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Original question by: @Mr_Stellar@lemm.ee

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[–] GooberEar@lemmy.wtf 2 points 1 day ago

Sure. Sometimes things touch your soul when you're open to it or vulnerable.

[–] Bosht@lemmy.world 9 points 1 day ago

Robin Williams. I grew up knowing his more kid-friendly side as the voice of Genie and Batty Koda, his role in Jumanji, etc. Then growing up saw him in films like What Dreams May Come, Patch Adams, Mrs. Doubtfire. When I heard the news he not only died, but by suicide because the man suffered from a severe mental illness it really cut me to the core. It was like losing a favorite silly uncle. I still haven't been able to bring myself to watch any of his movies as I fear it will make me emotionally unstable again. Every year since it seems like I find out more about how much of an amazing character he was, and I'm glad he left a legacy, but god damn does it suck.

[–] randomname@sh.itjust.works 14 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

That toddler that got shot in a road rage incident a while back. I broke down when I read that the child said "Mommy, my tummy hurts" before he died. I think it hit me so hard because I have a little brother who was around that age at the time.

[–] Bosht@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago

That is really heart wrenching, oh my god.

[–] Strider@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

Marie Fredriksson of Roxette, especially with the circumstance of her illness.

It was just a kind of perfect music.

[–] aislopmukbang@sh.itjust.works 46 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Mr Rogers. Was like a light went out in the world. Robin Williams came close. Each a symbol of joy and kindness.

[–] OceanSoap@lemmy.world 5 points 2 days ago

Robin Williams was my first big celebrity cry.

[–] mechoman444@lemmy.world 3 points 2 days ago

Carrie Fisher really hit me hard. I don't know why. I guess she's always just has a soft spot in my heart.

[–] arararagi@ani.social 1 points 1 day ago

Roberto Gómez Bolaños, El Chavo and Chapolin are a big deal here in Brazil and crossed 2 generations, we spent our entire childhood watching both of them everyday on tv, his death was huge blow.

[–] dumbass@leminal.space 30 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Robin Williams, I legit cried for a day and couldn't think or hear his name for a long time without getting upset again.

Still sad that he's gone.

[–] thejoker954@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

It's still hard for me to watch movies he's in. Just reminds me he's no longer around.

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[–] naught101@lemmy.world 26 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Douglas Adams and Terry Pratchett. Because or seemed like they still had more to contribute

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 1 points 1 day ago

On the subject of authors, Robert Pirsig. His book made a bigger impact on me than any other, and I constantly re-read it anytime I feel lost or depressed or in need of some kind advice. It's the kind of advice I wish my dad had given me. Losing him was like losing the dad I wish I'd had.

[–] yyyesss@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I'm reading through Discworld for the first time now. Terry's genius cannot be overstated. Each next book is an absolute revelation (well. Eric was good not maybe not a revelation...). The way the characters grow and become individuals, seemingly with their own real lives. It hurts to know Sir Terry will never be able to tell us more about this fantastical, commentary-laden, hilarious world.

GNU Sir Terry Pratchett.

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[–] benignintervention@lemmy.world 26 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Yes, hardcore for Steve Irwin. His shows taught me what love is, since I never really saw it at home

[–] WeevilFriend@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

Seconded for this. I actually bonded with my partner over our intense idolization of Steve Irwin as kids lol

[–] Sp00kyB00k@lemmy.world 15 points 2 days ago

Grant Imahara. I don't have to explain myself with this one. He made me childhood and his absolute inventiveness, curiousity and enthousiasm just was so terrific.

[–] dwemthy@lemmy.world 23 points 3 days ago (4 children)

Was teary all day at work when Terry Pratchett died

[–] yyyesss@lemmy.world 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

My comment copied from above:

I'm reading through Discworld for the first time now. Terry's genius cannot be overstated. Each next book is an absolute revelation (well. Eric was good not maybe not a revelation...). The way the characters grow and become individuals, seemingly with their own real lives. It hurts to know Sir Terry will never be able to tell us more about this fantastical, commentary-laden, hilarious world.

GNU Sir Terry Pratchett

[–] thejoker954@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago (1 children)
[–] fouloleron@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

GNU Terry Pratchett

[–] MelodiousFunk@slrpnk.net 9 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I was okay that day, but lost it while reading The Shepherd's Crown.

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[–] Monster96@lemmy.world 22 points 3 days ago

My second year of University a guy fell off the roof and didn't make it. Everyone was sent home while they cleaned everything up. That was the first time I cried for someone I didn't know.

[–] Curiousfur@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Steve Irwin was my first, but Chris Cornell and Chester Bennington back to back definitely got me hard. I choked up when LP played numb with nobody at the mic during their remembrence concert

[–] Lianodel@ttrpg.network 1 points 1 day ago

Yeah, that moment hit hard. I expected someone to come in and sing his part, then... oh. Right. Of course. :(

[–] cb900f_bodhi@lemmynsfw.com 15 points 3 days ago

Anthony Bourdain. Still have a hard time watching his shows. Haven't yet watched the last season of Parts Unknown

[–] Owlboi@lemm.ee 13 points 3 days ago

A man only dies when he is forgotten.

