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Original question by @zachimusprime44@lemmy.world

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[–] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 137 points 1 week ago (5 children)
[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 11 points 1 week ago

turns out hes a POS like witht he people associated with.

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[–] Drusas@fedia.io 108 points 1 week ago (7 children)

Watching sports. Playing them, I get. Watching? Never cared for it.

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 33 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Same reason some people are into watching video games, talent shows or even actors.

There's loads of interest to be found in spectating a skilled display of any activity if you truly engage with it IMO.

I sometimes watch sports I've barely got a grasp of the rules for just out of fascination. GAA hurling is the most recent one I can recall getting sucked into for an afternoon.

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[–] rikudou 23 points 1 week ago (2 children)

There are dozens of us!

My country pretty much lives hockey, so people don't even ask whether you watch, it's assumed you do, so they'll ask stuff like "that match yesterday was awesome, right?" or directly reference something that happened in said match and then look at you like their mind can't comprehend someone doesn't watch hockey.

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[–] neidu3@sh.itjust.works 88 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

Most superheroes.

EDIT: SJW admins confirms that I have indeed been downvoted by Superman and Spiderman

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Same LMAO they're neat but I've always been so meh about them. And there's not even like new ones, it's always the same versions over and over again

[–] dual_sport_dork@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (4 children)

It's been 30 minutes: time to reboot Batman again! Let's spend half the runtime of the movie rehashing his origin story just in case there might somehow still be one single person on Earth who doesn't know what Batman's deal is.

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[–] cloudless@piefed.social 81 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Twitter or any “microblog”.

I don’t understand why “following” a person/organisation would be interesting. I would rather follow a topic/community.

[–] _thisdot@infosec.pub 16 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

You can do that. But certain voices carry extra weight within communities.

I followed today's Formula 1 race on both Threads and Mastodon. Both platforms allow you to follow topics and that's what I did. But then I follow the people I find interesting as well

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[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 72 points 1 week ago (3 children)

Apple, especially when it was considered a “luxury brand.”

[–] rikudou 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It still is considered that, for reasons.

[–] lagoon8622@sh.itjust.works 22 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Because Apple is a marketing company

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[–] lobut@lemmy.ca 51 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (2 children)

Most social media stuff.

Omg did you hear X did Y?

I guess I'm just old but I don't follow most. Even with dogpiling PirateSoftware. Yes, he's wrong and probably lied. I just don't get the hype around it. I'm happy that the hype led to Stop Killing Games getting enough traction though, that was nice.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 week ago

I've never heard that name in my life, and I'm petty sure I don't care one way or another. My daughter gets wrapped up in internet drama and I can't for the life of me understand why. I am not drawn to drama but were I, there is plenty to be found in my own life. It's all so performative and pointless — the good and the bad.

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[–] faizalr@fedia.io 41 points 1 week ago (2 children)
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[–] IWW4@lemmy.zip 39 points 1 week ago (10 children)

The notion that working in the Trades is so great. Coming from a guy did a lot of construction work, trust me it can really suck… also most of the guys in that line of work are assholes.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I'm a software developer, but I spent three months chucking boxes in the back of a truck for General Motors one summer. Some days, my brain is fried after six hours at my job, but the physical labor work I could do for 12 hours and walk out feeling almost refreshed.

I sometimes wish I could go through a day of work just... doing. Not wracked with indecision or trying to figure out which tradeoff I won't regret in three weeks. The idea of going into a framed house and wiring up electric all day and then going home — without ever having done it or experiencing the downsides of course— it sounds really nice.

Of course my back and joints couldn't keep up at fifty like they did at twenty-two, and I met a bunch of functional addicts working that job and I wouldn't have wanted to get swept up in that.

[–] rikudou 16 points 1 week ago

That sounds nice because you've never done it. The horrors you encounter in people's homes and the creativity you have to come up with when doing the wiring are real.

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[–] Switorik@lemmy.zip 12 points 1 week ago (3 children)

I grew up and have put my fair share of time in the trades. They do pay well but if you don't get out of the field, you trade your functioning body for money.

The one thing I can't wrap my head around is why everyone wants to work so much overtime. Even unions are rocking 50-60 hour work weeks and then claiming they treat you well. It's looked down upon if you only want to work 40.

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[–] GrayBackgroundMusic@lemmy.zip 37 points 1 week ago (4 children)

Vtubers. I get the cute anime girl thing and I like fan art of them as I do other anime. But the models move wayyyyyy to exaggerated. It hits uncanny valley for me.

Also I don't get the parasocial relationship of chatting in a huge room of other followers. The chat is scrolling by at a hundred miles an hour and you're competing with everyone else for their attention.

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[–] Bwaz@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago (5 children)

"Reality TV". Could anythjng be more contrived yet obviously "make it up as you go along"?

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[–] ddplf@szmer.info 28 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Working for corpos. It's a dream for most of IT people to get hired in Google or Microsoft. I guess being a worthless cog in a world-destroying machine is the top of the game these days.

As a software architect, I only target small companies. And I can do anything I fucking want, I'm currently rocking a SolidJS+TRPC+Prisma setup and life is a dream.

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 25 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The idea is to be a cog in which you can get lost and do minimal work while collecting a fat paycheck

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[–] chicken@lemmy.dbzer0.com 28 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Mobile UI. It sucks. Yet the majority of people online are now connecting from it, and everything wants to be an app.

