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Mine is retail work. Yeah I get it. You hate it. There isn't anything that I hadn't heard before about it by now that hasn't already been said. Yup, people suck.

But on the same token, I don't really appreciate the level people go to, to dissuade people from getting into retail work. Job is a job and income is income. You'll need both of these things. I've learned that a lot of the time, people just happen to be employed by shitty stores that are managed by power-tripping people or maybe the team they work with are annoyingly incompetent.

Yet if you manage to find a store that's worth working in, it's worth it for however long you want to be there for. I chose to work for retail. I don't mind the labor. I don't want a sit-down desk job.

And yeah I work for a big company that has questionable values and has destroyed communities. But that's really out of my control and because that I work for said company, does not necessarily mean that I agree with it or side with the corporate standards. If I wanted to, I'd go back to school and find something else to do.

And that's what I advise people to do if they're so tired of their retail job. Go back to school, it's really all you can do other than go to trade school to get skills and branch into different careers. Just removed about it all day is not going to do a thing. I used to be like that but all it does was just make me hate everything and there were a couple points where I could've gotten fired over it. It's not worth getting fired over something you don't really have an investment in.

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[-] cheese_greater@lemmy.world 43 points 2 months ago

I think prohibition is a massive failure of a policy and bullshit moral war and that everything about drugs would be safer and better if they were easily available to whoever seeks them.

However, I know from experience when you're desperate and not well that you'll reach for anything and this can often have severe, predictable collateral consequences for those around someone with maladaptive drug use.

Also people are generally dumb as fuck with drugs and we've all been there. Like, the stakes can be much higher with them involved and life is already basicaly a meat-grinder so I worry about people's abillity to learn to use responsibly and persevere or operate functionally in often deeply problematic home and work environments when its infinitely complicated by various random substances that can become lighter fuel for massive self-destruction and harm to others

[-] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 39 points 2 months ago

I oppose violence. There are some people who cause so much harm that I wish they'd die. I don't wish for violence to occur, but I wouldn't be sad if it happened and I had nothing to do with it.

[-] davidgro@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

"I have never killed a man, but I have read many obituaries with great pleasure."

  • Clarence Darrow

(I thought it was Mark Twain before I looked it up for the wording)

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[-] Didros@beehaw.org 3 points 2 months ago

The systems allow people to do harm, we need to violently oppose them.

Jeff Bezo may suck as a person, but capitalism is designed to make people like him as the ruling class. If you don't like it, fight it.

[-] Zorg 35 points 2 months ago

Death penalty

On one hand, I don't believe capital punishment has any place in civilized society.
On the other, there are some in-human people (serial killers mainly, but including e.g. CEOs who have caused thousands of deaths to increase profits), where it just seems a waste of everyone's time, to lock them away in a cell for decades. Some people are just completely beyond rehabilitation, and if they are proven guilty with 99.9+% certainty, what's the point of locking then up and waiting for old age to do the job?

[-] Jackthelad@lemmy.world 30 points 2 months ago

The problem with the death penalty is largely down to potential miscarriages of justice.

What if they get the wrong person and some innocent is put to death? Do you really want the state to have that sort of power over its citizens?

[-] howrar@lemmy.ca 10 points 2 months ago

There's been two cases of this happening very recently that's been making the rounds on Lemmy. Two dudes on death row, new evidence comes up that puts their guilty judgement into question and their execution proceeds anyway.

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[-] saigot@lemmy.ca 9 points 2 months ago

It is significantly cheaper to keep someone in prison for life than the death sentence process.

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[-] SteleTrovilo@beehaw.org 6 points 2 months ago

I like life imprisonment for heinous people specifically because it seems like the less merciful option. Look at how many mass shooters and terrorists also take their own lives during the act - suicide is one of their objectives. If we can capture them alive and make them live in a small room, eating unexciting food and sleeping on thin mattresses for decades still to come - that's the ultimate rebuke to their ideologies of death. Execution, on the other hand, is giving them what they seek.

[-] paddirn@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Same, I don’t necessarily think it prevents any crimes from happening, but there are some individuals who will provide nothing back to society that could possibly make up for what they’ve done, and their continued existence is a threat to those around them that have to deal with them on a daily basis.

BUT until the criminal justice system can be reformed or provide more equatable justice, I don’t know that we can 100% say everyone on death penalty deserves it. I don’t know how we fix it, but it shouldn’t be left to private individuals or groups to have to exonerate people on death row.

[-] Smoogs@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Plus the amount of money that gets sunk into looking after their old murdering asses.

