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Is anyone here so hardcore that they don't even bother with mainstream social media? If its not on Lemmy or Mastodon it must not be important? Anyone that hardcore?

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[–] viking@infosec.pub 1 points 1 day ago

Lemmy is the only text-based social media I use, other than PieFed (which is practically the same, and fully compatible). If there was a PieFed client with a nice UI, I'd switch fully in a heartbeat. Unfortunately the only client seems to be Interstellar, which is functional but lacking (and ugly).

I do still use Instagram, but more so as a photo backup solution than active social media. PixFed or whatever it was called didn't work for me since nobody can guarantee that the server I chose will actively be maintained long term.

[–] FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

Me.

Hate Reddit. Always did. Lemmy's better.

[–] Coreidan@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Still on Reddit. I’d be here full time but the content is severely lacking.

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[–] caveman8000@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

Lemme and tiktok

[–] Stovetop@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Lemmy is the only platform I participate on. I do occasionally check some niche subs on Reddit for hobbies and games I follow for news/suggestions/ideas/etc., but no idle browsing and no contributing, not even through votes.

I also sometimes pop onto Reddit just to manually edit and delete more of my comment history, because the automated tools are apparently only capable of seeing the past year. Once I finally get through everything, I can delete my account, but it's a slow process with years worth of content to remove going back to 2010.

[–] lechekaflan@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Fucking reactionaries almost everywhere on "mainstream" where one's words are being vetted so as not to displease the shits, which put me here now.

[–] phlegmy@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

I only use lemmy regularly.
I'll still check specific subreddits which don't have a lemmy equivalent, but not that often, and never signed in or with the official app.

[–] anothermember@feddit.uk 8 points 2 days ago

I don't consider not using it "hardcore", it's just not there any more. Reddit isn't the place it used to be when I joined, so I don't have the option of using Reddit as I knew it. I'll occasionally look there for some niche subjects that aren't represented here but I'm almost always disappointed, it's rarely quality discussion these days.

[–] thefartographer@lemm.ee 8 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Lemmy and YouTube. That's it. Everything else gives me too much anxiety. At work, if I have to reference something from social media, I ask other people to look it up for me and send me the link.

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[–] rumschlumpel@feddit.org 8 points 2 days ago

I never used social media that much and I can't be bothered to hang around on Reddit in addition to Lemmy.

[–] hanrahan@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 days ago

Only Lemmy and Mastodon and that's too much !

Though i have test accounts with with GotoSocial and Piefed.

[–] Robust_Mirror@aussie.zone 4 points 1 day ago

Never considered it hardcore but yes Lemmy is my only social media unless you count youtube.

[–] Jax@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

Why would it matter?

There are people here who believe that North Korea and China are actually amazing places to live despite mountains of evidence to the contrary. We're talking people who, in one thread, discuss discrimination in the U.S. while espousing the virtues of fucking China on discrimination. To remind you, China is an ethnostate. For us to be like China, we would need to secure white dominance in the U.S. — because that is what China has done with the Han.

These people would cause a genocide or worse. And they're fucking all over Lemmy. I wouldn't limit myself to anything on Lemmy for anything other than Linux advice.

[–] bjoern_tantau@swg-empire.de 2 points 1 day ago

🖐️

I don't use Mastodon beyond what my blog posts automatically. And I rarely make new blog posts anyways. I don't really see the point of microblogging beyond getting keeping up with news from different organisations. But I don't have the energy to keep up anyways, so I don't need it.

In terms of keeping in touch with my friends and family I only use Signal.

[–] ghosthacked@lemmy.wtf 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (3 children)

I can't use Reddit because I got permabanned across all accounts a while back because I was criticizing a video of a drunk white guy making unwanted advances towards an Asian woman in a restaurant.

Also got banned for criticizing Israel's genocide of Palestinians.

Also caught a ban for being too critical about Indians and their rape culture.

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[–] illi@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago

It's not that I try to ne hardcore. Reddit was alright, but I felt subconciously it is going to shit for some time. But I liked the format, so I stayed. The API fiasco just showed the really bad face of it (mainly how it was handled) and made an opportunity for people to talk more about alternatives. Sure, Lemmy doesn't have as much stuff as Reddit, especially for more niche topics but I enjoy my stay much more.

I peeked in a couple of times but not for long.

[–] DioramaOfShit@lemmy.world 7 points 2 days ago (5 children)

Im permanent banned from reddit. So yes. I am only here now.

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[–] CanadaPlus@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

I'm that hardcore. Partly because I'm also a habitual Tor user, and post-IPO Reddit seems to dislike that.

Edit: Although I still will incidentally browse old Reddit as a guest sometimes, because not everything exists on Lemmy yet. I dread the day they pull the plug on the old frontend.

