[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 4 hours ago

Accidentally screenshotting your bank acct and routing number is the only one I can really think of.

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 3 days ago

Well, if America is no longer a superpower, then Putin and all his oligarchs buddies are planning on sweeping up the spoils of its ruin for themselves.

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 1 week ago

That's because conservatives are very individualistic for whatever reason. Instead of seeing systemic issues they see bad apples.

Because conservatism inherently relies on fear of change, simple thinking, and avoiding the discomfort of questioning the status quo at all costs. You want to believe that everything is hunky-dory the way it is, and avoid thinking too hard about all the ways it might not be.

It's uncomfortable to think that the system you're participating in and benefitting from might be the cause of it. No one ever wants to think they're the bad guy. It's the reason they hate stuff like CRT so much, because it's an incredibly uncomfortable thought to imagine that everything they've known and tried to maintain is actually a complete nightmare and they've been part of it in some way.

The world is much scarier when you see the pain and suffering so many experience, and it's through no fault of their own. No matter what they do or didn't do, some people just get dealt a shit hand, either by chance, or because of systemic issues. It's much easier to say "The system I believe in is totally fine and just, it's their fault they haven't been able to reach the same place I have".

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

It's almost always whatever you you threw out last week though.

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 1 week ago

Did they actually go through with it? I remember them attempting it, but then immediately backing down and issuing a very reasonable response letter basically saying they were clearly in the wrong and allowed the union to form. I could totally be unaware of any more recent developments though.

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 1 week ago

But see, according to my awful family in Oklahoma, they voted for Trump specifically to keep their daughters safe from all the pedophile trans people who are raiding the bathrooms of their grade school like orcs sieging Helm's Deep. Sure, their daughters now have no reproductive rights and they've never seen or met a single trans person, but this was definitely the best decision to keep them safe and healthy.

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 2 weeks ago

Ah, I guess I meant that you're getting 2 of the 3 phases, which is 208V phase-to-phase, or 120V phase to neutral.

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 12 points 2 weeks ago

I finally started to come to terms with being trans, and this week has basically been non-stop coming out to people, which has been kinda rough to say the least... My wife and I were married for 4 years and planning on kids, but she saw some clear signs and really made me introspect and finally come to this realization. She's struggling hard and doesn't know what to do, as she feels like she has to mourn the man she married and "doesn't want a wife".

She moved out on Monday, and we had separate Thanksgivings with friends and had to explain to friends and family what was going on. I have a phenomenal support network of friends who've been helping me through this, but my family is distraught beyond belief at what the future holds and feel absolutely blindsided by all of this. Which, to be fair, I've done a phenomenal job at hiding it, even from myself.

Even despite all this, I feel like I've never been happier, which almost makes it feel even worse at times knowing so I've hurt some of the people I love the most so much. It also just causes so much of that doubt to come rushing back in, that I'm "faking it", and that things can "go back to normal". I know it's just a coping mechanism, and that rationally I have literally written pages of peer-reviewed journals with pretty clear "Here's why you're trans, dummy", but goddamn if it doesn't make the whole thing that much harder when those pangs of doubt come creeping back in and making it feel like I'm throwing my life away for nothing.

TL;DR it's aight

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 weeks ago

Sadly none of those are available in the US except the EX30, and the starting MSRP is literally double that of something like the Mazda3 the OP mentioned.

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 2 weeks ago

Like herding catgirls.

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 3 weeks ago

By far one of my favorite bumper stickers

[-] hovercat@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 3 weeks ago

Getting rid of Title IX protections is going to make surviving pretty fucking hard if you wind up with a bigoted manager who decides to fire you... Or just companies decide they don't want to hire trans people at all.

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