[-] weeeeum@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Good luck getting that CEO in a court room

[-] MrPoopbutt@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

In order to get 99.9% certainty, 1) you are saying you are willing to have one in a thousand death penalties against innocents, and 2) that requires a system made of people to do their job correctly 99.9% of the time. I dont think there is a job on earth that people in a large group can do that well.

[-] TonoManza@lemmygrad.ml 3 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

I believe that the death penalty is worthless.

If the crime is bad enough to kill a person anyway, why waste their productive potential? Same for locking those people up for life instead.

The mines yearn for the labour of the bourgeois.

[-] pastermil@sh.itjust.works 23 points 2 months ago

Proprietary products.

I am a big fan of free & open source, and I believe as much as possible should be open source, especially the essential ones, but at the same time, people need to get paid.

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[-] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 17 points 2 months ago

My two-sided opinion is that as a defence for veganism/vegetarianism, animal suffering is inconsequential. I used to use the example of flies. Would you hurt a fly? If you would, then what gives you grounds to claim that the lives of any "higher-order functioning" animal is more valuable.

My opinion on this became two sided when i learnt that most insects don't experience pain the same way most mammals do.

[-] moonlight@fedia.io 22 points 2 months ago

Regardless of pain perception: Assuming someone is okay with killing a fruit fly but not a human, they have to draw the line somewhere. And a pig for example is WAY closer to human than to a fruit fly. It's a sentient being with a brain that's not really so far from human, compared to the fruit fly which is essentially a tiny biological robot.

In fact, it's kinda weird to draw the line at humans, especially when there's such a big overlap between other animals and human children in terms of cognitive capabilities.

I think it's very reasonable to draw the line after insects, where we can be reasonably certain that there's no complex thought or sentience. The value and subjective experience of an insect versus a farm animal are hardly comparable.

[-] S13Ni@lemmy.studio 19 points 2 months ago

This, and if you eat vegan, it will also limit the damage done to bugs as a result of smaller land use. I'm vegan with no exceptions, but I don't really give a fuck about being vegan in some weird absolute way like "can I sit on leather chair at my friends". Instead of that, veganism is just an attempt to reduce suffering, with full understanding that it is never going to remove it, and that there are other ways to to reduce suffering in the world without being vegan, which I also try to implement in my life.

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[-] usualsuspect191@lemmy.ca 13 points 2 months ago

This is something I think about from time to time and essentially get nowhere.

I try and live-capture and release bugs from my house (the only things I actively kill in this regard is mosquitos).I also hunt/fish.

If I saw a deer trapped on a frozen lake I'd go out and rescue it, yet I'd shoot that same deer in a different place under a different context. It's not really consistent, except in intentionality I suppose.

I do place a higher value on the life of animals that are more "intelligent" (in a way that feels more human) compared to other animals. For example, I'm not upset at all when I use hand sanitizer and presumably wipe out a whole swath of life, but I'm sad if a bird hits a window and dies. Part of that is the intentionality again maybe? The bacteria "had" to die, and the bird didn't; I'd feel less bad about the bird if I saw a natural predator take it down but it's still more upsetting than even unintentionally killing an insect.

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[-] Bougie_Birdie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 months ago

I'm not vegan, I'm just trying to eat less meat, but I see this discourse pop up from time to time in vegan communities.

A similar argument is often made regarding what would happen to vegetarians if they learned that plants can feel pain. This is often posed as a hypothetical, but I've heard that some studies suggests plants and fungi especially may be aware of when they're being eaten. Whether or not that equates to pain, I don't think a consensus has been reached.

But for the sake of argument, let's say that plants do feel pain while you eat them. If your ethos is to reduce overall suffering in the food chain, then it's still logical to abstain from meat. Livestock living a vegetarian life eat a lot of plants.

You might alternatively come to the conclusion that there is no such thing as ethical consumption. An extreme position you might take is that the best way to reduce suffering is to remove yourself from the food chain. If you starve yourself, you'll be consuming less, your greenhouse emissions become zero, and you lessen your impact on social services and infrastructure that is often strained to the breaking point.

Obviously, the solution is not to just kill yourself. But advocating for more ethical consumption seems like a noble cause.

[-] GrammarPolice@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

What does ethical consumption look like?

[-] Bougie_Birdie@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 2 months ago

Gosh, that's actually a big question and not one that I'm sure anybody could come to a definitive, absolute answer.

