge chunk of the user base deleted all their shit and left.

[–] creisel@lemmy.zip 2 points 57 minutes ago

Yea, it's getting worse everyday.

Feels like reddit is Altmans bitch, since they made the ai deal

[–] Rookwood@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 hour ago

I only use lemmy. I'll need an alternative for Discord soon.

[–] Iambus@lemmy.world 2 points 45 minutes ago

Used to browse Reddit daily but not anymore. Still use it if I need help troubleshooting something or for some specific piece of information I am looking for.

[–] Doc_Crankenstein@slrpnk.net 4 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

Permabanned from reddit and don't feel like going through the hassle of bypassing it. I still browse every now and then for niche content that just doesn't exist on Lemmy but otherwise I'm on here exclusively.

[–] creisel@lemmy.zip 1 points 55 minutes ago

What did you do? :>

[–] SoloCritical@lemmy.world 1 points 27 minutes ago

I bailed on Reddit and uninstalled after they made “Luigi” into hate speech or inciting violence. First off Luigi Mangione is a fucking Saint. Second, fuck Reddit. Lemmy all the way!

[–] ScoffingLizard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago) (1 children)

Trump's election is what did it for me. That and Reddit's user experience had become so watered down with slop and bad content presentation in general. I've unsubscribed from Amazon, no Paypal, deleted Facebook, stopped using Gmail mostly (still working on that), deleted Instagram, stopped watching CNN, stopped allowing tracking and fingerprinting as much as possible. If your site tracks, I'm using another unless it is reasonable for the application.

Since then, on my phone, I use FOSS browser, NextDNS, Eternity for Lemmy, Pixelfed and Mastodon. For all my searching, I started using Swisscows, but now I am searching with SearxNG. Also, I am trying Proton, Tutanota, and kollabnow for email. Got Arch Linux on laptop because Microsoft tracking and snooping is so far out of control it should be illegal 50 different ways.

Fuck those techbros. This is now our civic duty.

[–] lb_o@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I am with you in that, and you are not alone!

And this is the best feeling to know that we still have our free internet regardless of those capitalistic fucks who forgot their roots.

(And for what even? Greed and money? lol, so much sacrifice for such outdated desires).

[–] asg101@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 hour ago

Added this to my hosts file 3 years ago when stormfront went full corporate sock puppets and censorship:

127.0.0.1 old.reddit.com

127.0.0.1 www.reddit.com

[–] AlphaOmega@lemmy.world 6 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I stopped using Reddit when I switched to Lemmy.

[–] laranis@lemmy.zip 1 points 1 hour ago

Seconded. But... Sometimes the only place I can find the answer to an obscure issue I'm having is a comment on a nine year old reddit post six responses deep.

I do find it with Kagi, but I still feel dirty every time.

[–] viking@infosec.pub 1 points 52 minutes ago

Lemmy is the only text-based social media I use, other than PieFed (which is practically the same, and fully compatible). If there was a PieFed client with a nice UI, I'd switch fully in a heartbeat. Unfortunately the only client seems to be Interstellar, which is functional but lacking (and ugly).

I do still use Instagram, but more so as a photo backup solution than active social media. PixFed or whatever it was called didn't work for me since nobody can guarantee that the server I chose will actively be maintained long term.

[–] m3t00@lemmy.world 3 points 1 hour ago

reddit links from searches are the only times i land there.

[–] lechekaflan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

Fucking reactionaries almost everywhere on "mainstream" where one's words are being vetted so as not to displease the shits, which put me here now.

[–] Snowclone@lemmy.world 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Only lemmy, I'm too spicy for corporate social media. Now if I said insane racist shit in support of trump, I'd be fine. But that's not me. I'm pointedly in favor of personal freedoms. Which is NOT in line with the end user agreements.

[–] wpb@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Could you elaborate on that a bit? I guarantee you there's a group of people that think you know the age of consent in all states when you write stuff like this :D

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[–] Nangijala@feddit.dk 3 points 2 hours ago

I left social media earlier this year. Lemmy is my transition platform. I hope to eventually drop off the internet entirely except for job and practical related things.

[–] StarMerchant938@lemmy.world 4 points 2 hours ago* (last edited 2 hours ago) (1 children)

reddit.com/r/%subreddit.rss

I pretty much just plugged my favorite subreddits into my rss readers of choice and never looked back (the same can be done with lemmy btw).

Edit: I believe this can also be done with 4chan, but I can no longer recall how it's done. If anybody knows please lmk.

