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[–] Swedneck@discuss.tchncs.de 1 points 1 day ago

what do you really need to be up to date with these days? you're gonna find out about really major changes anyways, just focus on the local things that you have even the slightest chance of maybe potentially slightly influencing.

shit's fucked, shit sucks, we all know that, we don't need to constantly remind ourselves that shit's fucked, instead just do whatever you can to make the world a better place. And that starts with making sure you're as mentally healthy as possible, which does not include making yourself feel awful.

[–] JadenSmith@sh.itjust.works 8 points 6 days ago

I block most news sources and get the jist of events via memes.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 10 points 6 days ago

Are those who are well adjusted to a unjust world really the sane ones?

[–] lemmy_outta_here@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

This is crazy, but i read the news on paper. I have a couple of subscriptions to magazines with good reporting, but you could also hit up your library to read for free. For one thing, print journalism is a lot more in-depth and balanced than the outrage-mill crap i find online.

On Lemmy i read headlines only in case something happens that i stay current, but i rarely read a whole article. This contains my news consumption to a small portion of my day.

Plus, Trump says 64 stupid lthings a week. I read all 64 in 1 hour each week and get it over with, instead of poisoning myself with it several times a day.

[–] Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com 8 points 6 days ago (2 children)

I have a large broken chest freezer I climb into, I shut the lid and scream

[–] moseschrute@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

So thats how ice scream is made!

[–] idunnololz@lemmy.world 5 points 6 days ago* (last edited 6 days ago)

I block news from all social media. Then I chose 2 news networks I thought had decent reporting and wasn't too bias. Every morning I read news from the 2 sources and that is ALL the news I consume for that day. That's it.

If this is too overwhelming even you can try starting with 1 news source. I find that news is mostly still pretty boring (in a good way) if you only look at 1 source.

[–] scarabic@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago

I remind myself that news media have a vested interest in keeping me outraged and on the edge of my seat, addicted to consuming their every update.

There are definitely things worth getting outraged over. But on top of that we have an outrage industry harvesting our attention and fear for ad dollars.

So I remind myself not to spiral down the doomclick drain. If something is THAT important I’m going to hear about it. I don’t need to be checking a news app daily.

On top of this I do what I can to support change. We donate to Ukraine and Gaza relief efforts. We vote. We make our political views known to those around us to support right action in them as well (not talking about politics is what Trumpers want - they want cover for their fascist hate and violence - I make damn sure that everyone I know is aware that there’s no room for that shit in my life).

Conserve your strength. Do everything material that you can, and don’t spend yourself past that point.

But that first part is important: DO EVERYTHING YOU CAN.

[–] Sunsofold 3 points 6 days ago

Insert Invincible 'you don't' meme here

But seriously, you can't. You either choose to be ignorant of 99.99% of the world or to be ignorant of 99.9% of the world and live in a perpetual scramble to absorb all the disparate information. Most news isn't worth knowing in and of itself, only serving as data to construct deeper understanding, so unless you are going to actually connect the dots, it's a better use of your time to let the world act as a filter and only pay attention to what hangs around long enough to get through to you.

[–] AA5B@lemmy.world 2 points 5 days ago

This too shall pass. I take comfort that the pendulum of politics has always swung back and forth. This moment of insanity should swing back to rebuilding, and progressive changes.

When I was in college, we had “the midnight scream”. During finals, entire dorms would open their windows at midnight and just scream. It was very effective at venting frustration, allowing us all to refocus on studying. Perhaps that’s what’s happening now: we’re all just screaming in frustration.

[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 3 points 6 days ago

Step 1: remove all news feeds from your life.

Step 2: live your life. Be happy. Have fun.

Step 3: if anything worth knowing actually happens, it will filter in through your social networks.

[–] KeenFlame@feddit.nu 4 points 6 days ago

You do something, anything, about the shit you disagree with. Usa stops famine support? Fuck you, Unicef is not going to die on my watch. Etc.