Ultimately, I think it depends on an individual's ethics. Some people believe there's nothing wrong with hunting because it's just predation happening in the ecosystem. Some people avoid certain ingredients or produce like palm oil or avocados because of the ecological harm. For some people, it's eating only locally sourced food to minimize the impact of emissions from the global supply chain.

For many people, it's a murky line between doing what's right and doing what's achievable. And as people get pushed to their limits they might not be able to afford the luxury of choosing what's good.

For my part, I'm trying to do the best I can. Our grocery budget is quite frugal and we're getting squeezed. Eating vegetarian is often a financial necessity. My wife craves meat, and I'm not going to argue with her body's natural impulse. So if there's a bargain or leftovers, we won't pass up an opportunity.

The sad thing is, I live in a first world country and I know people who are way less food secure than I am.

Another one that kills me is eggs. I pay a little more for the free-range eggs from a factory farm, but I'm still buying from a factory farm. I have no illusions that the conditions of a factory chicken are good, but at the least they're not battery-caged, so they must be suffering less. But if we were buying from a local farmer, they'd either be too expensive or not able to keep up with demand. We'd be kind of hard pressed to meet our nutritional needs without eggs, so I have to live with the fact that I'm supporting a factory farm

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[-] BonesOfTheMoon@lemmy.world 12 points 2 months ago

I'm a practicing Christian that goes to church every Sunday, and yet I believe in abortion and birth control like I invented them. I love babies and hold one most Sundays during the sermon and think they're a miracle, but also if you don't want to be pregnant don't for one second hesitate to have the abortion. Your life matters way way more than some cells.

[-] Taalnazi@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Most Christians in Europe are like this too, tbh

[-] Baggie@lemmy.zip 12 points 2 months ago

Advertisements.

Like obviously we need to make people know things exist, it makes financial and logical sense, etc.

On the other hand, this is bullshit. It's an ever increasing blight on the senses in both online and offline spaces. It's at the point where massive companies cannot function without plastering ads over everything. Fuck that. If we can't function without some garish assault of a cacophony to our psyche every few minutes, maybe we need to rethink what we're doing with our existence.

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[-] Euphorazine@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

Housing needs to be less commodimized, but tons of normal families have their entire network tied up in a home.

Any act that raises home prices hurts though without and any act that lowers home prices hurts those with. How can we untangle homes being family's largest asset without screwing older people.

Without homes and apartments being a commodity, how do we determine who gets to live where fairly? Isn't there like 10x as many vacancies than homeless people? So it's not a supply issue, it's a location issue. The open market is great for sorting that out, but the open market has abused housing and is squeezing too hard.

I don't like that home prices are as high as they are, and we need to change our mindset about how home pricing should work. It needs both government oversight and market forces.

[-] weeeeum@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

In every policy change there will be losers and winners, lowering the cost of housing has been a long time coming. So long in fact people assume it's a great way to invest and raise money.

[-] Ledivin@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

The housing crisis has literally nothing to do with families owning a single home. There is far more than enough housing for everyone in the country. We need to outlaw AirBnB everywhere, and outlaw corporate ownership of residences.

I don't even care about the people who have multiple homes, they're just small fries in comparison. We can do them after the corporations all switch to that business model.

[-] lath@lemmy.world 10 points 2 months ago

Everything has pros and cons.

Most people tend to see only the pros of the things that favour them and downplay the cons that affect others. Which is why we come to hate each other so often.

For example, life and death are a cycle. Can't have one without the other. People may have different goalposts on what deaths they think they're willing to cause in order to survive, but whether it's animals, plants or even microbial organisms, some living beings have to die in order for others to live. (But it's fine because there's so many of them and they can't think or feel pain, probably. Eh, who cares anyway, gotta eat something!)

Due to the limitations of operating at a loss, a demerit is unavoidable. The problem is having to constantly fine tune the balance in order to do the least harm. And yet even that is a self-appointed right and responsibility in lack of anything else.

[-] bruhsoulz@lemmy.ml 10 points 2 months ago

Theres no such thing as "too much privacy" but at same time too much privacy can make it near impossible to catch pedos and shit like that :/

[-] S13Ni@lemmy.studio 8 points 2 months ago

Equally related to work, I'm someone who has been quiet quitting for a while, and generally have rather "Graeberistic" view about work.

But I simultaneously want to be very competent at what I do, and get easily annoyed by incompetence. I slack of as much as I can if my employer treats me badly, but when I actually do something I want to do it well.

My line of work is IT / Audio, but in a job which I hopefully quit really soon for new one.