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[–] bleistift2@sopuli.xyz 27 points 1 week ago (30 children)

Having multiple monitors. My boss now has three. One is dedicated to displaying their calendar the whole day.

[–] cm0002@lemmy.world 35 points 1 week ago (4 children)

This was not a response I expected, I thought the only people who didn't like multiple monitors were ones who never tried it lol

My peak was like 8 monitors, I'm at 6 now, but I can never go back to a single one long term. Whenever I do it temporarily for whatever reason it's agonizing

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[–] spankmonkey@lemmy.world 30 points 1 week ago

When doing work that requires multiple apps to be open or file explorers, web pages, and reference stuff then having a second is very convenient a lot of the time. Yeah, I could stretch it out on one giant monitor if it was an option, but two just makes it easy to keep track of what is where by having physical breaks.

At home it is great for having discord or other thing off to the side for communication or reference while playing games full screen on one monitor instead of needing to alt tab or use windowed mode smaller than full screen. If I did a more immersive driving/flying set up I would have three for the wrap around effect and a fourth for the extra stuff.

Both situations are for convenience.

I do know someone at work that has three but they handle the infrastructure and they often have multiple apps and browsers open for all the things that interact when troubleshooting and having it large and readable makes it easier to see what is changing and what isn't changing at the same time.

[–] Fredthefishlord@lemmy.blahaj.zone 18 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I have 4. Game, discord and task manager, Japanese and YouTuber, code practice. It's an adhd man's dream and nightmare. Without 2 minimum It sucks. 3 is the sweet spot I feel. 4 is overkill

[–] electric@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Your environment would give a Victorian child a seizure.

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[–] electric@lemmy.world 10 points 1 week ago

I didn't get it either until one class in high school (graphic design) had second monitors installed for all work stations halfway through the year. It's super useful being able to have reading material open on a vertical monitor! Only reason I don't have one still is because of very limited space (can't even fit a normal PC).

I did start using my TV as a second monitor recently though for putting Zoom meetings on it. I got tired of having to alt tab back to it every once in a while when doing stuff. TV sits behind my laptop so only like half the screen is visible but it's good enough!

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[–] electric@lemmy.world 22 points 1 week ago (7 children)

I will also never understand the fascination with streaming. Just play the game, nerd.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

For the viewer: Playing take a lot of energy, watching is more passive. Especially like horror games that raise your blood pressure / heartrate. Also, not everyone can afford games, some are console only, and even PC games have hardware requirements that people don't have, because people either have a potato computer, or just have smartphone only. Also, games are hard, watching a streamer dying is kinda funny.

For the streamer: Socialization (even tho its kinda one-sided, they can still read comments / live chat), and most importantly, money.

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It's not just to watch the game, it's to watch/listen to the streamer. It's like a talk show.

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[–] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 21 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

AI, the only people hyped about it are corporate heads, and people trying to get into the industry via grad school pipeline.

hyping content creator as the goal for younger people to become? these people arnt really good models to follow and you hear them get into some kind of drama and find out they are pos: sniperwolf, mr beast, siderman. also liek to mention most current creators are often rich/come from wealth themselves, so it doesnt help people who arnt as rich as they are.

and then people still defending PEWPEWDIE? why are people still trying to give his previous support of bigotry a pass, just because he had a child now.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Almost anything. As a neurodivergent I seem to be mostly immune and I see the hype circles people are running in and find them bad as all distracts from the immediate issues we are having and should turn our attention to (from personal to global).

The same in most institutions and companies afaik.

[–] IndiBrony@lemmy.world 19 points 1 week ago

I struggle to understand hype for most things nowadays.

It's weird I just don't feel it now.

I went to see a band I should have went to see 20 years ago. I can't say I felt much hype beforehand. The hype only started when the intro played and the band started walking out.

Within the first couple of songs I was a mess with happy tears, but everything leading up to it? I was just chill, totally unphased.

I think I'm broken 👍

[–] tiredofsametab@fedia.io 19 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Poekmon: It came out when I was in highschool doing band, theater, occasional sports, a summer job (fulltime), and a parttime job otherwise so I just never got into it. To me, it's a glorified paper-rock-scissors simulator with extra steps and zero nostalgia.

VTubers: it's just uncanny valley to me. I'm also super sensitive to audio-video sync issues and avatars seemed to always be slightly behind the couple of times I tried to watch it.

Shorts (and entire social media like TickTock, reels (I think it is called?), etc.): the forcing of vertical video is one reason since I'm almost always watching things in landscape (95% of the time on a TV, monitor, or tablet). I also just want to see more of the same topic, typically, and it's over and now I have to pay a mental context-switching fee.

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[–] TheGiantKorean@lemmy.world 18 points 1 week ago (14 children)

In-N-Out. Tried it. It's OK.

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[–] TempermentalAnomaly@lemmy.world 13 points 1 week ago

Grad school. Unless your getting a professional degree with a license that protected by the state and the profession is well established and compensated, don't waste your money and time if you could see yourself doing anything else.

Hell... Undergrad might be sliding into this category as well.

[–] TheLunatickle@lemmy.zip 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)
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[–] RBWells@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

Facebook.

La Croix

All the oddball fads like fidget spinners and rubber bands shaped like things.

Low fat diets.

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