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I'm about 12,950 Kilometers from my spawn point, according to Google Earth. That place is not "home" since I barely have any memories of it, and left the country during primary school.

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[–] hakunawazo@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Home is where the close ones are.
Beside that, birth place is 151 km away.

[–] sunglocto@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 5 days ago

16 miles right now.

[–] lunarul@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Over 10,000km. This is home, it's where my kids were born and are growing up. But there's also "back home", where I spent more than half of my life, where I met my wife, and where both our families are other than the two of us and our children.

About 30 miles, couple towns over. We moved away when I was 5, and back to roughly where I live now when I was 9. I consider my current city to be much more my home than my spawn point. Spawn point is in a pretty boring red county.

[–] Mac@mander.xyz 2 points 5 days ago

~2250 miles

Visiting the area feels like going home. I don't belong in my current location and i hate it here.

[–] ThisIsNotHim@sopuli.xyz 2 points 5 days ago

A few hours. For me home is always a few things: my current residence, the place I grew up, and any place I slept last night that I'll sleep again tonight.

They don't all mean the same thing, but let's go home could mean any of those.

[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 1 points 4 days ago

So many location based questions here lately. Little sus ngl

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

Hard to say, as my "spawn point," was decommissioned a few years ago, and is currently being dismantled. I suspect the medical deck is long gone from the ship.

"Home" has, for me, always referred to where I currently live.

[–] Witchfire@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

About 6k km, vertically. Basically went from the middle of the planet to the tip.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 1 points 5 days ago

So... Born on a submarine?

/kidding

[–] ultranaut@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

I'm more than a thousand miles away and it never felt like home. The few times I've been back reinforced my decision to leave.

[–] GuyFawkes@midwest.social 2 points 5 days ago

Right now I’m 9.8 miles away. Looking up how far away from it I live…looks like 10 miles. So now I’m wondering if I just spend my life rotating in a 10 miles away radius from my spawn point.

I live about 100km from my hometown. It's where I was born and I lived there on and off for about half my life but I no longer think of it as home.

[–] jordanlund@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

285 miles, 459 km. But no, absolutely not. My home town is where I grew up, not where I was born.

[–] MagicShel@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 days ago

Looks like 1126 miles. I had to guess the hospital, though. It was never home. Probably left within days never to return.

Other than that, lived my whole life within a 12 mile diameter except when I was in the Army and a 5 year stint in DC.

[–] urata@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

About 120 miles. I am still familiar with the town, I've been back several times, but it's not my home. I've lived in the city I live in now for a little over 30 years.

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

About 30 miles. I guess I'd consider it local, but I've never considered that specific town home.

[–] Zorsith@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 days ago

A bit over 1200 miles. Haven't been to Texas since before i could read, once got close enough in Oklahoma to seat the GIANT WALL OF HEAT to the south and promptly said fuck that. No desire to ever be there.

[–] Outdated4134@lemmy.zip 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

~230 kilometers. I'm home now. That's not home. Left there at age 13.

[–] FerretyFever0@fedia.io 2 points 5 days ago

2307.9 miles. Don't remember Northern California at all.

[–] blarth@thelemmy.club 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)
[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 2 points 5 days ago

About 1000.

Lightyears? 👽

[–] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 2 points 5 days ago

2208 km, moved when I was in my early 20s. Still have friends and family there so I visit occasionally, but I have no desire to move back.

[–] Arkouda@lemmy.ca 1 points 5 days ago

I am 9.4km away from where I was born, in a different city, and I don't consider where I was born my home.

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