[-] MonkeMischief@lemmy.today 6 points 2 months ago

You make plenty of sense here. It's all about intrinsic vs. extrinsic motivation right?

For some reason whenever I tried to excel and take pride in my work or invent small improvements to things, I was either rewarded with nothing but higher expectations without higher compensation, or more often, I was just shut down entirely and told to shut up and get back to grinding.

None of that romanticized "I like your style, kid howabout a raise?" hollywood crap happened to me!

I think people more often than not want to do well, they want to be good at something, get better at it, take pride in their work. Being a complete layabout is exhausting!

But just like you, I got to the point of saving my passion for my own projects, and just doing what's most visible in the job description to not get fired, because I got real tired of being actively punished for making an effort.

[-] S13Ni@lemmy.studio 3 points 2 months ago

Yeah I have been shut down so often it has made me apathetic towards my job, as usually within few months we have a problem because we didn't do what I told to do.

Even without intrinsic motivation, I think in certain tasks it's unethical to be careless.

I used to work in kitchens. Hated it. But still be extra careful with allergies and special diets and hygiene, because not doing so might affect people negatively, people who don't have anything to do with why I hate my job.

It can be same in more abstract ways in somewhere like IT or audio, like taking care of cyber security.

But when that doesn't apply, slack off as hard as I can.

[-] HatchetHaro@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 2 months ago

Gun control in the US.

Gun control would normally work in any other country, but guns are so ingrained in American culture and history that it is infeasible to simply just implement gun control and expect everything to work.

Couple that gun culture with a whole lot of systemic issues (capitalism, remnants of racist laws, wealth inequality, healthcare, police brutality, education system, firearms safety) and you get the gun violence rampant across the US.

Gun control won't work on its own. If you want to get rid of guns, you gotta fix everything at the same time, which won't happen because half the country would vote against progress and their own interests in the name of "owning the libs".

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[-] n3m37h@sh.itjust.works 5 points 2 months ago

I worked at Canadian Tire for approximately 5 years out of high-school and I had pretty well your opinion happen. I was tool knowledgeable as I grew up with a machine shop in my front "yard" (420' driveway). Yet I got thrown into sports, my manager was fantastic to work with and be around in general. Then there was the assisnt manager who messed with schedules just to get us in trouble. Barely knew anything and was just a terrible person. She was a smoker and so were the majority of the managers, who all were decent people except the power tripping seasonal manager (who got me fired for being good at my job, got a bonus the first week I worked at that store)

Other than a few dicks for customers, it was a decent job, paid $4 hr more than minimum wage (8.50 at the time)

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Abortion should be legal in all cases, but a fetus becomes a unique individual when there is clear, identifiable, brainwave activity.

If there's no brainwave activity, it's not a life, no matter how many weeks old pre-birth or how many years old after birth.

[-] davad@lemmy.world 5 points 2 months ago

Abortion should be legal in all cases

The thread replying to the parent comment is a good example of how restricting abortion access requires people to arbitrarily decide definitions of when a fetus "becomes human."

It's best to leave that decision up to the pregnant person in consultation with their medical providers.

but a fetus becomes a unique individual when there is clear, identifiable, brainwave activity.

If there's no brainwave activity, it's not a life, no matter how many weeks old pre-birth or how many years old after birth.

This is another arbitrary definition of personhood. That doesn't mean it's wrong. But there are other (equally arbitrary) definitions that are reasonable too. (And there are a bunch of unreasonable definitions, but we don't need to go into those.)

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

The one that chaps my ass is the whole "abortion stops a beating heart".

Yeah, and with the appropriate chemicals and electricity, you can make a heart beat in a petrie dish, that doesn't make it "life".

https://www.theguardian.com/science/2014/feb/02/stem-cell-research-heart-disease-long-qt

On the flip side, I personally had an incident back in January where my heart stopped for 8 seconds. There have been a few other smaller pauses since then, 4 seconds here, 5 seconds there.

So clearly a heartbeat isn't entirely what makes you, you.

[-] howrar@lemmy.ca 3 points 2 months ago

At what point would you consider it to be sufficiently brain so that its activity is brainwave activity?

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

When the activity can be actively measured. Terry Schiavo, for example, stopped being a person when her brain stopped.

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Terri_Schiavo_case

[-] howrar@lemmy.ca 6 points 2 months ago

You can measure electromagnetic activity in an unfertilized egg. The question is when does this activity become brainwave activity.

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[-] Etterra@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

You can't fix stupid (in America), but you also can't stop it from doing catastrophic damage.

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