[–] QuantumToast@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 hours ago

I had no idea it could be done

[–] brucethemoose@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

On the two subs I frequented:

  • /r/thelastairbender is just cultish and shallow now. I abandoned it. But it's painful for me, as this is like the only sane place left the fandom has any critical mass. /c/thelastairbender is nice, but very quiet.

  • /r/localllama Has... lost its intelligence? Like no one seems to experiment or talk technically anymore, good talk seems to be on github, or shattered across Discords, while the 'critical mass' is in the AI Bro black hole of Twitter and Linkedin. I read it, but never post anymore. localllama here is better, but smaller and downvoted to hell.

Also, I've been shadowbanned on like 4 accounts in 3 different IPs/machines, no explanation, no recourse. I never post anything political or even remotely provocative (unless links to Lemmy count) and only visit those two subs, so... Yeah, kinda sick of that.

Lemmy, NPR, and AP are the only things I read now.

[–] brown567@sh.itjust.works 4 points 2 hours ago

I literally only use Lemmy, I'm not even all that interested in Mastodon XD

[–] Steve0Greatness@lemmy.world 3 points 2 hours ago

Reddit is only good for the occasional Google search.

[–] percent@infosec.pub 2 points 2 hours ago

I mostly browse Lemmy, but I occasionally check Reddit. I never really got into the microblogging types of platforms (Mastodon, X, Bluesky, Threads, etc) for some reason

[–] Tinks@lemmy.world 14 points 4 hours ago

Before the Reddit Exodus I only used Reddit and YouTube. Social media is a plague. Once I left Reddit I never looked back and now use Lemmy exclusively. I don't really see it as "hardcore", it's just me avoiding the worst and most stressful facet of modern society. I don't feel like I'm missing anything by not using any other social media.

[–] brandocorp@lemmy.dbzer0.com 23 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

When I'm researching something and a reddit link pops up in search results, I'll check it. But I have abandoned my account and won't be logging back in. Aside from that, I try to be as hardcore as possible.

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[–] Machinist@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

BBS -> Slashdot -> Reddit -> Lemmy -> ???

They all have their time. I'll see some of y'all on whatever is next. It branches, I didn't do digg.

[–] Sunsofold 10 points 4 hours ago

I used to use purely Reddit. I stopped after the API nonsense. Now I'm purely on lemmy. I have no interest in any of the others.

[–] 0ops@lemm.ee 42 points 6 hours ago (5 children)
[–] ArchEngel@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 hour ago

There are dozens of us!

[–] banshee@lemmy.world 9 points 5 hours ago
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[–] Allero@lemmy.today 2 points 2 hours ago

I've never been an avid Reddit user, so on that front it's very easy to me.

Still, I do interact with some of the other mainstream media.

[–] MrShankles@reddthat.com 7 points 4 hours ago (2 children)

Lemmy and RSS feed is all I use. I look at things my wife and 2 others friends will send me on instagram, but I never just scroll through it

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[–] drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world 6 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (2 children)

I am ip banned from reddit for making 'threats' only check reddit as a news aggregate because it's a little quicker

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I've been off reddit for years before Lemmy. I do have an Instagram account, logged into the app on an otherwise empty Android VM, which means I'm not fully hardcore. Need that because people are way cagey about giving out their phone number, but everyone wants you to write them on insta. Could just ignore that, but I like meeting people.

Nothing non-federated apart from that, though.

[–] BilboBargains@lemmy.world 6 points 4 hours ago

What's wrong with limiting social media to Lemmy? I like it here.

[–] Zugyuk@lemmy.world 19 points 6 hours ago (2 children)

That's me! I cut Reddit it when they turned off RIF, and never looked back. I also add -reddit to searches so I don't give them any traffic

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[–] swagmoney@lemmy.ca 6 points 4 hours ago

lemmy exclusively for me! ive been here since i got kicked off of the boost app lol

[–] Aceticon@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 4 hours ago

Avoiding the shit from enshittification isn't hardcore, it's just the normal adult thing to do.

[–] FRYD@sh.itjust.works 3 points 4 hours ago

I only use Lemmy. Not because I’m hardcore about the fediverse or anything, but because I wanted to start moving off all major social media. Now I rarely engage with any social media and I think it’s done wonders for my mental health.

[–] A_Random_Idiot@lemmy.world 3 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I don't use social media at all.

As far as Reddit/Lemmy, I only use Lemmy.

I did have a reddit account at one point but it only had a handful of posts, mostly gratitude for solutions to problems I was searching about, with reddit being the top return with the correct answer... Got banned for some reason though, so even if I had interest in using reddit (which I dont),I cant anymore, lol.

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