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Spinal Meningitis - Ween

That should clear the place out.

[–] Alice@beehaw.org 3 points 4 days ago

Had a woman invite me out to karaoke, but I don't think we're compatible long term so I'm taking notes from this thread.

[–] damdy@lemm.ee 10 points 5 days ago

Right now, as someone not from the US, star spangled banned would ruin the evening more than anything else I could think of. Everyone can recognize it, arguments would follow.

[–] Sprinks@lemmy.world 24 points 6 days ago (1 children)

In the arms of an angel....

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Instrumental version of Tequila

[–] Hossenfeffer@feddit.uk 23 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)
[–] white_nrdy@programming.dev 10 points 6 days ago

"Hey hey wait. Let's throw in one It's Not Unusual"

[–] ZDL@ttrpg.network 11 points 5 days ago

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald. It's a Debbie Downer of a song, it lasts forever, and it gets really repetitive.

[–] hihi24522@lemm.ee 18 points 6 days ago
[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Saw this irl once. Two dudes, totally tone-deaf decide to sing Aqualung by Jethro Tull...

...as a duet.

Same bar had a dude that would sing Disney princess songs every night. He never went home alone.

Shout out to Dante's in Seattle!

[–] Nusm@yall.theatl.social 19 points 6 days ago (4 children)

The Wreck of the Edmund Fitzgerald by Gordon Lightfoot. A jaunty little sea shanty about a ship sinking in a storm and killing everyone on board.

https://youtu.be/FuzTkGyxkYI

[–] gramie@lemmy.ca 5 points 6 days ago

I sang that two nights ago, at our local open mic. Went over very well, but then again the average age was probably over 70.

[–] Klordok@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago

It's a banger though, as long as everyone in the bar is over 35.

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[–] LuxSpark@lemmy.cafe 17 points 6 days ago (2 children)
[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 11 points 6 days ago

That's a sing-along song in our local bar, lol!

[–] captain_aggravated@sh.itjust.works 4 points 5 days ago (2 children)

By the Devinyls, or just in general?

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[–] higgsboson@dubvee.org 17 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (1 children)

Bloodhound Gang - A Lapdance Is So Much Better When the Stripper is Crying

https://m.soundcloud.com/bloodhound-gang/a-lap-dance-is-so-much-better

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[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 15 points 6 days ago

Urgh just whatever I think might be fun at the time, it's always bad

[–] CaptKoala@lemmy.ml 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Wrecking Ball- Miley Cyrus.

I could butcher anything, but that, I'll butcher it with glee.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 3 points 5 days ago

If you would have said Party in the USA, I would be up there butchering it with you.

[–] Dogiedog64@lemmy.world 11 points 6 days ago

Baby Shark, followed by Wonderwall.

[–] HeartyOfGlass@lemm.ee 11 points 6 days ago (2 children)

The Mountain Goats' "No Children", but very intensely.

[–] Klordok@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago

I would be so hyped that someone is playing The Mountain Goats in public I would probably join in.

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[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 12 points 6 days ago (1 children)
[–] Skua@kbin.earth 10 points 6 days ago (4 children)

If you're in Scotland when you do this people will sing along with you

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[–] KittenBiscuits@lemm.ee 11 points 6 days ago

I repeat the last song.

Or anything from an obscure screamo band.

[–] SLVRDRGN@lemmy.world 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)

My Heart Will Go On - Celine Dion

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[–] sik0fewl@lemmy.ca 6 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Meat Loaf - I'd Do Anything For Love - the original album version where there's around 20s of motorcycle sounds and vocals start around 1:50.

[–] waz@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

This was my favorite song to play on a jukebox back in the day. I could put it on 3 times in a row for a dollar at the local bar, and it would take over the sound system for over half an hour. There are enough transitions in it that it flows back into itself fairly well.

[–] Grimy@lemmy.world 9 points 6 days ago (1 children)

The Great Gig in The Sky by Pink Floyd.

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[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 9 points 6 days ago

Somebody that i used to know

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 3 points 5 days ago

I did this with “Everybody Hurts”. Everybody went outside.

[–] Aggravationstation@feddit.uk 4 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

In the UK any of the below should do the trick, with the added bonus of possibly getting you stabbed and/ or glassed:

Gary Glitter - My Gang

Rolf Harris - Jake the Peg

Lostprophets - Last Train Home

[–] MTK@lemmy.world 3 points 5 days ago

"what what in the butt" with the dance, no censorship to save them when it's live.

[–] Albbi@lemmy.ca 8 points 6 days ago

Goodbye my Lover by James Blunt would work to kill a hyped up mood.

[–] gedaliyah@lemmy.world 8 points 6 days ago (3 children)
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[–] son_named_bort@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[–] RowRowRowYourBot@sh.itjust.works 7 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago) (3 children)

"Loving You" as Im a guy who cannot sing and absolutely does not have Minnie Ripperton's range. It would be horrific and I would lean into it with all my might.

https://youtu.be/9I3UTG1dSTc

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[–] nsrxn@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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[–] inlandempire@jlai.lu 4 points 5 days ago

The Smallest Church in Saint-Saens

[–] tiefling@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 6 days ago
[–] KammicRelief@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Weird Al.

Or Eminem.

Or Weird Al's Eminem parody.

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Blurred Lines

[–] wildncrazyguy138@fedia.io 6 points 6 days ago (2 children)

Alice’s restaurant- Arlo Guthrie

[–] NakariLexfortaine@lemm.ee 6 points 6 days ago

If that kills the vibe, you got the wrong crowd.

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[–] brap@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago (1 children)
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