[–] lemmyknow@lemmy.today 3 points 6 days ago

My news comes mainly from Lemmy, Wikipedia, sometimes Wikinews, maybe other people, and short daily podcasts. The fun radio podcasts are currently on break (though they're less 'news', more current topics made funny), but I sometimes also listen to a short daily news podcast.

Lemmy is by far the worst source, because 'Murican-centrism. So much US spam. If I could easily filter out the US off Lemmy, I'd do it in a jiffy. I'd even be willing to cut off English entirely. Or leave Lemmy, touch grass. The latter seems to be the most likely option, from what I know of Lemmy.

With Wikipedia, and Wikinews, I append a relevant language code to the url, like xx.wikipedia.org, and get stuff in my language, less 'Murican. I sometimes do that in other languages I know (including English).

Podcasts are relevant by location and/or language, depending on the podcast (they sometimes bring up US stuff, but that's far less annoying than Lemmy's spam, and sometimes actually relevant (for the news one, at least))

[–] prole@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago
[–] Wolf@lemmy.today 3 points 6 days ago (1 children)

That's my secret Cap.

I've always been insane! 🤪

[–] Bahnd@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

Sanity is over-rated, now if yall dont mind. Im going to spend the rest of my day swimming in a lake that thinks its a gin+tonic.

[–] ristoril_zip@lemmy.zip 1 points 5 days ago

For me it's just the knowledge that I have around 100 total years on this planet and a limited amount of reach in terms of geography, relationships, etc.

I can't swing an election by myself, but with me and millions of my closest friends we can. But only if we all pull together. It's like a paradox but not quite.

[–] Hikermick@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Scan headlines but only read what affects me. These days we hear about all the awful things that happen around the word but our ability to do something about them is still the same as a hundred years ago

[–] aceshigh@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

I’m not sure you can. I think boundary setting is important and also contributing to causes you care about. It’s the difference between things you can control and things you can’t, and letting go of the things you can’t control.

[–] AI_toothbrush@lemmy.zip 2 points 6 days ago

A ridiculous amount of copeing mechanisms and my supportive close family and friends where we keep eachother sane. Growing up in all this bullshit, you get used tovit somewhat.

[–] zeca@lemmy.ml 1 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Get into taking news slowly. Maybe set one day in the week for you to catch up on what happened a bit. And resist the urge to go checking for news constantly. Getting news from social media make it seem like a lot is going on all the time, but its mostly a lot of noise and many rehashings of the same "news" (especially if you get them through memes in social networks). Getting news on sunday is cool because you let matters cool down a bit and people have had the time to express what has happened better (theres less journalism on the weekends I guess).

[–] m3t00@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

news - disinformation bureau. might read headlines. can't watch national news with daily disasters

[–] dastanktal@lemmy.ml 1 points 6 days ago

Don't watch mainstream media and get some of your news from independent sources, like Ken Klippenstein. I get most of my news from AP News and then from the Politics section in Lemmy.

[–] bitchkat@lemmy.world 1 points 6 days ago

I bought a camper van that is useful to focus on when I need a break. Lots of projects to work on and then actual trips.

[–] Flax_vert@feddit.uk 0 points 6 days ago

Reading the Revelation to St John

[–] Remember_the_tooth@lemmy.world 153 points 1 week ago
[–] DoubleDongle@lemmy.world 66 points 1 week ago

It helps a lot that the assholes are not doing well. The Epstein thing has made it easier to breathe.

Going to protests helps too. The energy of the crowd really feels good and assures me that the people are on my side.

[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 60 points 1 week ago

its all about setting your boundaries being able to say thats enough for today. being able to ask yourself if what you are listening to is new facts being relayed to you or is it speculation to fill air and stop listening if it's the latter.

[–] edgemaster72@lemmy.world 54 points 1 week ago
[–] naught101@lemmy.world 42 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Activism, contributing to your community, making the world a better place. The crazy-making part is that you know it's crap, and that you feel like you have no agency to make it better, right? Well, doing something to make the world better makes it feel more tolerable, even if the bit that you're working on isn't related to the specific badness that you're paying attention to on the news right now.