Technoblade never dies.

[–] andrewta@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago

Actual cry? No.

But very close. Robin Williams

[–] NONE_dc@lemmy.world 18 points 3 days ago (1 children)

When Akira Toriyama died I had to take some time off in the middle of work and go to the bathroom to cry. I think the reasons are obvious if you know who the man was. Here in Latin America Dragon Ball is almost a religion, you see the Z warriors wherever you look. Akira's pen drew the childhood of millions around the world for several generations, it is difficult to find someone here who has not been marked by his work. Even now my heart still crumples a little at the memory of him.

May you rest in peace, Master. As long as your memory lives on, you will remain immortal.

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I was watching American Manhunt: Osama Bin Laden the other day and the details about 9/11 really got me emotional. The suddenness and intensity of the attack, the efforts of first responders and government agencies, and the heroism of the passengers of flight 93 affected me very deeply.

I remember seeing another video once of firefighters hearing the sound of people jumping from the towers and crashing into the roof of the building they were in. Absolutely unimaginable how that day must have felt to the people that were there...

[–] Tikiporch@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Chester Bennington made me sad.

[–] FreedomAdvocate@lemmy.net.au 11 points 3 days ago

No, but the closest I've ever gotten to it was Steve Irwin. I had the pleasure of meeting him a few times and he was just the most genuine, caring guy you could ever meet. His entire being was dedicated to making the world a better place.

[–] xploit@lemmy.world 11 points 3 days ago

Alan Turing, they did him him real fucking dirty for way too fucking long

[–] TrueStoryBob@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

Leonard Nimoy was a pretty tough celebrity death for me. It was like losing a super cool uncle, a person who'd been in my life for my whole life, but hadn't seen in a long while, was dead.

[–] sangriaferret@sh.itjust.works 9 points 3 days ago

David Bowie. He was such a cultural touchstone that influenced so much artistry on top of being a brilliant artist himself. I lived in New York City when he died and the stoop of his apartment turned into a makeshift memorial with countless people contributing objects that held significance to their relationship with him. I was so overwhelmed to see it that I cried.

[–] Bishma@discuss.tchncs.de 12 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Not usually, but Chris Cornell hit me hard. I had no connection other than loving his music and everything he did for Seattle musicians in the late 80s and early 90s, but I still think about it.

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[–] Nomecks@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 days ago (2 children)

I can't remember if I cried when I read about his widowed bride, but something touched me deep inside.

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[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 12 points 3 days ago

George Carlin was the only one I ever felt attached enough to, to have really felt a sense of loss by his passing.

[–] SleepyBear@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Robin Williams and Steve Irwin hit me the hardest for sure

[–] Chozo@fedia.io 6 points 3 days ago

Robin Williams for me, too. I've often used comedy as a coping mechanism for depression, so I always looked up to comedians who spoke openly about their mental struggles. His death hit me really hard, because I thought to myself "if he - with his wealth and fame and success and adoration and near-infinite support system - couldn't make it, then what hope do I have with none of that?" That news really made me spiral for a bit.

I later learned about the Lewy body dementia diagnosis, and that definitely changed things for me.

[–] AlexisFR@jlai.lu 7 points 3 days ago

Totalbiscuit / John Bain. He died twice, physically in 2018 then most of his legacy in the following years.

[–] hotdogthud@lemmy.world 8 points 3 days ago

Adam Yauch.

Was sad for weeks and took me years to even listen to Beastie Boys again without getting weepy. Here was a guy that was a standard issue kid, making obnoxious music for laughs and fun, that showed the world how to really grow up and mature. We were supposed to get a couple more decades of his creativity and unstoppable kindness before it got taken from us.

I will forever miss MCA

[–] dditty@lemm.ee 1 points 2 days ago

I did when Mac Miller ODed, actually. Another friend of mine had also ODed somewhat recently and I was a huge fan of Mac's music.

[–] sneezycat@sopuli.xyz 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Kentarou Miura. Berserk is my favorite manga, I discovered it while going through a really tough time, and it helped me a lot. I read it a couple times over and over, and I impatiently waited for new chapters.

A couple years later, Miura-sensei died of heart issues, aged 54. Felt like a slap on the face, after all those jokes about how he was never going to finish Berserk because he was playing too much idol master. I still cry about it from time to time, when I have a bad day.

Rest in peace.

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[–] Semi_Hemi_Demigod@lemmy.world 9 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Technoblade.

I’d watched him with my kids for years. He’s an amazing player and a really smart guy. I got my kid a leather bound copy of “The Art of War” because of the Potato Wars. Our shared love of video games, especially Minecraft, kept me involved with them during a pretty bad divorce.

So when they came to me, tears in their eyes, I wept as well. Because he was a connection to my children. And I wept for Technodad, as any other father would.

Congrats on 20 mill, Techno. May you never die.

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[–] AnalogNotDigital@lemmy.wtf 5 points 2 days ago

Robin Williams.

That man was a staple of my childhood, and him passing felt like the final nail in the coffin to where my childhood ended.

[–] S_H_K@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 3 days ago (3 children)

I cried for Ronnie James Dio I wanted to meet him so hard. Fuck cancer...

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