[–] Whats_your_reasoning@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I left Twitter around 2008 (or whenever they stopped allowing posts through SMS), left Facebook proper a few years later (with the exception of chat, as it's the only way I talk with certain people.) I left Reddit during the API debacle. I used to post my art on Instagram, but ever since the turn toward "influencers" took over, I've stopped posting there, too. I never got into TikTok or whatever else might be out there today.

I made a Bluesky account just before it took off in popularity last year, but I don't use it except to look for pictures after protests. I made a Mastodon account, but have yet to post at all.

So yeah, Lemmy's the one and only social media I post/comment to right now. Social media is exhausting, but Lemmy doesn't blast ads at me, doesn't bug me when I don't post after a while, and its semi-anonymous nature means it's easier to let things go when people disagree. Everything else is too stressful to deal with, especially after a long work day when all I really want to do is catch up with the news.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

I guess I'm hardcore now. 🤘

[–] ZombiFrancis@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Nope. I never really used Reddit. I haven't touched Facebook since you needed an .edu email. Never got on any of the other platforms.

Main thing I used to use was just a small forum with a few people I knew for 20+ years until the guy who took over code and server maintenance made it a Nazi safe space.

[–] andyburke@fedia.io 3 points 1 day ago (2 children)

Yo wtf?

As someone in a similar-sounding situation who usually runs the code and maintainance - w t f?

There is no way one of my buddies taking over turns anything into a nazi safe space.

tf???

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[–] Daft_ish@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago

Post on reddit, never. Still updates faster than lemmy, tho.

[–] Libb@jlai.lu 6 points 2 days ago

I'm not hardcore anything but I quit using Reddit and have not looked back. I also don't use any other social, even tough I own other accounts I have not logged into for many years.

Why I don't see myself hardcore? Because there is no hate, or anger and no desire to preach anyone to switch either. I respect people's choice. I disagreed with a few of reddit decisions & their policy change back then and took my decision accordingly. I posted a goodbye note explaining why I left reddit and switched to Lemmy. The same with X, Facebook, or whatever: when I realized I could not trust those services, I told people around me and moved away.

[–] nimble@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 day ago

Lemmy is the only social media i have.

And i guess discord but that's just for my weekly d&d group and nothing else

[–] LibertyLizard@slrpnk.net 6 points 2 days ago

I also use Reddit. My local sub can’t be replicated here, unfortunately, and it’s a very valuable resource to know what’s going on in the local community.

[–] mineralfellow@lemmy.world 3 points 1 day ago

I mainly use Lemmy. Reddit for search results, haven’t seen the home page in years. Never had Twitter or Instagram or TikTok. Still watch a lot of YouTube, mostly for either chess content or movie reviews, sometimes tutorials or professional lectures. Use Facebook for talking to exactly two friends.

Logged into Facebook the other day and saw a friend request. The name was familiar, but not exactly, so I checked the profile. Soon realized he was my ex-girlfriend.

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 6 points 2 days ago

If the Japan life/visa/legal/finance subreddits would fully move over, I could finally be rid of reddit. Sadly, they have not. Some subs exist, but it's worthless without the institutional knowledge that some of the people have; Japanese legalese be tough.

[–] thedirtyknapkin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

i primarily use lemmy these days, but still have to use a few other things.

I still browse reddit for this like episode discussion threads for amine and other tv. lemmy will have maybe 5 responses in the threads for the 3 biggest shows of a season. it's just not there yet.

I'm also a videographer, in our modern age that means i NEED to be on Instagram, YouTube, and tiktok because those are the platforms everyone wants me to make things for. can't know how to make things for a platform I don't use, sadly. especially since "just make something good" doesn't work on any of them. in fact making something that looks good is often more of a hinderence these days and it kills me.

i hate short form video. i hate every mainstream social media platform. i just want to make pretty videos and not have to deal with tiktok trends. I learned 10 ways to attach a lav mic secure and tidy in school. I must now hold the lav mic in my fingers because that's what's trendy and following the trends is the ONE thing that DEFINITELY works.

I hate what has come of my profession. at this point I'm just ready for the ai to take my job so i can blow my head off in peace.

[–] Zenith@lemm.ee 5 points 2 days ago (5 children)

I’m banned from Reddit so I’m here and this is my only social media left

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[–] ArbitraryValue@sh.itjust.works 6 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I completely quit reddit in protest after using it for over ten years when it threatened to replace the moderators of a small subreddit I participated in after that subreddit shut down during the API protests. I don't actually care about the API myself (I never used anything other than old reddit) but I thought that reddit had no moral (as opposed to merely legal) right to take over something the mods had built and it merely hosted.

Lemmy is worse, but at least I'm following my principles.

Team Lemmy 100 %.

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