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What smells you sense much stronger than other people or less than other people? What are some smells you really can't stand?

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[–] Nomad@infosec.pub 14 points 1 week ago (1 children)

I react to anything meant to cover smells. Like parfume, room spray, incense.... I loathe fabric softener for some reason.

[–] baines@lemmy.cafe 4 points 1 week ago

same, everyone stinks but those smells give me a headache

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Different body odors. I do combat sports so I can smell the difference between fresh sweat and people who haven't showered or washed their clothes. Chronically unwashed hands have a distinct smell.

[–] RandomUser@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago (2 children)

The smell of people in general. Not sweat as such, just that 'human' aroma. - hate it. Public transport is awful. Funnily enough, I can't differentiate between people, they all smell the same.

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 10 points 1 week ago

I'm no bloodhound but I can definitely tell people's smells apart. Especially if I've been to their house.

[–] reversedposterior@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Yeah human smells are pretty horrible

It's usually more the time than the smells themselves. Some of my coworkers will start heating their food at lunchtime, and i'll have to go walk the production floor for a half-hour or so until it kinda dies down again. It's not a bad food smell, but I eat later and it makes me cranky.

[–] HurlingDurling@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] Staden_@pawb.social 4 points 1 week ago (1 children)

unrelated, but sometimes my brain gets confused about smells, like when I was going to eat my lunch today, and my first reaction to the smell was like something in the food was rotten, but a second later I recognized it was just the smell of the rosé sauce (which I enjoy a lot).

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 2 points 1 week ago

I've had this happen in a not so nice way where I accidentally eat something spoiled

[–] knightly@pawb.social 4 points 1 week ago

I seem to smell everything sooner than folks around me, or at least I'm usually the first to comment on it.

Thankfully, there isn't much that irritates me other than the scent of any kind of decay.

Ammonia, amines, etc. Examples include urine, fish, decomposing material that is high in protein.

[–] idiomaddict@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I can smell fear/stress and it’s unpleasant. It’s almost a metallic odor, and I can’t decouple it from provoking either stress or visceral pity, depending on the context.

I absolutely can’t stand the smell of smoked meat or any kind of pork fat (super lean cuts smell fine to me, but bacon, sausage, or any fattier cuts are anathema to me). I didn’t grow up in a pork consuming household (my dad’s the same way), so it luckily didn’t come up often growing up and I’ve had an agreement with everyone I’ve lived with as an adult that they can cook whatever they like, as long as they wait until I’m out of the house for bacon and sausage and open the windows. Nobody’s really minded and I just shut and block my bedroom door if they really can’t wait. I can still smell it, but it’s bearable.

One year at thanksgiving, my dad smoked a turkey and it was incredibly bothersome to me, but I didn’t want to say anything, because that’s rude as fuck. By the time we were mostly done eating but hadn’t yet cleared the table, I was so overstimulated that I burst into tears and ran out of the room, saying I couldn’t stand the smell. It took me a few minutes in the front yard before realizing that I (f23 at the time) had put my boyfriend (m24) back at the table with my family in an awkward position, because everyone definitely thought I was pregnant.

My husband is an apprentice butcher, and when he does days at the slaughterhouse, he smells like a combination of fear and pork fat (and blood), and weirdly like the smell of skin after a day outside in the summer. That’s normally a mild smell, but it’s so intense that it somehow overwhelms the other scents. I don’t always hate it until I think about it. He hates the slaughterhouse days and as soon as his apprenticeship is over, he wants to work for a vegan butcher shop, but they don’t offer apprenticeships (and you have to be a certified butcher to work there), so he’s got another year to go at a normal butcher shop.

[–] possiblylinux127@lemmy.zip 3 points 1 week ago

I have a much weaker sense of smell than most people

[–] Bebopalouie@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago

Speaking of smells is there anyone else out there that can turn their sense of smell on or off? The best I can explain it is I have a flap that I close and poof no sense of smell. My wife says that is strange and not normal.

[–] CthuluVoIP@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Greek yoghurt. I can smell a container of it from across a room. I don’t hate it, but I can’t sleep in a room with a cup that hasn’t been rinsed out after being eaten.

[–] HorikBrun@kbin.earth 3 points 1 week ago

Smoke and any type of particulates are death to me. Candles, incense, scented laundry soap...

[–] gid@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 1 week ago

Pine disinfectant. It cuts through everything and makes me feel ill.

[–] Tehdastehdas@piefed.social 2 points 1 week ago

I get a migraine from some smells and mould dusts.

[–] Staden_@pawb.social 2 points 1 week ago
[–] zipzoopaboop@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Coffee and antibiotics. Disgusting

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 2 points 1 week ago (1 children)
[–] zipzoopaboop@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Then it'd just be milky antibiotics

[–] Canconda@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago
[–] Lexam@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I am super sensitive to smells and will throw up if exposed to the wrong ones. Formaldehyde will make me throw up immediately.

[–] swelter_spark@reddthat.com 1 points 1 week ago

I don't smell farts usually.

[–] Aeri@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Animal waste hits me harder than most people..

I like rain smell tho

[–] Lumelore@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago

When there's too many different food smells. I had a hard time in the school cafeteria as a kid and the noise was the worst but sometimes the food smells would get me too.

[–] jahtnamas@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

not vegan-friendlythere's this sort of hot stale smell that certain cuts of beef give off when being cooked that make me lose my appetite, does anyone know what i mean?

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

you're referring to https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Maillard_reaction

steak will properly cook and give the pleasent maillard reaction of the cooking sugars, where as ground been doesn't get the same reaction and just smells like you're boiling meat.

it's the same reason why a smash burger smells good, but just ground beef won't. sugars.

[–] jahtnamas@slrpnk.net 1 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

yeah that makes sense. earlier in the year when we had to heavily budget groceries, we'd end up getting packages of precut beef strips and lower quality ground beef and some of the meals prepared with them by my partner's mother were always really off. and yeah i think it's absolutely because they weren't seared if i understood this correctly.

another food-related one i've noticed: sometimes walking through the bread aisle, some types of tortillas seem to give off a strong stale smell as well. ETA: it's probably cornmeal actually. wet cornmeal has a horrid smell.

[–] Binette@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

grass. mowing the lawn for the first time was an experience to say the least

[–] distantsounds@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Pet food. Any kind (cat/dog/fish/etc) wet or dry, it doesn’t matter. I hate the smell.

Love animals, just not the smell of their food.

[–] pishadoot@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 week ago

Dog say

Mmmmm stinky, me like

[–] Fiivemacs@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

pet food smells like McDonald's.

Salmon makes me want to throw up

[–] lakemalcom@sh.itjust.works 1 points 1 week ago

Just mint alone or someone else's toothpaste breath. The smell of someone's saliva mixed with toothpaste is very gross to me

[–] hellfire103@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

Beechwood smoke (i.e. most hot dogs) and the smell of some cements are quite bad for me.