And yeah, there's always the possibility that what you're doing backfires, or has no effect, but if you don't do anything at all, then there's no possibility of having a good effect. Also, obviously no one normal person can fix everything, you just pick a bit that seems suited for you and work on that.

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[–] sixtoe@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 1 week ago

I'm not. Homeless, trans, old, disabled. I am the fuckin news. I take my meds and do my best to keep an even keel but sanity is long gone. LOL @ DOOMSCROLLING wtf eat good and enjoy your pillow and hug your friends if you still got any. its not your fault. i love you. be safe everybody.

[–] DeathByBigSad@sh.itjust.works 23 points 1 week ago

I ignore the news, because I'm probably dying withing a few years, so I'm just chillin' and enjoying whatever's left.

Don't need to make depression worse, I'm not a politician, I can't change anything.

I'm not a cis white dude (I'm Chinese-American), its not my fight. Like what am I supposed to do? Protest, get a lot of attention from the government, and then get labeled a "CCP Spy" get set to some gulag. Then they'll raid Chinatown and pillage everything. Then some of the first-gen inmigrants are gonna go on wechat and blame me for "stirring the pot". I mean, can you imagine if Thomas Matthew Crooks was a gay black guy? It would've been so much worse. So much scapegoating. If I do anything, they'll just scapegoat everyone that looks like me.

So good luck y'all, my health is deteriorating, don't have the brain energy to take action, and I've already accepted death, literally hurts my brain to think.

[–] antlion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 21 points 1 week ago (1 children)

The news is primarily billionaire propaganda. It does not add value to your life. When it’s important you’ll hear about it, and then you can read up. You don’t have to be the first to know. Nothing bad will happen to you for being less informed.

[–] turtlesareneat@discuss.online 1 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Good news readers can help you get lots of the content you want with only a quick passing glance at the headlines so you can still carry a conversation/contemplate the inescapability of this planet

[–] antlion@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 6 days ago

If somebody talks about world news or politics, I’d rather drop the conversation. Willful ignorance is about maintaining a good state of mind, and that includes not talking to some people about such topics.

[–] AngryRobot@lemmy.world 20 points 1 week ago
[–] csverdad@midwest.social 16 points 1 week ago

I try to read an equal amount of theory and history as I do news. Context is everything. When you read about these bastards doing evil deeds, read too about Mussolini hanging from a bridge. I enjoy learning about coups perpetrated by the CIA last century (there’s 70 of them) and all the horrendous fallout it caused so that I can taunt nationalists with facts about the nature of the empire that they’re only just now recognizing.

News is only a part of the process. Theory, praxis, cadre, in equal parts.

[–] darthelmet@lemmy.world 15 points 1 week ago (3 children)

That’s the neat part. I don’t. I’m depressed as fuck.

[–] UltraGiGaGigantic@lemmy.ml 2 points 6 days ago

I was depressed before I kept up on current and past events.

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[–] mia@feddit.org 13 points 1 week ago

You don’t.

I read news once a week and this is it

[–] rc__buggy@sh.itjust.works 13 points 1 week ago (3 children)

It's tough. Stick to AP, Reuters if you can afford it. The entire news environment is pretty crazy right now though. I think once the US gets through Trump the rest of the world might calm down some and we can all relax a little bit.

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[–] ef9357@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

I've figured that I can either be informed or happy. Not both.

[–] 1D10@lemmy.world 12 points 1 week ago

I'm not sane I take my meds I only pay attention to non sensational news (Reuters,NPR,AP) I spend time with loved ones I have no interest in associating with conservatives.

[–] HubertManne@piefed.social 12 points 1 week ago

One day at a time and knowing that at some point I will no longer exist.

[–] OutlierBlue@lemmy.ca 11 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

This is exactly the problem and how we got into this mess in the first place. When we read terrible things are happening, instead of getting mad and doing something we choose to ignore it and pretend it's not happening. That allows the terrible people to keep doing whatever they want.

Sure, it's easier to ignore it now for your mental health, but when things get even worse, you'll be worse off too. It's worth some stress and pain now to prevent even more in the future.

If you don't like what you read in the news, organize and take action. Don't bury your head in the sand. It won't get better on its own.

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